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i dont want to have sex but i want to do more
i dont want to have sex with my boyfriend we are way to young. but i masturbate alot and i want to do more with him, but i dont want to give him head or anything that would consider me a really big slut, we makeout all of the time and i really like him, weve been going out for like 2 years. what can i do what wouldnt b going "to far"
thanks alot :D
- carlie
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Do whatever you feel comfortable with. If you want to move onto oral sex, go ahead. It doesn't make you a slut. You've been going out with him for two years. I'm not too sure how old you are though? But if you don't feel comfortable with doing it, then don't. If you want to do more, then simply talk to him. Just ask him to take it slowly.
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You could let him touch your boobs, you could feel his abs.
Or Like the others said fingering and handjobs.
you could make out with like your shirts off.
have funn.
:] Haley
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You've been with him for 2 years. You wouldn't be a slut for giving him head. Sluts are easy girls that do stuff with lots of guys just for pleasure. You have been with one guy for a long time and there's more than just pleasure involved in your relationship. Oral sex would definitely be okay if you wanted to do that. It's not like anybody would know unless they walked in on you or either of you told anybody about it. It would be something special just between the two of you. Other than that there's a ton of things that you could do. If you're not comfortable with touching each other yet, you could always masturbate in front of each other. If you do want to touch each other you could try mutual masturbation, which is basically masturbating each other (guy touches girl, girl touches guy). Other than that, know the difference between nervousness, awkwardness, and feeling uncomfortable. It's okay to be nervous and it will probably be a little awkward in the beginning as long as you aren't uncomfortable, though, you should try new things. You're going to have to get by your nervousness and the awkwardness sometime. It's not magically going to go away one day. Don't put it off unless you really do feel uncomfortable. Good luck. :)
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maybe he could finger you and you could give him a handjob?
:)
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Firstly, how old are you?
Secondly, if sex/oral sex is not an option, then make-out sessions are really the only answer to your dilemma. You could give him a hand-job & he could finger you, but also take into consideration that (not that making out can't but..) THAT could most definitely lead to a more serious proposal, but hopefully both you and your boyfriend are on the same page.
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i think you should keep to making out if you dnt want to go to far or be called a slut cuz once youloose it you can never have it back and its good that you are open bout your masterbation but there is nothing u can really do i mean hand or head or he could eat you out or finge you but thats about it and dnt let anybody pressure you in havind sex
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