I've been dating my boyfriend for a little over a year now. And since, it is summer, we have a little bit of a slut problem. And the biggest slut, is his male friend. My boyfriends friend treats girls like shit and basicallly fucks around with a lot of girls, but this isnt about him, only my boyfriend is best friends with him, and since the summer started, my boyfriend has been going to partys, and girls houses that i dont know. Sure, I trust him, only to an extent. And I really just get so mad at him when he tells me he's at some girls house. And he's had some girls in his room before, with his best freind.
yeah, that crossed the line.
But I don't know if I should learn to accept the fact that he's an asshole and wont listen to me, when i tell him to have girls in his room and shit like that.
Or if I should really do something about it, but idk what.
I do not agree with what your boyfriend is doing. If he is committed to you and your relationship together, there should be absolutely no reason what so ever for him to be in a room with other girls.
I'm almost 100% sure that his cousin was getting down doing the dirty with some chick which could and is a possibility that these other girls may have tried something on your boyfriend.
Things like this aren't on. Trust or not!!! I know I would be absolutley furious with my boyfriend if he had girls in his room.
You need to comfront your boyfriend about this. Tell him that he needs to stop flirting with these girls and most definitely stop having them in his room!!
If he doesn't agree to this... Give him the flick. You deserve someone who is 110% committed to you!!!!
HeyyyEdith answered Friday July 11 2008, 10:19 pm: he clearly seems to be having fun, so should you.
hang out with your friend, go to parties, flirt with other guys, have fun.
just because you do innocent flirting doesn't mean you have to take it farther.
the bottom line is he clearly is having fun, so there shouldn't be a reason why you have to be constantly worried instead of having fun.
to be honest, it's hard for guys and girls to hang out and not atleast flirt.
it doesn't mean he's cheating, but i doubt he sits in a corner of his room while his friends do whatever they do with the girl.
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