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i want to have sex with one of my friends
i am 17 years old and i am a women. i have a crush on one of my friends and i look at him all the time in our second hour. he is a real ladies man. i am not that pretty. he was going to come over my house today. but he cant come over on becuase he is on the wreslting team and they have states today and tomorrow. i dont know if i should have sex with him or not and just wait till marragie like i planned. so what should i do
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I don't think having sex with him will prove anything to him or even yourself. I believe you should follow your word: wait till marriage. It will be smart and you won't regret it. Don't let him pressure you. Guys would say, "If you were a real woman, you would have sex with me" or "Everyone is doing it!"...you know something like that. Well refuse. All he wants is sex...nothing else. This guy isn't worth it. You want a guy that will wait for you and not pressure in doing something you don't want to! Good luck and don't do it!
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The fact that you're questioning losing your virginity by asking this question tells me that you should wait.
You have a plan to wait until marriage- and for that I applaud you! There are so many people out there who do not have the morals you have. Congratulations!
Obviously I think you should keep that promise to yourself. You can still hang out with him and maybe date him, but that doesn't mean you have to lose your virginity like everyone else your age has decided to do.
--Jack
(16/m)
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dont change your thoughts for someone that's just a lust & a spur of the moment thing..
seriously.
your virginity is something you can never get back..
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if you want to wait for marriage, don't change that just for a one night stand, unless you're really sure this is what you want, and you won't regret it later.
have you taken into considerations all the feelings that would come with having sex with your friend?
if you really feel like you're ready and you're aware of the possibilities that might occur, such as your friendship changing, you becoming emotionally attached to him, or getting you getting your heartbroken, then go for it.
just be safe.
hope i helped.
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