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wierd cute boy and smart funny guy
i cant really decide between these two guys, i like then alot (i think) but i dont know which one to go for. steve is one of my best friends guys friends and has never had a real girlfriend but he is so funny and adorable, but not overly cute (which i dont mind).i dont know if he likes me, ive been hinting but he never really seems to notice but we have alot of fun together. the secand guy is jeff, he follows me around and likes staring at me in the hallways and talking to whoever is close to me, but never talking to me. hes cute and i think i could like him if hed stop being so creepy. Hes on the basketball team like me and runs track. lilly, age 16 and a girl
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Lilly, my advice to you is to take things one step at a time and def dont try to rush anything. in my opinion steve seems like a really great guy friend to have and those are hard to find, so i would continue to have fun with him and def dont stop hinting towards him cuz one of these days he'll catch on. the only thing is if hes never had a real girlfriend hes going to be a lil bit slower to do anything about it (especially being such good friends), it may just take time. i would have to say though dont give up on steve, but in jeffs case he seems like the type thats kind of clingy, needy, insecure and shy; more than likely is intimidated by you. but honestly he needs to stop acting stalkerish and get the courage to come and talk to you. but the think the best thing to do would be give it some time and see how things go, who knows you might even meet another great guy.
hope everything goes well
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If you really need to ask who to go for, then maybe you shouldn't be going for either of them.
You said you and Steve have a lot of fun together. Why not just continue having fun together?
As for Jeff, if you find him creepy, why go for him? You said he doesn't talk to you. If that's the case, talking to him and getting to know him better would be a good start if you're interested (either in going for him or just being friends).
Don't rush things. You don't have to "go for" either one immediately. Maybe you'll have a better idea of which one to go for (if you still want to do so) after you get to know Jeff better.
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You should go with the one you like more, know more about, and are more likely to trust more easily. There's not much to base off of so not much can really be said. But I hope it helps...
BTW if steve really doesn't notice, that doesn't mean you should stop trying. He'll catch on eventually. And Jeff just seems stalker-ish...
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