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I need some advice please help!!!
18/M hey the names weak
I have a problem, my relationship with my girlfriend is going good so far, but I feel that I'm going to be the one that will mess up, what I mean is that I'm weak with girls and I'm afraid that one day I will go to go a party one day and there's girls all over me and I can't help but to flirt or god forbid sleep with some of them, I never cheated on my girlfriend but like I said I'm weak against girls, what should I do to prevent this from happening, I love my girlfreind and she doesn't deserve to be hurt, but I really like women also?
please help thanks
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hey, here is the thing, i have just like 2 words to say here.
If you really love her like you say you do, as in real love and as in, i care about you and i give a shit and you mean everything to me.
Then, there is nothing called 'weak' here.
Cause if you really have that much feelings for her, love would stop you from doing anything such as cheating, or checking out another girl and having thoughts of screwing her.
Flirt, crack jokes, fool around... .thats like so whatever, but if you come to cross that line, then your not inlove here.
I mean, even thinking of such thoughts, or that you could hurt her ,then you don't love her as much.
I don't know here but, there are so many guys like that, you know, you just like to party and fool around with girls and play with them, but you don't like commitment, or you can't handle it, so if so, then just face her with the truth and tell her that instead of hurting her, but thats only after you reconsider your priorities and think about all this again.
But on the other hand, if you DO love her, then you would find yourself able to resist the temptation of any hot chick, that you think right then, i wanna get into her pants.
Reconsider ,and contact me if you need any further advice.
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No one can make you do anything that you don't want to do. Remember that.
I am a 19/f in a 3 year relationship...who used to do whatever the hell I wanted to do prior to my current boyfriend; and if you really love her...you will do the right thing.
Think about what she means to you, what impact your possible cheating could have on her, and if that still doesn't work...then you need not be in a relationship in the first place.
A solid relationship is based on love, trust and teamwork, and if YOU aren't sure that she can trust you...she won't be either.
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