I am a 15/M i am ok looking but i am really small in height and weight for my age group. I am horrible about talking to girls that i like and dont know how to approach them in the right way. What are some flirting tips that i can use to get girls to give me a chance.
just be your-self and be nice. be playful, dont be mean, but... playful... lol, im only joking ways poke fun, only a little bit, and im sure you will go far.
Cux answered Thursday August 21 2008, 12:12 am: Here is a list of things you can do to make a girl smile, that I found:
-Tell her she is beautiful (not fine, or sexy)
-Hold her hand at any moment . . . even if its just for a second.
-Kiss her on the forehead.
-Leave her voice messages to wake up to.
-When she is upset, hold her tight and tell her how much she means to you.
-Recognize the small things . . . they usually mean the most.
-Pick her over all the other girls you hang out with.
-Write her notes. (she loves them)
-Introduce her to family and friends . . . as your girlfriend.
-Play with her hair.
-Pick her up, tickle her, and play-wrestle with her.
-Sit in the park and just talk to her.
-Tell her funny jokes, tell her stupid jokes, or just tell her jokes.
-Let her fall asleep in your arms.
-If she's mad at you, kiss her.
-Give her piggyback rides.
-Bring her flowers
-Treat her the same around your friends as you do when your alone.
-Look her in the eyes and smile.
-Let her take as many pictures of you as she wants.
-Kiss her in the rain.
-If your in love with her, tell her.
If you really want to win a girl over- you need to be confident and always smiling. A shy and timid guy, while somewhat attractive to some girls, will not attract the girls you're looking for. A girl also likes to see success in a guy. She probably won't be attracted to you if you're off smoking pot or drinking alcohol. She will like if you're clean and as successful as you can be at your age.
HeyyyEdith answered Wednesday August 20 2008, 11:03 pm: confidence is the key.
everyone is at least a little insecure about themselves, but don't show it.
even the hottest guy or the guy who gets all the girls is a little insecure, whether they admitted it or not.
but the fact that they come of as secure and confident makes them attractive.
as for flirting:
make eye contact with the girl.
actually talk to her, you have nothing to lose.
don't be afraid to approach a girl, how do you expect her to notice you, if you don't make yourself known.
good luck. [ HeyyyEdith's advice column | Ask HeyyyEdith A Question ]
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