Hey my name is Victoria.
For someone my age, I've been through quite a bit. Im always up for learning new things and meeting new & interesting people. I'm a very observant person and as many mistakes as I've made, I make sure to learn from each one of them.
My friends tend to always come to me for advice (especially on relationships). I'm a good listener, very understanding, and usually can relate.
i enjoy writing, i love helping people and giving advice that makes a difference. I will like to help you in anyway i can.
Gender: Female
Location: mooresville, nc
Age: 17
Member Since: July 10, 2008
Answers: 6
Last Update: July 11, 2008
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hi f/15
I used to be a size 7 in teens when I was in 6th grade I gained alot of weight and now i want to go back to that size Im now going to 10 grade and Im a size 11,13....school starts in like a month do you think I will be able to get back to that size before school starts..or maybe you give me some personal tips on how to achieve that goal...thank you so much...
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The best way to lose some weight is the old fashioned way; eating healthy, exercise everyday, maybe joining a gym (if thats possible), yoga is a really good way to workout if you dont like using the machines. If that all fails there are alternatives such as diet plans & pills and make sure they are okay for you. Whatever you do dont take the unhealthy way such as eating disorders, it will only make things worse. I think (depending on how determined you are, you could lose a lot of weight before school starts, but dont give up if you dont lose all the weight in time just keep up with your plan, and it will happen.
Dont give up
-VS
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I have this uncle, who had a divorce. Then he met this girl. He is 63. This girl is 23. I have no problem with age differences. But this has gone to far. That is somewhat 40 years. That is nasty. I understand 20, or less, but 40, come on. He defentily does not look 60. He broke up with her for a 22 year. Myt uncle disguests me. My whole familly has no problem. I want him to be happy, but that happy, is to me just plain wrong. He also is verrrrrrrrry rich. These girls seem to like his money.He doesn't notice or get hurt. I am tired of seeing a young woman, that is only 2,3, or 4 years older then my sister who's 20. They could be my isters. That so nasty. I need peoples opinion on young + old = love/like relationaships. (link)
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i understand where your coming from that age difference is slighty uncomfortable, but unfortunately a lot of older men these days are going for a lot younger women, some men are just shalllow. But i think maybe in your uncles case (being that hes wealthy) the younger girls might just be into him for his money. Then again if they are truly happy together, then love knows no boundaries. Unfortunately though your uncle makes his own decisions and is entitled to make his own mistakes, honestly the best thing to do is if hes happy then just be happy for him, and see how things work out.
Hope that helps
-VS
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i cant really decide between these two guys, i like then alot (i think) but i dont know which one to go for. steve is one of my best friends guys friends and has never had a real girlfriend but he is so funny and adorable, but not overly cute (which i dont mind).i dont know if he likes me, ive been hinting but he never really seems to notice but we have alot of fun together. the secand guy is jeff, he follows me around and likes staring at me in the hallways and talking to whoever is close to me, but never talking to me. hes cute and i think i could like him if hed stop being so creepy. Hes on the basketball team like me and runs track. lilly, age 16 and a girl (link)
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Lilly, my advice to you is to take things one step at a time and def dont try to rush anything. in my opinion steve seems like a really great guy friend to have and those are hard to find, so i would continue to have fun with him and def dont stop hinting towards him cuz one of these days he'll catch on. the only thing is if hes never had a real girlfriend hes going to be a lil bit slower to do anything about it (especially being such good friends), it may just take time. i would have to say though dont give up on steve, but in jeffs case he seems like the type thats kind of clingy, needy, insecure and shy; more than likely is intimidated by you. but honestly he needs to stop acting stalkerish and get the courage to come and talk to you. but the think the best thing to do would be give it some time and see how things go, who knows you might even meet another great guy.
hope everything goes well
-VS
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I went to camp this summer and the girls who were preps and shopped at like holister and american eagle got most of the guy is it the way they dress or something are guys attracted to girls who wear girly clothes like that??? (link)
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Im sure the guys arent attracted to the girls just because of their clothing, more than likely its the girls confidence or how she acts. Guys do tend to like it when a girl takes care of herself and looks good, but the main thing is having confidence in yourself, smiling, having fun and especially being yourself that attracts a guy.
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what is some eye make-up that i can use to bring out my hazel eyes. i love eye liner but would black work. any eye shadow? i also need new ideas of how to do my eye make up. im kinda of punker.i have beige skin and dark brown hair.
pics of how to do my make up would be nice (link)
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well i can definitely relate i have hazel eyes and i really enjoy finding out different ways to do makeup. some good ideas for you would be dark brown eyeshadow will go with your skin complexion, eyes and hair; also greens, blues, golds and any neutral colors; at the same time dont be afraid to experiment with some color. since your a punker black eyeliner would def work, the shape of your eyes are important though...knowing what different styles and shapes you can do with the eyeliner. Definitely incorporate color scemes with your clothes that your wearing at the time. whether you go for the natural look or a little bit more done up, just decide which colors and styles look best on you.
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Okay I'm 14 years old and this summer has been like the crazziest summer. Okay these are the things I did just in 2 weeks
1.Gave a blow job in a public restroom
2.Had sex in a public restroom
3.Flashed a lot a guys at a public pool
4.Sent nude Photo's to atleast 7 different guys
5.Had a 3some (2 other guys)
6.madeout with a way older guy
7.Did a lot of ohter "things" in public places (link)
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Honestly i think your doing these things with all these different guys for a certain reason. But there are a lot of different reasons truoble at home, insecurity about yourself, needing attention, liking the feeling you get with that guy at the certain moment or anger with your family. i dont know what your reason is but for someone with your experience im sure your a very smart girl, which means you know that doing all these sexual things with random guys isnt good or healthy and the last thing you want is a bad reputation. My advice is to figure out exactely why you are doing these things and stop. just remember these guys may seem like they are into you at the time but they have no respect for you. Get a guy that you actually like and that actually likes you back.
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