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What am I doing wrong?
Im in love and I thought that was enough but Idk. I wish he would show me that he loves me some times. He does some times and he treats me right but its like he doesnt care. I want to be with him and I dont want to take another break. I feel like im controlling. I guess its my fault...
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No its not your fault! I definately know how you feel. Maybe your guy doesnt know how you feel? Communication is very important..let him know that sometimes you want him to show that he cares more. If he really cares about your feelings he will do his best to listen to how you feel and work on showing his affection more. I hope it works out!
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Maybe he's shy because he hasn't had much experience. Or maybe he's scared of commitment. Boys are different than girls, they aren't open about their feelings. Tell him how you feel, that might change everything, he might not realize that he acts this way, and don't worry you aren't controlling, you just care about your relationship. Good luck.
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It's not your fault. I was in a similar relationship. If you have tried to talk to him about this and nothing worked but caused a fight.. then it's not worth it. Because if he's aware of it and hasn't made a little change.. it's his problem.
Maybe he's not the type that likes to show he loves a person. sometimes people are like that. you are not controlling you just want some attention. and it feels like he's not taking your hints about it either, right?
you should talk to him and if it doesn't help then i don't think you should be with him.
because i talked to my ex about it so much.. that it did nothing and usually people won't change. people are stubborn and think nothing's wrong with themselves. he might think you're clingy :/ even though he's not showing you he cares the way you want. How do you want him to show you anyway? You already took a break.. but why?
You really need to think about this relationship. Is he really making any effort? Do you REALLY think you're doing something wrong? I mean if you aren't telling him what to do and yelling at him over small things, then you aren't doing anything bad.
I stayed in that relationship and it upset me so much. I blamed myself for things.. It didn't even make sense. You shouldn't continue to hurt yourself.
At least he shows you sometimes.. but what type of guy is he? Maybe you shouldn't expect much because he's possibly shy about it? He probably doesn't know he's hurting you unless you voice it.
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ok Number one. IT IS NEVER YOU FAULT! Alot of girls blame themselves about relationship problems and it ends up making them feel horrible and sometimes ruining the relationship. Odds are, this guy doesn't know how you feel about this. Maybe he thinks he is showing you he loves you. You need to talk to him about it. Just tell him how you feel and get him to understand from your point of view. He probably had no idea he was making you upset! Whenever theres an issue in your relationship you just need to sit down and talk about it. He loves you and you love him so he'll understand. Love xXxPuNki-PiXiExXx
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