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should i have sex or not?
my boyfriend wants to have sex with me and i fell like i want to but im scared i will fall pregnant wat shold i do???
xx need advice girl xx
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Im going to have to agree with the below. If you are on this website asking what you should do because your boyfriend wants to have sex and you are scared, you are nowhere near ready for it.
1) www.coolnurse.com
Go there. Read. Lots. Read on pregnancy. Read on STDs. Read on contraception. You need to know (not have a general idea, know) the facts of sex. The realities, the risks, etc.
2) Wait.
You arent mature enough for this yet. Guys are always going to be horny. Especially guys in high school who havent figured out that part of being a guy is learning to control yourself. Hes going to want sex, but that doesnt mean its up to you to give it to him.
Its also worth noting that if you are worried you might lose him, let him go. You might think that its worth giving up your virginity now to keep him. You wont think that for long. Its not a matter of if you realize that hes not worth it and that you made a mistake, its a matter of when.
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If you wanna have sex,and your scared of getting preggy then...
1.have condoms with you. Don't expect the boy to be responcible.
2.Tell your mom, dont keep it secret.
3.Get on birth control pills before you have sex.
4.Make sure you really know the boy. Like, if I was you, I wouldn't have sex with him unless I had been dating him for at least 1 or 2 years. Not months. Because, if he's been pressuring you about sex, then technically, that's all he wants.
I hope I helped.
-sweetipie205
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Do not have sex if you have any doubts. But if you end up deciding to remember to be safe. If your boyfriend is pressuring you into it he probably isn't the right guy for you anyways because if he was he would consider your feelings and respect them. But please if you have any doubts at all you are probably not ready for this step.
Haley_xx
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Wait until you are certain.
Use protection. Educate yourself about it, and use it correctly.
Accept that there is always some risk, even a small one, of pregnancy. If that risk just seems too big and scarry for you, that is a sign that you are not ready for sex.
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If you're sure that he's the right person, you're sure that you want to and neither of you are underage, then go for it.
If the <b>only</b> thing holding you back is the fear of getting pregnant, there's a simple solution.
ALWAYS, ALWAYS USE A CONDOM.
If he refuses to use one, refuse to sleep with him.
Also this will protect you from any nasty diseases if you're boyfriend isn't a virgin (you never know with some STIs).
Before you have sex with him, if you havn't already, work up to sex in stages (ie, hand jobs, blow jobs etc) and that'll make the experience easier pschologically.
Have fun, stay safe and good luck xxx
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