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I'm Edith. I'm optimistic, and i've learned from my mistakes, i believe everything happens for a reason.
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Age: 14
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homecoming is this saturday and i don't know what to do with my hair...i don't really want an up-do but any suggestions would do...i have long blonde hair, medium/light skin and blue/green eyes.....any advice?

oh and also my hair is naturally straight (but not like pin straight, just straight) and is usually hard to curl (link)
http://www.totalbeauty.com/content/gallery/p_17_styles

some of the hairstyles are updo's, but i think they are very cute.
hope i helped.


homecoming dance is this saturday and i dont really have the dress picked out but i might be wearing my cousins its blue and black, its pretty but i dont know how to do my hair! like what are some styles that would look cute that wouldn't involve me to go to a hair dresser also if you could list the things i need and how to do it that would be awesome! thanks. (link)
http://www.totalbeauty.com/content/gallery/p_17_styles

that website has some cute, and easy to hairstyles.
hope i helped!


I am a 15/M i am ok looking but i am really small in height and weight for my age group. I am horrible about talking to girls that i like and dont know how to approach them in the right way. What are some flirting tips that i can use to get girls to give me a chance. (link)
confidence is the key.
everyone is at least a little insecure about themselves, but don't show it.
even the hottest guy or the guy who gets all the girls is a little insecure, whether they admitted it or not.
but the fact that they come of as secure and confident makes them attractive.
as for flirting:
make eye contact with the girl.
actually talk to her, you have nothing to lose.
don't be afraid to approach a girl, how do you expect her to notice you, if you don't make yourself known.
good luck.


ok so im 15 female i would say and i was wondering like say you get your period one month on the 17th the next on the 18th i thought ur supposed to get ur period like ever month on the same day rite idontgetit???!! (link)
your period usually happens every 21-28 days, any time around that is healthy, sometimes it may take a little while longer due to stress.


Summer Spanish Packet with questions I have no idea how to answer.

La familia Pena
Padre: Teodoro Pena Soto
Madre: Dolores Chavez de Pena
Hijos: Andres y Catalina

The questions are like...
Cual es el apellido del papa de Teodoro?
I know what it means...just not the answer.
Help! Please identify all the parts of the names. there are more questions. Thank you so much. (link)
Ok so the family's last name is Pena.
Teodoro is the father.
And then the mother is Dolores, the children and Andres and Catalina.
the question is asking what's teodoro's father's last name.
i would guess it is Pena, as well, considering most people take their father's last name, unless something you've learned states other wise.
if you need more help feel free to ask.


what color would show up on a mediumish [sorry, i dont really know how to explain the color] brown eye? (link)
any color would show up, thats how contacts work, but if you want a natural color i wouldn't do a drastic change.


So i would like to take someones comment on myspace and use kinda like a picture under my about me how do i do that? (link)
for a pc press the key that says "prtscn" on the top row, open it in a photo editing program, such as "paint", and press paint which should be under the edit menu, save it and upload it to some kind of photo hosting sight.

if its another type of computer ask me.


starbucks and jamba juice have secret menus, right? what are they?

especially for starbucks - can you just order whatever you want? like make it up and they'll give it to you? how come people have favorites that arent on the menu? how do people come up with some of these combos? (link)
jamba juice:White Gummi Bear, Red Gummi Bear, Green Gummi Bear, Raspberry Dreamin', Pineapple Dreamin', Sourpatch Kid, Tropical Tango, Pacific Passion, Berry Depressing, Now and Later, Peanut Butter and Jelly, Apple Pie, Fruity Pebbles, Rainbow Sherbet, Strawberry Shortcake, Push Pop, Skittles, Andres' Surprise, and Lemonade Lightnin

starbuck:Starbucks will make you absolutely anything you want no matter how insane it is.

if you want more information
google it by putting "name of you place+secret menu"
hope i helped.


i'm with a guy, i didnt go to school with him, hes 18, im 15. so um we always text, but sometimes we get to the point where we have no idea what to talk about. and i have no idea like what subject to bring up.
any ideas to keep a convo going?

and how do you get him to call you?

thnx (link)
music
movies
sports
just like favorite things in general.
stories about growing up, whatever you feel comfortable talking about, also be comfortable being yourself.
why don't you call him.
or just casually tell him he should call you sometime.
hope i helped.


So basically, I'm still in love with my ex. He broke up with me because he 'couldn't handle a relationship', and then ended up hooking up with a few girls over the summer. He also started hanging out with Sally a lot more before and after the break up, and he said he did 'notice' her while we were dating. Now, he's still seeing this girl, and he likes her because she is 'nice, sweet, cute, and funny'. But then he tells me he enjoys spending time with me more than with her.

I feel kinda pathetic, but I want him back. And I really don't know how to go about it at this point.
So, I guess the question is: Is he gonna choose her when the time comes? and if so, How do I prevent that, if possible? (link)
honestly, don't go back to him, he seems like he isn't any good for you or your heart.
so you might as well start the healing process now, instead of getting yourself into another heart break.
i know it's going to be hard, but you deserve someone who won't tell you they aren't ready for a relationship, and then go off and have a thing with someone else.
basically he's saying you're not worth it, so don't treat him like he's worth it.
just think about it this was, would you rather be in a relationship with him, but know that he notices other girls when he's with you or would you rather be single and wait for a guy who treats you and acts like you're worth it.
hope i helped. good luck!


Hi Krystal im almost 16 years old, and i have been dating my boyfriend for 6 months. Hes always jealous, even when i hang out with my close girlfriends! Supposidly there was a rumor going around that he cheated on me with one of my best friends, he told me that she kissed him, and my ex bff said that this never happened, so i dnt know wut to believe! He sent me roses and cried for me to take him back. I did loose my virginity to him so its hard for me to let go. Im still young and since hes my first real bf its hard. He alwyas tells me that he loves me and if i have a problem he always helps me. I know hes a good person deep down but i just dont know if hes the right one for me. My mom and dad dislike him because of all the things that went on. But they obv dont know that i lost my virginity because that would be a differnt story. He deleted all the guys numbers out of my phone, begs for me to delete my myspace, ( i have no guy friends on there) im not aloud to talk to guys in school or go out with my friends, and if i do he has to complain about it. Hes nice to me untill something doesnt go his way, then he starts getting loud. He has NEVER hurt me in any way but i just feel that hes to controlling. I am still young and i dont know wut love is, but i do care about him and since hes older than me he tells me all the time i want to marry you and cute stuff like that. I go to all his family parties im close with his family, but i just need help becuase im so confused and who knows if hes cheating on me? i have no idea so can you please help me make a decision. Thanks so much! (link)
this might be a tad bit hard to hear and accept.
i have a feeling he might be cheating, and he's being overly protective and controlling because he feels like it's so easy for him to cheat so you might be doing the same.
in my opinion, this isn't a good and stable relationship.
why he make up that he cheated.
i know this seems difficult, but you need to get out of this relationship.
no one deserves to be controlled, and you are allowed to have other guy friends.


heeyyy...
i barely ever get hungry, but whenever im at home i just snack &&snack on whatever i can find! then im not hungry for dinner, but i eat a good sized meal anywayy. i know i'm not "fat", but i know i could have a nicer body if i could kick the snack attackk!!! i'm a dancer, so i get excercise ((i have class 3 times a week plus i practice on my own sometimes)) also, i'm going on a cruise in about 4 weeks. the only part of my body that i have a problem with is my belly... its not amazing. i already do sit ups every night, but do you have any suggestions to lose a little weight in a few weeks? please, dont just say "as long as your healthy it's ok." thanks, mandee!!! (link)
if you don't do sit ups properly, instead of slimming your belly down, it just becomes muscle, so you're stomach remains the same, but it gets hard due to the muscle.
so when you do sit ups, suck in your stomach.
as for the snacking, if you really can't help it, snack on vegetables like cucumber or fruits like apples which are high in water content and low in calories, so they're filling and healthy.
if you dont like fruits and vegetables all too much, try something like slicing a green apple and sprinkling sugar and cinnamon over it, or for cucumber lemon and salt.
if you want any more ideas feel free to email me at edithxhollywood@aol.com


so if a guy jacks off and gets cum on his fingers then he fingers you can you get pregnat (link)
it's very unlikely, but not completely impossible.
stay safe.


ok so this is pretty long. so about a year ago i was really bored so i went to this site my friend had told me about and i met this guy and i didnt think anything of it at the time you know, i was just talking to him then he asked my for my aim thing and i was like ok sure what could it hurt. anyways we got to talking and one night he told me he liked me and i thought about it and i wouldve never gone out with him like i didnt even know him. anyways. he was really sweet and idk i just thought he was cute and he had like all this stuff wrong with his life and i felt bad for him. and one night he was like everyday i sit here and cry over you because i know ill never find another girl like you i really love you and i was like WHOOAA and i felt bad so i was like ok ill go out with you like i didnt think it would last i just didnt want to make him feel bad. so we went through alot and i dont know its been a year and like weve broken up like 5 times but still its been like a year and i think i really love him and we ve talked on the phone and everything but i dont know. what i should keep doing. (link)
how old are you, first of all.
if you're like around the age of 16 or so, i would consider actually going out with guys you know.
right now is the time to have fun, experience new things, and by being with someone you don't really see, makes you miss out on what else is out there.
i've been in the same position, i called it quits after about 2 years, and i met guys in real life, and now i wouldn't go back to online dating.
online dating is nothing compared to real life, you don't know anything about the person, except for what persona they have created.
i'm not telling you not to stay with him.
you should just consider something else.
hope i helped.
good luck.


Okay a couple of months ago I had to choose between three guys: a cheating redneck, a gorgeous and thoughtful foreigner, or a loving and very cute hippie. Now I had already taken out the redneck, but I was stuck between the foreigner and the hippie. I chose the foreigner after not talking to my hippie for a couple of weeks, and the foreigner is now all different, not like bad and evil, but just odd. Now that he has this thing going on with another girl, I felt like I chose the wrong one. (link)
have you tried talking to the "hippie" one, obviously things didn't work out with the way you thought, so bring hippie back.
at least give a try and flirt with him, who knows maybe you can rekindle something with him.
good luck.


Hi, I'm a 15 yr old guy. I had something happen to me last night, and I would expect guys to do something like this, but these girls did something that blew my mind, and I'm trying to figure out why they would have done this. We just got back from church camp last night, and this really hot girl that I hung out with all week gave me her picture. I was walking from church to my house, and I stopped to use the bathroom at this gas station. My cell phone rang while I was in the bathroom, and when I reached in my pocket, I took her picture out and laid it on the toilet paper holder so I wouldn't wrinkle it when I got my phone out of my pocket. I forgot b/c I got mad at my mom for calling me wanting to know where I was and I accidentally left it there, and when I walked out, there was a line of like 4 college age girls waiting to use the bathroom next (There was only one bathroom for both guys and girls). I started walking for home again, and realized I left the picture in the bathroom. I went back, and the last of the 4 girls in line was just coming out of the bathroom. I go in there, and the picture of the girl from church camp was IN the toilet, and it looked like from how wrinkled and crumpled it was that it had gone through a few flushings. I asked the girls, and they were like "No, we didn't see a picture or anything". I know for certain that I left it on the toilet paper holder, so why would they have thrown it in the toilet? Guys would totally do something like that, but I thought girls were nicer than that! (link)
to be honest, there really wasn't a point in them doing this.
and obviously it was them who did this to the picture, they're older girls and should have been mature and just left the picture alone, i guess they thought it would be funny or something.
did you get the picture out?
i know it seems gross, but i would have taken it out anyways.


i am 17 years old and i am a women. i have a crush on one of my friends and i look at him all the time in our second hour. he is a real ladies man. i am not that pretty. he was going to come over my house today. but he cant come over on becuase he is on the wreslting team and they have states today and tomorrow. i dont know if i should have sex with him or not and just wait till marragie like i planned. so what should i do (link)
if you want to wait for marriage, don't change that just for a one night stand, unless you're really sure this is what you want, and you won't regret it later.
have you taken into considerations all the feelings that would come with having sex with your friend?
if you really feel like you're ready and you're aware of the possibilities that might occur, such as your friendship changing, you becoming emotionally attached to him, or getting you getting your heartbroken, then go for it.
just be safe.
hope i helped.


Okay so I just bought one of those carts that has 3 drawers and wheels, basically for storage and stuff. But I was just wanting some ideas on how to decorate it. Thanks (link)
you could use wall paper to cover it if you want a cool pattern.
you could paint on patterns.
tape pictures of you and your friends on it.
you could also google something like "diy decorating ideas" or "simple decorating ideas"


realllyyy blonde hair and i would like to know the best way, but cheapest possibly, to get rid of it. shampoos..leave in things.. without dying it of course. any ideas? (link)
olive oil, lemon juice, and eggs.
i haven't tried it, but i've heard from other people and it worked.
you might want to research it more, but thats just an idea.


I've been dating my boyfriend for a little over a year now. And since, it is summer, we have a little bit of a slut problem. And the biggest slut, is his male friend. My boyfriends friend treats girls like shit and basicallly fucks around with a lot of girls, but this isnt about him, only my boyfriend is best friends with him, and since the summer started, my boyfriend has been going to partys, and girls houses that i dont know. Sure, I trust him, only to an extent. And I really just get so mad at him when he tells me he's at some girls house. And he's had some girls in his room before, with his best freind.
yeah, that crossed the line.
But I don't know if I should learn to accept the fact that he's an asshole and wont listen to me, when i tell him to have girls in his room and shit like that.
Or if I should really do something about it, but idk what. (link)
he clearly seems to be having fun, so should you.
hang out with your friend, go to parties, flirt with other guys, have fun.
just because you do innocent flirting doesn't mean you have to take it farther.
the bottom line is he clearly is having fun, so there shouldn't be a reason why you have to be constantly worried instead of having fun.
to be honest, it's hard for guys and girls to hang out and not atleast flirt.
it doesn't mean he's cheating, but i doubt he sits in a corner of his room while his friends do whatever they do with the girl.
hope i helped.




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