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need ur help guys!!!
14/f
So i really like this kid and my friend does to. He is new to this school so there is a lot I dont know about him but from what i do know he is really funny and sweet. Not to be concieted, i am one of the more pretty popular girls in my school because im nice not because im intimidating or manipulative. So my friend is in lower math with him and I am in higher math and the way things work out is that she is in 2 other classes with him and without me to give him more attention than i could. No offense to her but she isnt one of the more attractive girls and i just really need a way to get him to notice me. BADLY i have been single for way to long because my recent crush isnt allowed to have a girlfriend because of his parents but he is bring a jerk lately.
Thanks!
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Neither of you should go out with this boy. Honestly, it will destroy your friendship. You need to sit down with your friend and talk about this. You should really make an agreement that NEITHER of you can go out with him. Truthfully, neither of your relationships with this boy would really last long. Most don't at 14.
If your friend finds another boy she likes, then it would be ok to go for this one. If this happens try to eat lunch with him or strike up a conversation in the halls. However, until your friend is over him, he should be off limits to you.
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ooh i see.
this same situation is happening with my two best friends. :]
Well find a way to stand out from this girl, we will call her KRISTEN.
And make this guy, lets say RYAN.
umm okay soo just flirt with Ryan when she is not in the room. And have one of your other best friends lets say ERIN talk you up to him.
And I'm sure that you can get him to like you.
Heck, I'm sure he likes you already.
Love,
Me xox
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Well, I see the predicament you're in. You like a boy that your friend may like as well. I don't think you should go out of your way to get him to notice you. Showing off and playing games tend to deter boys, instead you should just be upfront with him. You seem confident with yourself and who you are, so, simply be yourself and just ask him to hang out. Don't make it a date, that might scare him off, just make it a casual get together. Some one on one time with him will give you both a chance to decide whether you like each other enough to start a relationship. Hope this advice helps at least a little! Good luck!
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Good going on the friend bashing thing. First stage is always compliment yourself and compare your friends to you. it gives you confidence.
Use your beauty and brains.
Wait, if he's being a jerk, why like him? Observe him for a while. If he's changed, try easing him up to conversation. If not, ask him in a friendly way why he did this and that. BE CASUAL
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