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My best friend is going out with my highschool crush.
Okay there is this guy that i have liked since like 7th grade and one of my best friends has none this. She started liking him too.. (i doubt it.) And he started liking her.
Now im not trying to be a catty, jealous, caniving bitch, but i mean im the one who got them together because i was being the "good friend". And honestly i dont mind that they are going out.
But she treats him poorly and he knows it. EVERYONE DOES. Shes always with other guys. I just dont think its acceptable. And here i am watching all this. I am wondering .. is she just going out with him because i like him? And i just dont know why she would treat him poorly...when he is the greatest guy in the world and it makes me feel bad because im the one that helped them get together..but he still seems happy and i know i would treat him better... So what do i do?
oh and sorry..its so long. But i think the guy knows that i like him. Is it wrong that i like him and that is my friends bf? im so confused. :[
ill rt.
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Look, there seems to be one very important person who DOESN'T know she treats him horribly: her boyfriend.
She probably isn't JUST going out with him because you like him. Very, very, few girls are actually that evil. She just doesn't have the same standards as you hold yourself too, and she probably just doesn't 'get' why anything she is doing is wrong.
Apparently he doesn't 'get' it either.
There is nothing wrong with your feelings, you just have to know really well what it is you can and can't control.
You can't control who he chooses to be with.
You can't control her behavior.
You can only control you. So, just leave the mess alone. If her behavior towards you or in front of you gets too intolerable, by all means tell her to cut it out, but you don’t really get a say in how she treats him unless she asks for your advice or imput.
Hopefully he'll get a clue.
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Well you should speak to your friend,tell her that she shouldn't treat him that way,if she still continues her ways then you should tell the guy you like him,because like you said he deserves better but you will need to come clean,tell her you will go for him because she hasn't been a good girlfriend.
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I think you should talk to her about how she's getting a reputation- then you sound like you're really worried about her.
Since you liked him before, it's not wrong to like him at all as long as you don't try to act upon it. xxx
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