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two guys.
i have been with this one guy (bob) for almost 2 years. and i can honsetly say i do love him. but also like another guy(bill). AT THE SAME TIME! the one that i like i have known for awhile. and everytime i hear he has a new girlfriend i wanna punch her in the face. lmao. i dont know why i get this way. i mean he has his right to like other girls,i know that. but i dont know what to do.
what if i break up with bob because i like bill. and then later on i find out that i was meant to be with bob. but what if i stay with bob and find out that im suppose to be with bill. im so confused and i need seriuos help!
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Well, the main thing is, does bill like you? If Bill doesn't want to be more than friends then you definitely can't get anywhere in that department, and you should stay with bob.
What you should do is, hang out with bill a bit more, and after 2 weeks ask him if he likes you more than a friend, but don't tell him you like him more than a friend... if bill says he does, then you will have to see who you get along with more, bill or bob... if you are still unsure you should cut off both of them (because you are currently with bob, you cant completely cut him off, just simply say your really busy for a week or something like that) at the end of the week see who you miss more, whoever you miss more is the one you should be with.
Now.. if bill says he doesn't like you more than a friend then just shrug it off and just say you were just wondering or tell him "good because I love bob hehe"... it might hurt a little to hear that, but at least it makes things a bit more clear and you should stay with bob.
The reason you get angry at hearing bill has a gf etc etc, is because you are simply jealous and feel affectionate towards him, you just don't want his attention away from you. It's the worst feeling in the world I know, but you just have to take the brunt of it. The best way to get over things like that is to spend more time with bob, but not just hanging out, I mean more sexual and affectionate time with him.
Hope this helps your position. :)
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I was never really into letting someone that you love go for someone you like.
If Bob makes you happy and you are inlove with him, then you should stay with him.
But you should cut off bill for a little while, maybe then youll realize what you want more.
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from experience, when you're with someone and you think you really like them, but you're mind wonders off and you develop an emotional attachment to someone else, something isn't right.
it's not fair for you to lie to Bob or yourself.
you can run the risk of losing them both, or try and cut communication with Bill until you figure your emotions out.
hope i helped.
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