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Can't open up to parents about the way I am
Ok... Here's my problem. It's probably one of the more stupid questions on the site but here it goes. My parents and I get along for the most part, but my whole life I've grown up in a very ultra liberal open-minded union house hold. But the problem is I'm starting to question the beliefs I've grown up on. For example; The Patriot Act, parts of it I agree with like scanning people's e-mails for potential hazardous situations that could occur. Or even the whole death penalty issue... I'm so scared to open up to my parents on an issue like this. Like if I told them I was a lesbian; which I'm not, they would probably be more okay with that then to hear I could possibly be turning more moderate. Like there's things I agree and disagree with on both sides. But it's like there always talking politics and I feel like I'm lying to myself and to them saying that I completely agree with them. Like my dad has even said that the only way I could rebel is to become a republican, but I'm not questioning things because of that... How should I approach this situation? Please help me. Any advice you guys could give me I would be so greatful for.
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Maybe give some free advice about: Activism?
Oh don't be afraid to open up and
talk to them about things! You will
argue politics but you will learn
so much and so will they.
You are going to have your own opinions.
They will want you to have your own,
even if they debate you on the issues.
If they enjoy discussing politics. They
will have fun. Don't be afraid. Speak up
and give them your opinions! :)
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Believe what you want to believe. We all have our questions about life and its different situations. And it's perfectly fine to try to discuss our questions with family/friends/etc. Don't be a hypocrite. Ask your questions. If you don't agree on something, say religion; then you don't agree with it. Don't be afraid to be skeptical at first. It all comes down to you; the adherent in the end.
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First of all, any person should be entitled to their own opinion. Your parents might not like the idea of you going against what they believe...but you shouldn't feel obligated to agree with them 24/7. I can see how the situation you are in could be very difficult.
I would suggest talking to your parents about how you feel at dinner or in a situation where the atmosphere is fairly calm. Try not to yell it at them or get very defensive. Tell them how you feel in a calm and civilized manner.
If they aren't willing to listen then maybe try another time or keep telling them until they hear you.
Good luck!
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you should always say in what you believe.
Your parents should always love you and respect what you believe in.
Don't be scared to stand up.
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