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break up
My boyfriend broke up with me about 7 or 8 months ago. We only went out for a little over a month. He broke up with me for another girl and it took me a while to get over because i still liked him. We managed to stay friends because we chill with the same group of people. Just a few days ago my friend told me how he was talking about how he doesn't even know why he went out with me and it was only because i had a "huge rack" and a "nice butt". And now its really been making me upset and i dont know why, what can i do?
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Go up to him and ask him if he really said that. And if he did, don't take that from him. Don't be friends with him and find another guy. He's stupid if he says stuff like that.
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he's a boy and thinks he's being completely b.a. by telling your friend that. ignore him and dont let it get to you, you can do better than that jerk.
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Thats a horrible thing to say and if an ex of mine told me that I would be pretty hurt. My advice is to not let it bother you..hes being a jerk! Tell him hes being a shallow idiot and you cant beleive he would say that. Only forgive him if he apologizes and reeally seems to mean it. If he doesnt apologize its his loss because hes a real loser for saying that. Keep your chin high and dont let people talk down to you. Always stick up for yourself and always carry yourself with pride and dignity. Its the best advice I can give anyone. Dont sweat him hun..your better than that!
-melissa-
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did you do something to make him mad?or have sex with him?becuase i think he is lying he wouldent stay with you that long then hate you.maybey you did somehting to make him mad just try talking to him
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It's okay for you to get upset with this, I would if I was in your position. The only reason, he can think of, why he went out with you was because you had a "huge rack" and a "nice butt". It's like he totally eliminated getting to know you at all, and just wanted to go out with you because of your looks.
The best thing you can probably do is call him on it, and ask him if it's true. If it is you need to say that it's not right for a guy to go out with a girl just because of how she looks, and that's it's totally pathetic and immature. Does he seriously think if every girl who lives in your town found out that's why he went out with a girl, that no other girl would want to even talk to him? How dumb.
Honestly, there's a ton of guys out there that are the total opposite. They're hard to find, but they're out there. Keep that in mind. Know not all guys are like him. For now though get you're feelings out and don't keep them inside. Please don't wallow if you're hurt, that's totally not worth it.
Good luck and I hope this helps you. If anything message me. :)
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This one guy i dated i was "inlove" with and after afew weeks he dumped me which took a while to get over. Then just as i started getting over him his bestfriend told me he only dated me because i was hot and he wanted a girlfriend so i kinda know how it feels. Your upset because you feel used, or thats how i felt. I cried my heart out and hated him for ages. You need to stay positive about the situation even though its bad. That guy didn't deserve you and it's a good thing your not with him because you probably would have ended up more hurt. You have so many greater qualities in yourself rather than just looks to give a guy and he was to stupid to realise that. Theres nothing much you can do but to just stay positive and go through the healing process. Over time you'll start to feel better and sure he'll still be a jerk but it won't matter as much. You'll find a guy who cherishes you for who you are and you'll know not to fall for any guys like that again. Im sorry about what happened but believe me you'll feel better after a while. Love xXxPuNki-PiXiExXx
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I'm sorry. First of all- he's shallow. Ignore him! Ignore him! Ignore him! He's a JERK! He's scum! He's everything else I wish I could say on here, that I can't actually say. Don't let one ex ruin your life, especially one that says he only went out with you because of your "nice butt". He won't get anywhere in life- and you can laugh about his stupidity. Let him say what he wants, but don't retaliate. Just leave him be and he'll end up screwing up his current relationship. Plus, I bet he's only saying that stuff because he doesn't want to admit that he actually regrets breaking up with you. Either way- he's nothing to worry over.
--Jack
(15/m)
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Boys are like that, they brag. And they say things they don't mean to seem all powerful and high up. Ignore it, don't let it make you feel bad. Just be glad that that stage in your life is over, find someone else, who appreciates you for you, not for the way you look. It probably makes you feel like guys only like you for the way you look, but not all boys are like that.
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