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Well, I'm 20 years young, enjoying life, and loving my ni99a. Been together four years in January and couldn't ask for no one better. {{te amo daddy}} In between career goals right now, completely undecided but not yet frustrated. I spend my free time reading (urban erotica/fiction), shopping,
or chillin on the eastside...

I'm a pretty uninhibited person, so feel free to ask me anything!

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okkay well lets see, friday i was with my bf and we were talking about what we were going to do saturday. && he was like im not doing anything, and i was liike okkay well then maybe we should do sumthinn together. and he was like yeah sounds good. so that nite he called me and he was like okay i am sure i can do summthin tomorow and i was like okay and we just decided i should go to his house. so i called him when i woke up and he said he will call when he gets about to leave from breakfast so i was like okay sounds good. so he calls and says hes about to leave so i get ALL READY and btw his parent LOVEE ME! and i was like are you sure i can come. and hes like POSITIVE. so he calls when im on my way to his house and hes like okay well im back from breakfast but my parents saaid no to you cumming over. i was like whyy? what happpened? and hes like nuttin idk but noone can come over today. SOO that nite i went to a friends house and she were like i talked to your bf today and he went to his X's (kori) house, and him and kori hung out. and hes having a big party 2nite with all his friends. so i was like WAIITT. he was with kori? && having a party 2nite AFTER HE SAID NOONE CAN CUMM OVER. and so i called him and when i said i HAVE to talk to him he was like well i have to go. talk to you tommorow. bye. and i was like WOAHHH.. and he hungg up. now i have been told that he still likes kori. so that made me more mad. so if all this is ture, should i give him a 2nd chance? or is that bad enough what he did? helpp! && thannks. sorry so longg. thanks for reading! =]]

Second chances are meant to be given to: (A) Those who deserve one...and (B) Those who want one.

This fool (I know he's your b/f..sorry but..he is one) falls into neither category.

If he's pushing you and your feelings aside, and 'messing'(take into appropriate context) with his ex, he obviously doesn't care about you as much as you care about him. Let him go and find better.

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How much time does it usually take to get over a broken heart? Its been one and half months, two other guy's kisses later, and I still can't get my cheating ex out of my mind. Its getting mentally exhausting to trick myself not to think about him.

Everyone moves at their own pace. Broken hearts don't mend in a day..& it's always hard when someone you love(d) is no longer in your life. Can't put a time frame on it, but stay positive. Think about all the good things you still have in your life, and where you're going. It'll get better.

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The last time I had sex was back in mid-August, 2 days before I got my period. I've gotten it both in August and September. I always have it around the 17th and I'm never late. But for this month, I still haven't gotten it. So is it possible that I could be pregnant?

And...

Is it true that sometimes for the first couple months of your pregnancy you can still get your period, because your body is adjusting to your pregnancy.

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Contraceptives are never 100% as we know, so if you are sexually active, there's always a possibility.

Yes it is true that you can still have a period and be pregnant. My cousin had a period up until her fourth month, didn't even know she was pregnant. So the safest thing for you to do is go get checked out. Make an appointment, just to be sure. Better to be safe than sorry. If you don't want your parents to know, there are places like Planned Parenthood you can go to.

If you are, and want to keep it, its best that you find out now, so that you can take the proper precautions. Good Luck.

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18/M hey the names weak
I have a problem, my relationship with my girlfriend is going good so far, but I feel that I'm going to be the one that will mess up, what I mean is that I'm weak with girls and I'm afraid that one day I will go to go a party one day and there's girls all over me and I can't help but to flirt or god forbid sleep with some of them, I never cheated on my girlfriend but like I said I'm weak against girls, what should I do to prevent this from happening, I love my girlfreind and she doesn't deserve to be hurt, but I really like women also?
please help thanks

No one can make you do anything that you don't want to do. Remember that.

I am a 19/f in a 3 year relationship...who used to do whatever the hell I wanted to do prior to my current boyfriend; and if you really love her...you will do the right thing.

Think about what she means to you, what impact your possible cheating could have on her, and if that still doesn't work...then you need not be in a relationship in the first place.

A solid relationship is based on love, trust and teamwork, and if YOU aren't sure that she can trust you...she won't be either.

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I like this boy but I dont know what to do

The first thing you need to to is establish whether or not he likes you, also. If he is obviously NOT interested, it's probably not a good idea to pursue anything...simply because if he initially doesn't like you for you, he isn't worth your trouble.

Lots of people make the mistake of trying to impress that certain person...Don't. Be yourself.
Is he already a friend? If not, strike up a conversation...find out what your mutual interests are, and play off of that; Get to know him.

How old are you?

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I know this is going to sound really skanky but, I gave this guuy head a few days ago, and when he cummed I swallowed a little bit, but then spit the rest out. Now there's this rumor going around he has an STD, can I get it from swallowing just a little bit of his cum!?

pleasee helppp.

Get to a doctor please. STD's can be transferred by oral sex, not just regular intercourse. Even if it is just a rumor, it's better to be safe than sorry. I hope everything works out OK.

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I always have to pee. I drink more than everyone else I know but I don't get why I always have to pee. like as soon as I pee and walk 2 steps- i immediately have to pee again. It's annoying.

what's wrong with me? overractive bladder?

You could have a bladder infection or a U.T.I. (Urinary Tract Infection). The best advice I can give you is make a doctor's appointment. Soon. If that IS the case you want to get it taken care of before any other problems develop.

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okay, well my english teacher gave my class a project to do, they said that we needed to create a "mobile".

she said we need:
seven items--these can be drawn constructed or bought
- these figures need to give the viewer a fair representation of the entire novel that you have read.
-figures must depict certain elements of literature...title, theme, plot, character, setting symbolism, etc.

but the main thing is she said

use a hanger or other material that will be sturdy and hold the weight of the items hanging from the mobile, we will hang them from the ceiling.

is there anything else you can use besides a hanger? because, i can't come up with anything to use to hang stuff from, and would be sturdy enough, tell me please?
but if there was a hanger... how exactly am i supposed to use it like? metal wire or plastic? O.o

Well that all depends on what objects you have to use and how heavy they are.

I don't know if these would be accessible, but those little wooden rods that you usually get at a craft store would work. Tie them together in the form of a cross, and you should be all set.

If you can't get a hold of those, try a picture frame. It probably sounds dumb....but if you stop and think about it, it'll work. :)

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me & my b/f are about to hit our year anniversary. what could i do for him or what could i get him??
i want to do/buy him a bunch of stuff...
Any ideas. I dont care if they are stupid or not.
thanx in advance!!

For our one year anniversary, my boyfriend & I went to the city with his older cousin & her boyfriend, and got a suite.

I don't recommend that if you still live with your parent(s) and they are strict about things of that nature... {{Believe me...because my mom was MAD ha ha}} But it's a nice idea...whether you two are extremely serious or not. It's a good way to just get away, relax, and spend time with each other.

As far as buying things...I have no idea. I don't buy my man gifts...I'm a very bad gift-giver. Money & a kiss is the route I go L O L. Or a Play Station / X-Box game. Can never go wrong with that ;)

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i dont want to have sex with my boyfriend we are way to young. but i masturbate alot and i want to do more with him, but i dont want to give him head or anything that would consider me a really big slut, we makeout all of the time and i really like him, weve been going out for like 2 years. what can i do what wouldnt b going "to far"
thanks alot :D
- carlie

Firstly, how old are you?

Secondly, if sex/oral sex is not an option, then make-out sessions are really the only answer to your dilemma. You could give him a hand-job & he could finger you, but also take into consideration that (not that making out can't but..) THAT could most definitely lead to a more serious proposal, but hopefully both you and your boyfriend are on the same page.

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