I need some help on knowing how to make sex more intersteing for this one guy. we have never had sex together before so i want to make it a time he wont forget and he is more experienced then i am. so any tips on how to make sex amazing for him would be helpful.
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Sexual Health and Reproduction category? Maybe give some free advice about: General Sex Questions? ultraguy55 answered Thursday June 28 2007, 3:07 pm: well, lady i am flattered that you asked this question. ok now,men have emotions too right? so first of all you need to start by boosting his ego. most of the men just bust away thinking what their partner might think, of their body, odour, libido etc. so you need to calm him down first. you can do that maybe by a sweet talk nad roamticizing some moments or place that you would like spend with him ( this chickening out is seen even in experienced men). now that was prelimnary, next step slowly undress him first, then you slowly undress yourself.. alright (but make sure that he initiates everything first otherwise i might make you look slutty.) go for a gentle massage, which will shape up as a hot foreplay. now i don't know whether one can write these things here on this site, but anyhow i need to help you. there are 3 places that men easily get turned on by:
1. neck and ears, kiss, whisper and caress and he's flat
2. the spine at the back yes, its one of the major turn on points, you could caress him there (you could just move your gentle finger over the spine or backbone (precisely).
3. errr....groin, yes indeed. no further explanation.
but REMEMBER, show him that you are excited and not intimidated, enjoy thoroughly, each and every moment, acknowledge his moves and actions on bed that will give him a TURBO BOOST. and lady DON'T BE PASSIVE, after sometime you take the lead and and both of you experience that BLISS.
thats all, girl, i hope this mail wasn't vulgar, this was the most censored version, i could have gone more discriptive but then SOCIAL RESPONSIBILTY, this site has its own dignity i presume. so...........may you and your partner taste the heaven and you gain some confidence and heat up the place. hope i helped take care.wish you all the best (please give me feedback!!! not of your experience but of my mail haha he he. cya. [ ultraguy55's advice column | Ask ultraguy55 A Question ]
kaydence answered Thursday June 28 2007, 3:03 pm: Well when you guys are doing forplay make it last as long as you can, kiss him all over but dont let him in until you can tell he's begging for it!!!
You should get on top and take control, it'll drive him crazy...go sloooooww and just kinda rock around with your hips...you'll have him going crazy...
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