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emoooo vs. jock
15/f
so right now. im dating this boy matt, and hes a football player and hes like a quarterback and hes really popular, and hot and what every girl wants.
however. i dont. i mean i like him, but i kinda got a crush on this emoish boy, name max. hes soo cute. and he seems so nice.
i guess im just sick of dating jocks, who just want to show me off in the halls like im some prize or something. like my boyfriend doesnt even like listen to what i say sometimes. its so annoying.
what should i do
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ok well i have to say it doesnt matter what they dress like how they talk if their popular or not i mean if like someone then go for it especialy if your boyfriend doesnt like to listen to you and just wants to show you off then you should definately go for this Max kid honestly i dont like steriotypic people and i'm not judging you cause i dont know you but i doesnt matter what they look like how they dress who they hangout with it just matters whether you like them or not well good luck
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We cannot tell you what to do. This is your decision.
However, I will say, if you're in a bad relationship, get out. There's no sense in being stuck with someone you're unhappy with.
If you like this boy Max better, then dump Matt and start talking to Max.
And don't worry- you don't have to follow the popular trend of dating a football player. A kid who is a bit different would be just as nice and maybe even nicer.
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I have to stand up for my fellow football player here when I answer this. Come on every girl wants a hot jock to go out with and he's the QB. I guess go with your heart but think about what u have first.
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If you don't want to be with someone, don't be.
But, if you think that someone should always, always listen to you and never, ever tune you out, be distracted or busy, I hate to tell you but that will never happen. Do you really pay attention to every word that comes out of his mouth?
You don't need to wait until you have found someone new to end a relationship that isn't working for you. If it isn't working with Matt, end it.
If you don't want him, fine, let him go.
Deal with Max with you are single and free to deal with Max.
Also, for goodness sake don't referee to people or generalize them by their high school labels, "Emo" "Jock" or "Nerd". I know you've heard it before but it is still true, these words are only memories by the time you turn 20. It's very hard to advise someone on relationships, when the use terms that make me think they are too immature to be in one.
People are just people. The only labels that makes sense are personality traits, like "nice" or "not so nice".
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You're 15 years old, you're not married, if you're unhappy in this relationship, dump him. Don't be with someone who makes you unhappy. These are the best years of your life, enjoy them, date around. Be with someone who will listen to you and make you feel special, not someone who shows you off like a piece of meat. Hope this advice helps! Good luck with everything!
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I think you should date whoever feels right to you (that sounds wrong but know what i mean.)
date someone who doesnt show you off like a prize. date someone who will love you for you, and treat you right. it doesnt matter what label they have, if their jock, emo, gothic, geek. it doesnt matter!
I hope that helps!
and a note about and to the person who answered this question before me: nobody is "normal" everyone has a place some kind of label. there arent Normal people. i think that people should get along with each other, and not label people. but they do anyway. there arent normal people.
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Don't date either of them and date regular guys.
Unless your QB is really good. Then you can get married and be set for life if he goes before the third round in the draft.
EDIT: I forgot to add. This guy is named Matt. He's probably an asshole.
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Follow your heart, if you don't like Matt anymore break up with him and go for max. I felt the same way about my jock boyfriends they just weren't really what I wanted, I guess I wanted more. And I found this great guy who is a little different, but amazing. I hope that you have the same luck.
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