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online datting
ok so this is pretty long. so about a year ago i was really bored so i went to this site my friend had told me about and i met this guy and i didnt think anything of it at the time you know, i was just talking to him then he asked my for my aim thing and i was like ok sure what could it hurt. anyways we got to talking and one night he told me he liked me and i thought about it and i wouldve never gone out with him like i didnt even know him. anyways. he was really sweet and idk i just thought he was cute and he had like all this stuff wrong with his life and i felt bad for him. and one night he was like everyday i sit here and cry over you because i know ill never find another girl like you i really love you and i was like WHOOAA and i felt bad so i was like ok ill go out with you like i didnt think it would last i just didnt want to make him feel bad. so we went through alot and i dont know its been a year and like weve broken up like 5 times but still its been like a year and i think i really love him and we ve talked on the phone and everything but i dont know. what i should keep doing.
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While your feelings for him may be real, the person you think he is may not be as true. I'm not saying he might be lying about himself, but until you are face-to-face with someone, you will never know if you have that same chemistry in person. the more you "fall in love" you are actually just in love with who you want him to be, not who he actually is. I know it's hard to get over someone you have had a deep emotional connection with, but you need to learn how to date in real life!
you will ALWAYS have that connection with him, but you have to trust that there is more out there! good luck!
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how old are you, first of all.
if you're like around the age of 16 or so, i would consider actually going out with guys you know.
right now is the time to have fun, experience new things, and by being with someone you don't really see, makes you miss out on what else is out there.
i've been in the same position, i called it quits after about 2 years, and i met guys in real life, and now i wouldn't go back to online dating.
online dating is nothing compared to real life, you don't know anything about the person, except for what persona they have created.
i'm not telling you not to stay with him.
you should just consider something else.
hope i helped.
good luck.
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