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ok, well I just moved the furniture around in my room today.
I hate the color of my walls and I want to paint.
The thing is I want to do something crazy, but I have no idea what colors, and if I had colors I dont know what to do with them.
I dont know if I want some sort of design or what, I'm kind of stumped.
If anyone has any suggestions that would be lovely (:
the only thing i know is that I dont want pink or red. (link)
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awh. Pinks the best color.
Well, my best friend just painted her room black and white. She had black as the base color and she used a sponge to sponge white paint on her wall. I dun know what its called, I guess its called sponge painting. But she used the sponge to put little circles on her wall, it's really cool.
http://www.jasons-jungle.com/Pictures/Personal/Facility/rodentroomfinished.jpg
it looks like that, but with black and white.
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Okay, people told me that I could be pregnant by giving my boyfriend a handjob, and then an hour later I fingered myself like after he was gone. So someone told me I could be pregnant, but I also heard the sperm cells like die or something. Anyway I'm like freaking out. I guess I'm going to buy a pregnancy test, but I'm so embarrased to just go to the store and buy one. (link)
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I highly doubt you are pregnant.
but if youre that worried, have your best friend, or boyfriend go in and buy one.
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i have a best friend. we've been best friends for almost seven years now. we've been very close, although we have had our ups and downs.
in summary, i am very jealous of her. she has caused me much stress and tears this past year because she was in all my classes, and she would get straight As on everything. i tried so hard in school and i could never beat her, and i cried so so much. not only did i cry because she was smarter than me, but she has a boyfriend and she is much more talented than i am.
i have never had a real boyfriend and i haven't even gotten my first kiss yet. we're both 15f. she got her first kiss last summer and i got upset for a while but then i got over it. and she got her boyfriend and i was okay with it, not that it matters what i think. then she told me she went to first base a few months ago, and after that she never really told me anything. but recently, she told me she had gone all the way to third base with him, and this happened before april. many, many months ago. i was not only extremely jealous, but i was upset that she couldn't trust me enough to tell me that she got scared that she got an STD.
she told me this a few days ago, but i cannot stop thinking about it. i can't outdo her. and it's making me very depressed. i don't want to go and get a boyfriend to try and see how much farther we can go just to be able to outdo her.
i don't know what to do. i feel like because of this, we're only going to grow more and more apart. i see her other friends wall posting her on facebook talking about double dates and i feel like because she has a boyfriend, i can't relate to her anymore. like if i had a boyfriend and went to third base with him, we would talk about it and share the experience T O G E T H E R. but i haven't even gotten my first kiss yet.
i want to stay her friend, but it's so stressful for me. everytime i see her, i can only count my flaws and see her perfections. i know that nobody is perfect, but this has never happened before this past year. she was in all my classes and i could never do better than her. ever.
i can't talk to her about this because it wouldn't do any good. it's not her fault that i'm jealous of her. but as i said before, i feel like from now on it'll only be downhill. we're only going to grow farther apart as she goes further with her boyfriend and i'm left in the dark. i know she doesn't have to tell me every last detail about she and her boyfriend but just something as significant as third base is something that i would consider important.
can someone please give me some advice? (link)
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somethings are just needed to be let go. You can hold on as long as you can. But do not rush into a relationship because you want to out do her, that is absolutely stupid. You could easily regret it once you do it. Your first time doing anything you want it to be special.
I know I was in the same position you are in. I was so jealous of my best friends cause she was alot prettier than me. But since sophomore year of highschool, she started putting her boyfriends in front of me, so we stopped talking. and since she became a slut, I was and still am with the same boy and inlove with him, i couldnt be happier. But when we stopped talking, was probably the best thing. I became friends with people who I enjoy being around, and the didnt give me any drama. And I love them to death. I started dressing different, i became more confiedent. and Honesly, I feel superior to her. Because I love who I am, and I love the friends I am around.
You just have to find the things that you want most (other than beating her at the bases) and go for it, and I guarentee you, you will feel a whole lot better.
Dont just put yourself out there because you think it'll help your self esteem. No, it wont. Because later on, youll realize what a huge mistake that was.
Who knows, a couple years from now you might not even know who your best friend is.
I think really think you need to go out there and make new friends, and be comfortable with who you are.
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15-F
Ok well, I've been in an internet relationship with this guy for 13 months now.
He's 17.
At first, I REALLY REALLY liked him.
But now I like...log on my MySpace SUPER quick so I don't have to like, talk to him or anything.
It's been like that for about 4 months now.
I'm with my ex boyfriend again and he doesnt know.
I'm trying to think of a way I can tell him its OVER without hurting him too bad.
He REALLY loves me alot.
But I don't really cares what he doesnt or whats happends to him now.
Thats pretty harsh but whatever.
I used to live in NJ.
He lives on Oklohoma[sp?]
I moved to Cali about 4 months ago.
Now we're even father apart.
He's always saying he's gonna come up for Thanksgiving this year so we can meet in person.
I'm always faking that I'm happy and being all like "Omg I can't wait. Love you (link)
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personally I think you should tell him about your current boyfriend. Because if you didnt, youd be lying to him, just as you are now. And wouldnt you like to know if he was cheating on you?
which i think you cheating on him in the first place, is a bitch move, especially if you dont tell him.
And If you dont want to be too harsh, just tell him that his feelings for you arent mutual. You should tell him that you dont like him anymore.
And him being inexperienced shouldnt matter to you, espcially since its on over the internet relationship.
But sitting there lying to him, isnt fair to him. and if you did care about him, you would tell him the truth, rather than just hinting it to him.
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i have been with this one guy (bob) for almost 2 years. and i can honsetly say i do love him. but also like another guy(bill). AT THE SAME TIME! the one that i like i have known for awhile. and everytime i hear he has a new girlfriend i wanna punch her in the face. lmao. i dont know why i get this way. i mean he has his right to like other girls,i know that. but i dont know what to do.
what if i break up with bob because i like bill. and then later on i find out that i was meant to be with bob. but what if i stay with bob and find out that im suppose to be with bill. im so confused and i need seriuos help!
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I was never really into letting someone that you love go for someone you like.
If Bob makes you happy and you are inlove with him, then you should stay with him.
But you should cut off bill for a little while, maybe then youll realize what you want more.
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I am normally a healthy person. I eat veggies, and play with kids, which makes me run around and get exercise. Over the winter, I gained a few more pounds then I wanted. And I don't want to look fat during my second year of high school. I go to a restaurant once a week to visit my dad and skip the bread. I try salads. Once in a while if I have any time I will go and exercise at my local gym. But I can't seem to loose any weight. I don't eat any fast food, the last time I had Macdonald's was a year ago. Point is I want to loose weight. Any body have a good Idea that will have my stomach flat before September 3rd? I would soooo appreciate it!!!!!
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well, I know what you mean, all i do in winter is sit around and eat. and I do eat alot of fast food.
you would think I would be bigger and wieghed more than 104 pounds.
But actaully all i do are sit ups. 50 a day and thats all. i never have time to go for a run.
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Im confused IDK what I should do for this new school year..I usally shop at like hot topic for tops and macys for bottoms..but this summer one of my friends were alot of prep clothes and she got alot of guy and me and here are like the same in looks...do guy prefer girls like this....another question I have is
what should I were
scene clothes
or american eagle...clothes (link)
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I agree, in the long run, you dont want a guy who just cares about your looks.
but if youre young and having fun, looking cute doesnt hurt.
you pick which ever looks better on you. and whatever you feel more confiedent in.
But one thing I have noticed from scene girls, is you can wear americal eagle clothes while still being scene.
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Ok... Here's my problem. It's probably one of the more stupid questions on the site but here it goes. My parents and I get along for the most part, but my whole life I've grown up in a very ultra liberal open-minded union house hold. But the problem is I'm starting to question the beliefs I've grown up on. For example; The Patriot Act, parts of it I agree with like scanning people's e-mails for potential hazardous situations that could occur. Or even the whole death penalty issue... I'm so scared to open up to my parents on an issue like this. Like if I told them I was a lesbian; which I'm not, they would probably be more okay with that then to hear I could possibly be turning more moderate. Like there's things I agree and disagree with on both sides. But it's like there always talking politics and I feel like I'm lying to myself and to them saying that I completely agree with them. Like my dad has even said that the only way I could rebel is to become a republican, but I'm not questioning things because of that... How should I approach this situation? Please help me. Any advice you guys could give me I would be so greatful for. (link)
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you should always say in what you believe.
Your parents should always love you and respect what you believe in.
Don't be scared to stand up.
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14/f
lately, i've been thinking about cutting my hair short. Not TO short, like in between my chin and shoulders, in some spiky scene kid style. and then getting long extensions for school and stuff. Would this be a bad idea? it's just sometimes, I HATE having long hair, and I think it would be MUCH easier to just chop it off and have "removable hair" ha ha. Ok, I know basically zip about extensions. I know you clip them in but do they STAY clipped in all day? Will they feel secure, and not loose? Also, I need some really long ones, like to the bottom of your rib cage, mid-torso? But I need them to be human hair (so I can dye and straighten it) and really cheap :) I know i'm asking for a LOT but it would help me out a bunch! Thanks!!!
-also, I play volleyball, so would I be able to wear them during games and practice, or should I take them off? Thanks! (link)
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do it if your bad.
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16/f
what is some eye make-up that i can use to bring out my hazel eyes. i love eye liner but would black work. any eye shadow? i also need new ideas of how to do my eye make up. im kinda of punker.i have beige skin and dark brown hair.
pics of how to do my make up would be nice (link)
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okkaayy.
Well usually if you have hazel eyes, you shouldnt wear eyeliner, especially if youre trying to bring out the color in your eyes.
but here is a site of the make up products I use...
http://www.almay.com/pg/main/catcoleyeslips.aspx?catid=32&catnm=Eyes&subid=6&subnm=Hazel&col1=224&col2=225
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well i have pretty good skin but lately ive had a lot of pimples! i used to not wash it twice a day but now im really determinded to have good skin so ive been washing it twice a day and taking off my makeup and using pore strips and moisturizing and using masks and doing everything like your supposed too but i have a lot of pimples STILL!!! i have no idea what else to do and how to get rid of them so please tell me how to get rid of my pimples!! thank you very much! :) (link)
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Well, you can always go see a dermatologist.
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ive only had sex three times and i don know if i cumed or not i have no clue how will i know (link)
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Mostly likely, if you dont know if you have orgasmed, then you havent.
It's a pretty distinct feeling.
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