hey my name is courtney. i live in cali i hate people who are fake i dnt care what people think of me they talk crap cuz they have nothing better to do. i am singleand happy. i am no where near perfect and luv to listen to peoples problems im in high school and love it my friends are whatever.
E-mail: holguin_courtney@yahoo.com Gender: Female Location: cali-fornia Occupation: single so far Age: 14 Yahoo: holguin_courtney@yahoo.com Member Since: April 7, 2007 Answers: 41 Last Update: September 27, 2007 Visitors: 3962
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well i got a new boyfriend (both age 15) and in school tomorrow he is going to hold my hand. but when i get nervous or actully in general my hands get really sweaty and i dont know why. i tried just wiping my hand on my jeans but it doesnt exactly work. any advice? (link)
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yea that happens to me to i just have clamy hands and when i hold somebodys hand that happens to so the best thing you can do i do this is just tjink about something other than holding hands with him
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i was wondering where you get a tattoo removed and about how much it cost? and does it hurt more than actually getting the tattoo (link)
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you have tp go to a specialist and it depends on how big the tattoo is. And yea it hurts more than getting the tattoo and when you get it removed it dosent go away instantlly it goes away gradually
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okay today i stepped on a nail rusty but didnt go in my foot its just kinda poked now im freaking out i mean i had a tentunas shot when i was 9 or 10 but im still kinda scared i washed it with achocol and stuff. but what do i do. doctors is kinda last on my list because my medical card is missing but help?
thanks in adance.
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if i didnt break the skin then no you dont have to get a shot but if it went through the skin you have to get a shot
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do i have to sign up for tanning?
explain to me how it works, and how much is it? (link)
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No you dont have to sign up for tanning you go into a tanning salon and you tell them your name and you go in a tanning booth or get a spray tan. It depends on were you go to get it and what kind of tan you get it all depends on where you go and the type of tan you get
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So I'm 14/f.
How do you use your tounge when you kiss? thanks i wanna make out. (link)
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ok well this might sound stupid but spell your name with your tounge like u you make a u and stuff
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does anyone know when the next season of degrassi and greys anatomy start?
thanks! xoxo (link)
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the new season of degrassi starts next friday the 28th and greys anatomy starts sometime next week
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so i just started dating my bf who's six years older than me (don't worry its legal so thats not the issue) and he just broke up with me and it's the first time i've actually cried about a boy. He says i'm too young and he couldnt' live with himself. can i prove to him that i'm older than my years? (link)
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you cant reallt prove anything to him and a guy that you cry over isnt really worth your tears if they broke up with you. If you want to prove to him then act really mature.
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So i really want to whiten my teeth, and i was thinking of getting those crest white strips things.. what ones do would you guys reccomend? I heard the dissovling ones were really nasty but i'm not sure.. and do you know where i could get them inexpensive? Also, are there any.. i guess with stuff that you have at home or something.. that i can use to whiten my teeth? I prefer something that works fast and isin't really that expensive. (link)
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ok there are these whitening strips called rembrant they work really good you do it at home and it takes 30 minutes and in the next 2 days your teeth are pretty white you do them for a week and they are like retaners the crest ones take the enamel off your teeth and they are like 29 dollars
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i dont want to have sex with my boyfriend we are way to young. but i masturbate alot and i want to do more with him, but i dont want to give him head or anything that would consider me a really big slut, we makeout all of the time and i really like him, weve been going out for like 2 years. what can i do what wouldnt b going "to far"
thanks alot :D
- carlie (link)
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i think you should keep to making out if you dnt want to go to far or be called a slut cuz once youloose it you can never have it back and its good that you are open bout your masterbation but there is nothing u can really do i mean hand or head or he could eat you out or finge you but thats about it and dnt let anybody pressure you in havind sex
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what do you do when a guy hugs you from behind or kisses you? not dating but were bestfriends and do love eachother and we wont date for a reason.i wont say. im 13 a female (link)
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when a guy hugs you from behind if he hugs you around the waist wrap your arms around his and if he kisses you kiss him back and of you guys truly love eachother then you would go out belive me i have lots of experience with that stuff
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I have a situation that I really don't know how to deal with. I feel like just blowing my friend off, but I know in the long run that may not be the best solution. I am a married guy with a one year old boy. It seems that since we had kids, our friends don't want to be friends anymore (but perhaps that's not true). Perhaps, we are still working on balancing our family and social life. There's one particular guy friend of mine and we've been pals for a long time. He's married (without kids, by choice). We've been friends long before I even met my wife. In the past, he has been very supportive of my family and kid, but over the past few months, it's been a struggle. He will never call unless I call him first. When I do call, he's very friendly. When I ask him if he wants to get together (alone or with our wives), he's always busy. I am tired of having to initiate the friendship all the time. When I try to bring this up to him, he's a master at avoiding the issue. I am almost at the point where I want to tell him that he's too busy for me and perhaps we shouldn't be friends anymore. However, that may be too impulsive of me. Recently, I sent him and his wife an invitation to our son's first birthday (with an RSVP). He never responded. Now, I'm left to call him and ask him if they are coming. I really don't want to call, but I am trying to be mature. I really don't think he's jealous of my kid. In some sort of way, I think he feels that I am more devoted to my son than I am to our friendship, so he's decided to back off. However, I still would like a friend to hang out with. Nonetheless, I am really getting pissed that he's not making any real effort. I'd hate to lose a friend I have had for so long, but it's irritating. I hate to be rash. Also, on a somewhat different line, I am not very good at making friends so I hate to lose my existing friends. Thoughts? (link)
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its not that they dont want to be your friend but maybe to them since you had your baby it might seen like to that person that your blowing them off.eventhough your friend isnt making an effort maybeyour not making a big one either and nobody wants to lose a friend but the best thing you can do is talk to your friend and slove everything
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Can you have spiders living in your ears? Or bugs of any kind?
Basically, during the day my head feels pretty normal, the occasional pain, ear pop, etc. But when I go to sleep at night and I put my ear to the pillow, I can hear my ear make little popping noises, crackling, even. ALmost like rice krispies. After a little while I can still hear the noises, but I notice that it feels like something is about to come out of my ear, as if whatever it is is somehow not attatched anywhere in my ear/head. At times it really scares me.
Does anyone else feel/hear these things?
Is it possible for spiders or some kind of bug to be in my head?
And is this normal? Should I go get it checked out. (link)
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yes its possible for spiders tolive in your ears no its not normal but sometimees i hear poping noises you might want to get that checked out
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how can i get my body to be leaner?? i am very athletic and lift weights alot...what can i do to have muscle and be very strong but not bulky, instead lean??? (link)
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it has alot to do with your body structure and gow much your body can handle it mostly has to do with eating right but there are some things you ca do to geta 6 pack what you do is you stand up and turn your body including your hips for at leat 30 min to an hour. another way is to just dance dancing gets your body great so again move your hips for 30 min
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13/F
I always avoid guys I like. I'm either really intimidated by him or I want to seem more confident by not talking to him or I'm embarrassed of liking a guy.
I'm quite an introvert. I'm really embarrassed that a guy might know I like him and I try to hide the fact that I like him by never to talking to him much, or avoiding him, never making eye contact, etc.
I'm too shy about this and I need some advice. (Books, tips, exercises? Anything.)
Thanks. :) (link)
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dont avoid this giy if you really like him you need to talk to him. Somrtimes its ok if you ignore him because sometimes when you ignore them they want you more.
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Ok well I'm going out on a date tonight. Its my first "real" date and we're going out to dinner. I know this kid fairly well and were pretty comfortable with each other, but we talk so much we kind of ran out of things to talk about. I really don't want this to be akward without anything to talk about, so any ideas?
Also, I know this is weird, but I HATE eating in front of people, especially someone I like. I don't know why, but I'm nervous about it. Again, I know this is strange, but I can't help it. (link)
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you could talk about what kinda music you like and any sports, activitys. what you guys like to do on your spare time what colleges you want to go to what are your favorite foods stuff like that.
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I live in Australia =]
I'm finding it really hard to sleep at night. It takes me like 4 hours to get to sleep no matter how late or early I go to bed. It only happens on school nights and I HATE MY SCHOOL WITH A PASSION. I also had no troubles sleeping in Primary school and my first high school
So any suggestions on how to get to sleep? (link)
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well sometimes what i do is think about whwt i am going to do over the weekend or think about someone you like if they were to ask you out or you could count backwards.
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i have verizon wireless, but can parents see what youre texting if they want to? like is it on record and if they call verizon can they see all your texts even after you delete them? (link)
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no they cant see your text messages unless they get this special program and they can see your texts but other than that no they cant not even on your phone bill only calls,
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I kinda self conscious about my penis...not because of size...because of it not being circumcized. is there a doctor i can go to without my parents to get circumcized? lol it sounds funny but immagine asking your parents to take you! (link)
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I dont know but i know that jewish people get it done when they are 13 and i guess it hurts alot if yuou look arund i am pretty sure you can find one without your parents knowing. :P
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There's this thing called Imitation Crab meat...how do you make it? It's kept in the freezer...so how to cook it? (link)
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well you dont have to cook it it is already cooked you could like example cook pasta and then after put the crab in it you just add it to stuff. :P
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im 13 and i weigh 130 pounds.
im a diabetic so i cant like not eat, i have to eat like 4 carbs at meals and 1-2 carbs for snacks which i have to have 3 of during the day.
i want to lose about 20 pounds by summer or so to look nice in a bikini.
i know people say cardio works, but like if i ran around on the trampoline, like jog on it or whatever would that work, and like running around my backyard.
also i heard jumping rope is good, but i can only do it for like 1 minute at a time.
what else can i do to lose weight on my arms and legs and stomach and but.
please helppp. (link)
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To loose weight on your arms you can do arm circles for like five minutes and to loose weight on your stomach you can do like 2 sets of 5 push ups or you could do pulls ups and that will get your stomach flat and to loose weight on your legs you could run od do leg lifts. :P
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