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Internet relationship;; I don't wanna hurt him too bad, but it's over
15-F
Ok well, I've been in an internet relationship with this guy for 13 months now.
He's 17.
At first, I REALLY REALLY liked him.
But now I like...log on my MySpace SUPER quick so I don't have to like, talk to him or anything.
It's been like that for about 4 months now.
I'm with my ex boyfriend again and he doesnt know.
I'm trying to think of a way I can tell him its OVER without hurting him too bad.
He REALLY loves me alot.
But I don't really cares what he doesnt or whats happends to him now.
Thats pretty harsh but whatever.
I used to live in NJ.
He lives on Oklohoma[sp?]
I moved to Cali about 4 months ago.
Now we're even father apart.
He's always saying he's gonna come up for Thanksgiving this year so we can meet in person.
I'm always faking that I'm happy and being all like "Omg I can't wait. Love you<3"
I can't do it anymore.
My current boyfriend knows about him.
Uhh god but, my internet guy..lets just call him AJ.
AJ's sweet, sissy'ish, and still a virgin.
While I'm average, a rebel, and not a virgin.
And he's not even cute.
I just liked him for the personality.
Thats it.
Nothing else >_<
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I can't just send him a MySpace messages saying all this.
It's too harsh.
I've broken up with him before.
He cried.
Both times.
It's crazy.
The other times I said I didn't love him or I just deleted my MySpace..but I re-made it 'cause I missed him.
But now when he'll message me I'll groan and complain.
Sometimes I just don't reply.
I'm really really sorry this is long.
I just need to tell someone new about this.
And get different perspectives.
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If your confused about exactly what I'm asking
a) What should I say in my "Break-Up" message?
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Take note I've never giving him my cell phone number.
And that I'm not a little kid, I know how "dangerous" a internet replationship is.
But he wasnt some old 60yr old guy.
Trust me I just know
It's gonna be akward because he'll want to still be friends, but I just don't want to talk to him anymore, period.
>_<
Help please?
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-Kami Grey
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If you have a MySpace.
I'd be glad to add you ass a friend if you'd like.
Just send a message/question with your URL and I'll add you to my public account.
Not personal one, though.
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PPS- SORRY THIS WAS SOO LONG =] lol
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personally I think you should tell him about your current boyfriend. Because if you didnt, youd be lying to him, just as you are now. And wouldnt you like to know if he was cheating on you?
which i think you cheating on him in the first place, is a bitch move, especially if you dont tell him.
And If you dont want to be too harsh, just tell him that his feelings for you arent mutual. You should tell him that you dont like him anymore.
And him being inexperienced shouldnt matter to you, espcially since its on over the internet relationship.
But sitting there lying to him, isnt fair to him. and if you did care about him, you would tell him the truth, rather than just hinting it to him.
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well its like the longer you do this the more he will fall inlove with you so you have to end it sooner or later. and i know how you feel about the internet thing i had a lil internet relationship with this guy. but anyways. do what makes YOU happy. its your life. live it the way YOU want to. not how others want you to, or how it may hurt them. break it off, its the best thing to do. bye =]
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It wasn't that long...lol.
Well I suppose that ill tell you my story, i dont know if it will help much.
May 25th, 2007. -I met some guy I met online, probably the worse mistake i've ever made. We dated, it was pretty rocky actually, (ex-i broke up with him one week, he the next) and that lasted for like, 3 months, then i got tired of it, and he(well call him ryan..) knew i was done...He cried, a lot.. But basically, i said " Listen, Ryan, I cant be with you anymore...I just dont feel the same way as when i first met you and started talking to you..I cant be with you.. Im sorry" And he cried. He was standing in front of me crying..Theres not really much i can tell you more. When i got home that day i cried, because I didnt want to hurt him but i did, and its as simple as that. Short, sweet, and honest.
I know you dont want to hurt him, but you can't sugar coat it...It will make them more hurt, probably. I wouldnt tell him about your current boyfriend, either...But just say something like "Long distance relationships dont work for me....sorry" **Make sure you add a little more to that, say your true feelings.
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