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My boyfriend and i have kissed before, but we are both pretty inexperienced. what are some good ways of kissing....in other words, what are good movements to do with your tounge and what should i be doing?
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Kissing can be fun if you do it right. Let's start with ways to move your toungue... hmm well I like to trace circles around his toungue. And sometimes( I know it sounds weird) I write my name with my toungue. It is amusing haha. And for everything else do what comes natural to you. I know you will enjoy it.
Have fun : ]
Haley_xx
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my boyfriend wants to have sex with me and i fell like i want to but im scared i will fall pregnant wat shold i do???
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Do not have sex if you have any doubts. But if you end up deciding to remember to be safe. If your boyfriend is pressuring you into it he probably isn't the right guy for you anyways because if he was he would consider your feelings and respect them. But please if you have any doubts at all you are probably not ready for this step.
Haley_xx
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Why do young girls come on here to ask about sex when they can't even spell right? I find this to be a very sad look at young girls in american society today. Do you agree? (link)
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It's crazy they are way too young to be having sex. What is happening to the world?? I think that under 18 is way to young to be even thinking about it
Haley
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i dont want to have sex with my boyfriend we are way to young. but i masturbate alot and i want to do more with him, but i dont want to give him head or anything that would consider me a really big slut, we makeout all of the time and i really like him, weve been going out for like 2 years. what can i do what wouldnt b going "to far"
thanks alot :D
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You could let him touch your boobs, you could feel his abs.
Or Like the others said fingering and handjobs.
you could make out with like your shirts off.
have funn.
:] Haley
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Okay so on Wednesday I have pictures at the very end of the day. I want to straighten my hair, but by the time I have pictures, my hair won't be at all straight anymore, because of humidity and everything. How do some girls have pin straight hair all through the day? What can I use for my hair to stay straight?
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Okay well make sure you straighten your hair fully, and then when you are finished put some hairspray in it. Not too much though because you don't want your hair to look greasy, but enough to keep it straight. I personally do this to keep my hair straight and it works perfectly.
Good Luck.
Haley_xx
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Okay so my boyfriends birthday is comming up and i want to get him something really special if you guys could help me out i would really really apreciate it.
I REALLY NEED HELP! (link)
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Well I gave my boyfriend a baseball cap for his birthday. It was his favorite team and he loved it and he wears it all of the time. That might work for you. If you don't like the idea then you could ask one of his friends what he wants and then you wouldnt have to worry as much.
Good Luck
HAley_xx
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14/f
So i really like this kid and my friend does to. He is new to this school so there is a lot I dont know about him but from what i do know he is really funny and sweet. Not to be concieted, i am one of the more pretty popular girls in my school because im nice not because im intimidating or manipulative. So my friend is in lower math with him and I am in higher math and the way things work out is that she is in 2 other classes with him and without me to give him more attention than i could. No offense to her but she isnt one of the more attractive girls and i just really need a way to get him to notice me. BADLY i have been single for way to long because my recent crush isnt allowed to have a girlfriend because of his parents but he is bring a jerk lately.
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ooh i see.
this same situation is happening with my two best friends. :]
Well find a way to stand out from this girl, we will call her KRISTEN.
And make this guy, lets say RYAN.
umm okay soo just flirt with Ryan when she is not in the room. And have one of your other best friends lets say ERIN talk you up to him.
And I'm sure that you can get him to like you.
Heck, I'm sure he likes you already.
Love,
Me xox
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what are some good stores to look at online that are in like actual malls. homecoming is in a couple weeks and i really dont wanna order online at the risk of getting the wrong size ect. ive tried Deb and JC Penny's. i dont really see anything that would blow people away. please help.
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My favorite place to shop is Khol's. It has everything especially more formal clothes, and they are wicked pretty.
Good luck : ]
Haley_xx
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okay.
so i went to am-i-fat.org.
and they told me i was overweight.
i have a bmi number of 25.
and i need to loose about 10-15lbs to be healthy.
there's only one problem.
i used to diet alot. and i lost 20lbs from it.
it was easy.
but lately, i've been getting off track.
especially with eating.
and now i have two lunch periods. so the temptation to eat is even higher.
i think i can get the excersise thing taken care of.
just by walking home every day (it takes me 40 minutes to get home).
i guess what i need.
is some tips.
and maybe some pep talk?
i really want to do it this time
and not give up.
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Oh my gosh your doing amazing!! Honestly I wish I were like you. Keep going. You can do it!!
Tips...
- When your watching tv do like 20 sit-ups every time a comercial comes on.
- Drink lots of water.
- Dance to your favorite music. (It's fun and burns calories)
-Running up and down stairs is also great for burning calories(be careful you don't fall and get hurt)
Good Luck : ]
Haley_xx
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15/f
so right now. im dating this boy matt, and hes a football player and hes like a quarterback and hes really popular, and hot and what every girl wants.
however. i dont. i mean i like him, but i kinda got a crush on this emoish boy, name max. hes soo cute. and he seems so nice.
i guess im just sick of dating jocks, who just want to show me off in the halls like im some prize or something. like my boyfriend doesnt even like listen to what i say sometimes. its so annoying.
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Follow your heart, if you don't like Matt anymore break up with him and go for max. I felt the same way about my jock boyfriends they just weren't really what I wanted, I guess I wanted more. And I found this great guy who is a little different, but amazing. I hope that you have the same luck.
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Haley_xx
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So, I might be getting my belly button pierced.
Does it hurt at all?
I heard they take a really long needle, I can't handle needles very well.
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Does it feel like getting your ears pierced at all?
I'm nervous.
So, any feedback would be greatly appreciated. (link)
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My friend said that it didn't hurt all that much when she got hers pierced. She said it just pinched for a second, and it didn't even hurt as much as getting her ears pierced.
Love,
Hailey_xx
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ok ive been straghtening my hair alot lately.
& im scared im killing it alot.
what kind of products could i use to help it.
name any products?
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when ever i straighten my hair i always use vh5 hair products. You can get them at a local cvs, or drug store.
Hailey_xx
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im so upset. i just got my schedule for school and i dont have any classes with my boyfriend, not even lunch. and our lockers are on opposite sides of the school, so we'll never see each other. and to make things worse, he has three classes with this girl that he cheated on me with like a year ago and shes been after him ever since. i just feel like crying. we've been together for 2 years and i cant stand the idea of losing him. someone please tell me something to make me feel better. :[ (link)
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Don't worry about it. Relationships should be based on trust. But if you are really worried about it, just bring it up casually to him...
you could just say " It sucks I'm like never going to see you this year at school. And ______ has three classes with you. Do you think that there is a possibility of you liking her again?"
and then he will probably say " no, I like you and only you" or something.
But if I were you I would just make sure you plan a lot of activities with him after school and on weekends, and just trust that he won't cheat on you again. Don't worry, if he is going to cheat on you again then he is not worth it, and break up with him for good.
Hope I helped : )
Hailey_xx
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There is this guy from work who I know has had feelings for me since before Xmas. I always used to catch him staring at me and smile if I walked into the room. Anyways, the last couple of weeks he hadn't been himself because I heard he was having problems with this boss, so he barely talked to me. Recently I had a makeover and EVERYONE has noticed. I am wearing more flattering clothing and a better hairstyle. Well the last time that I worked with him he couldn't keep his eyes off me and he kept coming up to me to talk. At the very end of the night he came up to me and told me to have a good night. Do you think he's still interested in me? (link)
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In my opinion yes, he probably is still interested in you. But like the other columnist said you can't be completely sure. I wish we could read guys minds.
Hailey_xx
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is there any good websites that is all about blogging..and people can read the blogs and comment? (link)
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xanga.com might be what your looking for : ]
Haley_xx
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i was just wondering what you (a girl) would think or do if you found out i (a guy) was wearing a thong or what youre feelings would be? (link)
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it would make me feel uncomfortable around him, when i thought about it. but i guess if you like to wear thongs lol, its okay.
Hailey_Xx
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hi =] well my problem is I'm going out with some kid named peter who's is amazing and wonderful he's like my dream guy but for some reason I always have a feeling of dought. meaning I always feel and think about us not lasting long like were gonna break up very soon! even though I don't want to....but I'm always having dought in myself when it comes to relationships. and the guy who I'm going out with he's like my dream guy he's everything that I've wanted but I don't know why I'm always having dought when I have someone special like him! I wanna no why am I having this feeling? I don't want to have this feeling anymore!am I scared of something? idk please help =/ (link)
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omg i feel the exact same way about my boyfriend. I have been in love with him forever, and he finally kissed me, and told me that he liked me as more than a friend. I was soo happy. And we have been seeing eachother for a while. And I always the same way you do, like he's everything i ever wanted, but i always think of something that is not so perfect about him. I asked my friends the same question that you asked me, and they responded with...
1. " Hailey, whenever you have something great, you always want more."
2. " Hailey, I think that you need to find his imperfections because it makes you feel secure."
I think that the first piece of advice probably applies to you. I think that it is completely right. And there is nothing wrong with it. Just remember that hes the perfect guy for you. You don't have to worry, most girls think the same way you and I do.
Well, I hope that this is what you wanted, and that it helped.
Good Luck,
Hailey_Xx
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Dear Hailey, ( I thought you would be the best one to answer this, your advice is great )
My best friend and I had a huge fight yesterday over something really stupid. And we haven't been talking, let alone, we havent even looked at eachother. I feel so lonely, I miss her. But I don't want to be the one to give in and apologize first. What should I do.
Thanks.
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The bigger person always says sorry first. You should just say " ___________, I'm really sorry, this fight is so stupid. Please forgive me"
And she will probably be like " I'm sorry too, friends again?? "
And hopefully that will be the end of it.
Inbox me with any other questions.
Love,
Hailey_xx
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My bf just broke up with me, becuase he thought I was cheating on him. He wont even talk to me. I would never cheat on him I love him, What should I do?? (link)
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If you really love him, then corner him, and make him talk to you. Tell him exactly what you told me, except use his name and be like " _________, I love you, and would never cheat on you. If that's not enough for him, he's not worht it.
Love ,
Hailey_xx
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I want people's opinions on this. Do you think people should wait to have sex until their married. Do you think People would regret it? I mean because like youve waited and now your wondering like "what would it feel like with someone else?" On the other hand i hear people having sex when there 14 and having STDS and they probably should've waited. idk
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Well, if you are sure your in love, I don't think that age matters. And if you are in love, then you should have no regrets as long as you use a condum, and be sure to ask the guy/girl your going to "do it" with, if he/she has an STD, if they have been tested, etc.
Love,
Hailey_xx
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