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Q: 14/f
http://img147.imageshack.us/img147/3466/purplechereevr9.png
^^ thats what i look like.
I kinda have a big nose too.
so i dont think eyeliner is a good choice
because it makes your eyes appear smaller.
but idk what else to useee.
help? :/
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Eyeliner on top lids with little flicks looks cuute and makes your eyes look bigger.
Try bright coloured eyeshadows, you have a beautiful skin tone that will take lots of jewel-shades.
Try dazzle dusts by Barry M... Put a little vaseline on your eyelid, that'll make the colour stick and be BRIGHTER :D... or just smudge it for more subtle looks.
And you don't have a big nose, don't worry! xxx
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Q: ive been wanting to get my cartilage pierced but my parents are like omg thats so gay looking so they wont let me get it done by a professional. i was thinking about doing it myself ,but im not sure how to do it safely. my friend told me just to clean the needle and your ear with alchol and push it through the cartilege, then take it out and put the earing in, and clean it wiht alchol once or twice a day for like a month.
if there is anything else that i need to do please tell me cauz i dont want to messs this up!!
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I think to be honest, doing it yourself is just a bad idea.
If you're going to go behind your parents' backs, just go to a professional behind their backs...
You can get kits on the internet sometimes, though, with the right type of needle. Get someone else to do it as well, doing it yourself willbe awkward. x
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Q: well i threw up last night..and i got really bad constipation and agonising stomouch pain..is this to do with bulimia and the acid??? Also i have started not eating and i was wondering..how long will it take me until i faint from not eating??
DO NOT TELL ME TO TELL SOMEONE, though, i have told somebody and am starting to recover..i just wanted these questions answering..
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Yeah, basically you're causing all the stomach acid and other chemicals to become unbalanced, and that's not good...
Faiting from not eating depends on what you're doing. Strenuous activities will cause you to faint.
It's really good that you've told somebody, and I hope that you are making a huge effort to recover because doing stuff like this to your body really isn't good.
I hope you get over this soon xxx
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Q: erm well, i have been trying to make myself throw up for like 9 months, but i tried it the other day but no sick came up but i still had specs of blood on my hands, and then today i kinda threw up and not very much sick came up but blood came up, not specs, more than that, and it was all over my knuckle. it wasn't just blood there was vomit, just some blood?? that was the first time i have properly thrown up so is it normal to see blood and have it on my hands, because nothing could be serious if i did it just once????
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You could have scratched the back of your throat whilst trying to make yourself vomit.
Other than that, it's not good at all since if people have blood in their sick through puking naturally, it's pretty bad.
Being bulimic really isn't good- you'll end up doing a lot of damage to your body this way.
Talk to a friend, parent, doctor, anyone about it...
If you feel like you can't, my MySpace address is on my page. xxx
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Q: Ok....do any of ya'll guys out there do anything sweet for your girlfriends....stuff "just because"...not for any particular reason. If so what do you do? And for the girls.......what have your boyfriends done for you?
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Send her flowers in the post :)
You're a sweetheart x
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Q: 15/f
ive been friends with this kid for a really long time and i had sex with him not to long with ago. and it was the whole 'friends with benefits' thing. now theres another girl and he says that he was tired of being single.. but we both know that if we ever did go out then we wouldnt be able to see each other like the last two times that happened. (he lives like 30 minutes away, by the way). but still i was right here the whole time. i wish he knew that i wanted him, but i didnt have the guts to say it and he said he wanted to move on if he cant have me.. i want to move on but then again it hurts because hes prob over there fucking that girl. pure jealousy. and i dont want to move on because ive been in love with him for two years. i want to know how to win him back, like show him that its me he should have. ideas?
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You probably won't want to hear this, but by just letting him have sex with you, he's just used that and moved on.
Chances are he's not going to fall in love with you anytime soon.
You need to move on and find someone who respects you. xxx
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Q: what kind of things should i eat to help make my immune system better able to fight this cold?
my throat is sore so most things im thinking of eating, will make my throat feel worse :/ like bananas or soup.
i dunno; but i need help on what to eat to get over this cold.
ALSO, what should i eat normally so i dont get sick all the time anymore?i mean, i was just sick not even a month ago. i dont think im eating healthy enough. should i drink vitamin water? or maybe take some type of vitamin daily?
please and thank you.
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Spinach and broccoli both have higher levels of vitamin C than oranges do.
Obviously oranges...
Innocent smoothies do a vitamin C superfoods smoothie, which will help and tastes yummy.
Basically, any food with vitamin C.
I used to have the same problem, but then I started eating spinach :) xxx
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Q: Okay I have only had my period for like a year, and I did not get my period in August, and the "time" has already come and go for September. I know it takes a while for your period to be regular but could this be like and ovarian cyst or something? Because a week ago, (not time for my period, but) I was having really bad stomach cramps for like 4 days in a row. We were about to go see a doctor, but then I thought it could be a abdominal strain cuz I had been doing alot of weightlifting. So do you think all this is bad or not? Oh yeah, the stomach problems are all better now. 14/f
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Your period takes a while to get round to a regular cycle, so anything else happening in your body can effect it.
I'd get the stomach cramps checked out, because whilst doing weightlifting can be good for you, you don't want to put too much strain on your body as you're still growing.
You probably won't even need to be examined by a doctor, just ask him some advice as to how much you should do etc. xxx
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Q: I'm 15/f.
I have no friends.
I had a tight group of friends last year, but for some reason they started to distance themselves from me & all became really close just the three of them, & I don't have anyone else that I hang out with.
I talk to a lot of people at school, but no one would just randomly ask me to hang out--most of them assume I'm still friends with the same people I was last year.
I've never had a boyfriend, or a guy show any interest in me.
I hate my body & the way I look.
Ever since school started, I have been crying myself to sleep every night. Especially because it's hard to see my old friends acting like nothing's wrong, saying hello to me but nothing else.
My mom and dad keep telling me to try to make friends, or tell my old friends that I'd like to hang out with them again, but it's too hard. Not to mention embarassing.
I messaged two of those friends on myspace saying basically, anytime you're free if you want to call me, I'm always available.
One said oh yeah, we will.
& the other didn't respond.
So now I think they probably talk about it & laugh at me.
& I know those aren't the friends you want to have but, they really were good friends & we had a good time.
I don't know how to get through three years of high school with no friends.
I've started cutting myself.
I think about killing myself a lot, but I can't do it because it would crush my parents.
That's the only thing keeping me going, is that my mom would blame herself or something & I couldn't do that to her.
I don't know what to do.
But I can't take this anymore.
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These people aren't worth the time of day, never mind killing yourself over.
Focus on the good things in your life... Concentrate on school because that's what's going to improve your life in the future and get you away from the same old people.
You'll probably be able to make friends a lot easier when you start thinking positively, just saying 'hello' to someone in the same class as you, starting a conversation about the work could be the start of a friendship :)
Focus on having a good relationship with your parents- they're always going to be there for you, and they're keeping you strong at the moment.
Inbox me any time you like, not even with a question, just to chat, 'cause I know exactly how you feel.
You can MySpace me, my link's on my page...
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Q: Okay there is this guy that i have liked since like 7th grade and one of my best friends has none this. She started liking him too.. (i doubt it.) And he started liking her.
Now im not trying to be a catty, jealous, caniving bitch, but i mean im the one who got them together because i was being the "good friend". And honestly i dont mind that they are going out.
But she treats him poorly and he knows it. EVERYONE DOES. Shes always with other guys. I just dont think its acceptable. And here i am watching all this. I am wondering .. is she just going out with him because i like him? And i just dont know why she would treat him poorly...when he is the greatest guy in the world and it makes me feel bad because im the one that helped them get together..but he still seems happy and i know i would treat him better... So what do i do?
oh and sorry..its so long. But i think the guy knows that i like him. Is it wrong that i like him and that is my friends bf? im so confused. :[
ill rt.
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I think you should talk to her about how she's getting a reputation- then you sound like you're really worried about her.
Since you liked him before, it's not wrong to like him at all as long as you don't try to act upon it. xxx
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Q: I want to sing a song for my mom's wedding (in October), but I can't seem to find one. I'm an alto, so it's hard for me to find songs to sing since it seems like every female singer has a super high voice. I was thinking about singing my own version of "Hero" by Enrique Iglesias (their song), but I'm not sure. Does anyone know of any songs I could sing? A list would be awesome : )
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Beatles songs are fantastic for alto voices.
If it seems like most songs are too high, then just sing down an octave, simple as that. xxx
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Q: do you think it would be okay for me to freely use the word "bollocks" even though i dont live in england nor am english?
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Personally, I believe the word bollocks can only be uttered effectively in an English accent.
Then, I could be biased.
I am English.
Where are you from? x
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Q: i need to learn italian, im going to rome during spring break most likely. i speak french, not fluently but enough that the french can understand me. from learning french i can read some italian but i cant understand it if someone speaks to me. since i know french will that help with learning italian? also what is a really really good book or book on tape so i can learn italian?
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French will help because the two laguages have the same origin- Latin.
I found that knowing French helped me learn Spanish, which also comes from Latin.
Try the 'Talk Italian' tape and book set by Alwena Lamping :)
Good luck! xxx
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Q: how do you send pics to my pix place from my phone. all it tells me it is sending it but then it tells me invailed address. what do i need to do. i have a account and everything. please help
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I HAVE NO IDEA.
I use a bluetooth device to send my pictures to my computer and then upload them...
Sorry!! xxx
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Q: I have bad acne. Iv had it since 5th grade and Im now in 11th. Im 16 and a felmale. I have proactive, but doesnt work. Is there anything I can buy/do to help clear my face up? Anything I can stop eating/drinking that might help. I LOVE Pizza and I do drink to much pop, is the pop doing it? Any ideas are welcomed!.. But I dont want anything stupid like put toothpaste on it. I have acne, not just pimples. Thanks!! =]
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Changing your diet so it's healthier will help... I know this because I have mild acne and it gets worse when I've pigged out lol.
Less chocolate and pizza and pop will help LOADS... Vitamin E is good for your skin (and hair) so any foods rich in Vitamin E will help- green leafy veg (like spinach) is rich in it so increasing your intake of these will hopefully make a difference.
If a product, like proactiv isn't helping, change it to suit your skin :) xxx
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Q: I have already posted two question about this a while back , But since then I had gotten better, Now I am starting to feel sick agian.
Simptons that I have:
Brusis
Always feeling like I am going to throw up
Dizziness
Tiredness
I am very pale
I know I really should go see a doctor but I would jsut like to know what you guys think it could be, Since anemic can't just disapear .
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Anaemia can get better and worsen according to diet, so it could still be anaemia.
It's worth getting a blood test for anaemia and other blood disorder because, bruises, nausea, paleness, fatigue etc can be signs of other blood disorders.
Good luck finding out what it is. xxx
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Q: kay kay i need to knoe da code to a star u know like for a heart u put in ♥ well wat is it for a star
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There isn't one that anyone I know knows of...
That's because the hearts are part of a set- the card suits.
There's ♠ &dias; and ♣ as well, completing the set.
Sorry. xxx
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Q: does it hurt to get your Tragus pierced....an how do they do it.
and same question about your nose.
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I had my tregus pierced and had it done with a gun.
So it's basically like having your ears pierced... Although be warned, the gun is REALLY REALLY LOUD because it's so close to your ear!
It hurts for longer than having your ear lobes pierced, and it swells up quite a bit. But keep it clean and it'll be fine.
My friend who had his nose pierced says that it doesn't hurt a lot- same as ears basically- but it's more difficult to keep the inside clean. They do it with a needle.
xxx
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Q: So my friend and I are thinking about getting tattos, When she's eighteen and I'm seveteen. I know I'll need a legal guardian and thats not a problem.
But what are some good things to look for when finding a tatoo shop, and how much does it cost about, and the pain? I'm pretty good with pain, if you could compare it to something that'd be great. Thankss.
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The pain depends on where it is... Also, it's difficult to compare it to anything because so many people have different experiences and when each person compares it to something else.
Most people say it's a kind of tingly, stingy pain though.
When looking for a tattooist, ask people you know who have tattoos for recommendations, and ALWAYS look at a tattooists previous work. You can always tell the quality of a tattoo by looking at it.
Also, when you visit to make an appointment, check how clean they are. If they don't appear to be REALLY clean (after all, they're putting a NEEDLE into you), just walk out of the door.
Price depends on size! Ask around for quotations, taking your design with you.
Good luck, I hope you find someone good. xxx
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Q: i havnt had my first kiss yet and i want it to be speacial. i dont know where or when or who it will be with but does anyone have an idea on what would make it speacial???
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If it's with someone you REALLY LIKE and you're really relaxed, then it'll be special.
Don't be pressured into it.
Once it's the right moment, and you're really relaxed and comfortable, then it'll be perfect :)
Good luck xxx
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I'm 17, doing my second year of A levels now... I guess that I've seen or experienced most "teenage dramas" (urgh, patronising term) so whatever you want, just ask... I can be incredibly honest (to the point of bluntness) with my advice, but sometimes that's what people need...
Hope I can help! xxx
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Website: Gender: Female Location: Kent, UK Occupation: Student Age: 17 Member Since: September 9, 2007 Answers: 55 Last Update: November 19, 2007 Visitors: 3821
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