hi lovely people out there, i am here in this utopian site to help you all.... well, i am very optimistic and ambitious person, but i value friendship and love more than anything else, they are of paramount importance in my life (my snap shows my friend circle). i always seek for betterment in me as a person and in others. i believe that i have an uncanny ability to percieve problems and give the right solutions, i have seen many things in my life, which has given me tremendous exposure and wisdom to solve your problem. i promise you that though you would get the answer of my problem late (coz my management studies goes around 24/7, 365 days, i am doing MBA), but i assure you, that you would get best solutions to your queries, that, might change the way you look at the problem itself.
feel free to ask any questions on
*love/ relationships
*career
*sex
*friendships
and of course FUN.
my hobbies are, nature trails,trekking, reading books, listening to music, interacting with people and having loads of fun.
who says life's tough....... its just the way we look at our life, that's all.
some wise person rightly said,"life is what 1% happens to you.....and 99% is the way you react to it". such an profound statement. so, go ahead people, advicenators are here to HEAR, your problems and make your life peaceful.
E-mail: www.ggajendra55@yahoo.com
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Location: MUMBAI (BOMBAY), INDIA
Occupation: MANAGEMENT STUDENT
Age: 24
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i can't take life. i honestly can't. every morning when i wake up i'll try to think of something good that might happen today, but the truth is it's just another damn day. where i'm still my miserable and lonely self. everything in life is too disappointing. I don't have friends or a boyfriend, well i used to have a "friend" but she always tried really hard to make me feel worse about myself. Just now she even asked my "why?" when after she said that guys stare at her 24/7 and I told her they do the same to me. She's such a hurtful bitch.
Every time i have a date set up w/ someone who is interested in me, HE BREAKS THE FREAKING DATE. So all my relationships end before they really begin. See it's just my luck.
I want to commit suicide but I can't because I'm afraid of the pain.
Please don't say anything like "Oh everyone feels this way sometimes." because i feel this way ALL the time. all the god damn time.
people ignore/exclude me whenever they can. i don't even do anything bad/mean.
and also please don't say "oh honey everything's gonna be okay things will get better!"
because i've already heard that too much.
therapists/counselors don't help me. i've seen too many of them. can i be put to sleep or something? like a dog? is that possible?
what can i do to take life? i just want to die so badly. don't say anything like "oh just pray about everything and it'll be okay." I'm not a christian and i never will be again. i'm agnostic because it's the only true religion.
it's not like i've had any horrible tragedies or anything, but i still am just as miserable as anyone who has had them!
god i want to die. help. (link)
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well, let me tell this incident of a person who i know, well it goes like this, his mom committed suicide when this guy was just 10 years old and his sister just 5 yrs old, due to her illness (she had rhuematitis), he was shaken and so was his father who loved his wife a lot, and worst this boy saw his moms dead body hanging on the ceiling (JUST IMAGINE THE IMPACT ON THIS CHILD AT THIS TENDER AGE)............... life wasn't the same after that, his dad did not remarry and thought bringing his children on his own. after that this kid did not get good grades and Tried forge his dads sign on the report card and got caught by his school, which literally ashamed him a lot and worse his dad came to know about this so did every one of is relativeS, his morale aNd respect went down (trust me this kid used get A grades AND used be a top 5 rank holder and was felicitated many times when his mom was alive) not many people spoke to him much HE EVEN TRIED COMMITTING SUICIDE AT THE AGE OF 11, BY GOING CHEMISTS ASKING FOR SLEEPING PILLS, the overdose kills people, things went worse as he was unable to concentrate on studies and became HYPERACTIVE, and he and his sister were looked after by many relatives who sometimes abused him (verbally) a lot, this shattered him........... this boy and his family got relocated to a new place and now this time he had his maternal aunt looking after him and his sister, he did have differences with her, but now its fine. well he wanted become a doctor and studied seriously, but couldn't become one (his moms wish was to see him as a doctor and saving lives of many people). he cried and cried and cried, but everyone lost hope on him started moking him.boys used to beat him up and girls.. took pity on him, you know guys used to take him with them meet their GFs to JUST SHOW THAT THEY G WERE SMARTER AND GOOD LOOKING THAN HIM, TERRIBLE!!!!! but tHis guy was not to feel defeated......... he became spiritual, and THAT DAY HE OPENED HIS EYES, trust I AM NOT FABRICATING, THE DAY HE CONNECTED WITH GOD 'CONSCIOUSLY', things really were different from then on............he did his BACHELORS OF SCIENCE (BSC) in ZOOLOGY, he stood 2ND IN THE WHOLE COLLEGE, he was felicitated well, he had an STRONG AND COMMITTED AFFAIR with one of the most beautiful girls in the college and many girls crooning for him, his friend circle had more girls than boys and his group and affair with that girl was ENVY for the whole college (though they separated mutually now). he then went on to do MASTERS OF SCIENCE MSC/MS in BIOTECHNOLOGY and got A grade in that, later he worked for ONE OF BEST COMPANIES (AOL) and was awarded BEST PERFORMER in just two months but then he wanted to establish more so prepared for MBA and gave the test........SCORED DECENT BUT DID WELL IN HIS GROUP DICUSSION AND PERSONAL INTERVIEW, he got admission in ONE OF THE BEST B-SCHOOLS OF OUR COUNTRY AND CREAM OF OUR STATE. TODAY BY THE GRACE OF GOD, HE IS NOW DOING IS SUMMER INTERNSHIP WITH THE TOPMOST PHARMA COMPANY IN THE COUNTRY AND ONE OF THE BEST IN THE WORLD. AGAIN, THE ALMIGHTY BY HIS SIDE HE ROSE FROM WORST TO BETTER TODAY, AND HIS FATHER STILL DID NOT REMARRY AND BY GOD'S GRACE, HE, HIS SISTER (she is also doing her bachelors in science BSC in Chemistry), HIS DAD AND HIS AUNT ARE HAPPY AND THE ALMIGHTY WILL ALWAYS KEEP THEM HAPPY. phew............................so................................ TELL ME THERE ARE PEOPLE WHO HAVE BEEN WORSE THAN YOU AND HAD TOUGHEST PHASES IN LIFE BUT TODAy THEY FOUGHT AND ARE HAPPY today and by god's grace (i know you are agnostic, but he was not) will be happy tomorrow, and for times to come. IF HE CAN RISE WHY CAN'T YOU. just because some stupid friend demoralizes you everytime, you belivee her come on BE ASSERTIVE, AGGRESSIVE, LOOK INTO YOURSELF, IS YOUR BRHAVIOUR HURTING MANY PEOPLE, IF YOU ARE RIGhT IN CONDUCT AND YOUR CONSCIENCE IS GOOD, WHY THE HELL CARE ABOUT THE WORLD, THEY WILL LOOK BACK AT YOU WHEN you CHANGE FROM A MEEK TO MERITORIOUS, C'MON, GET UP KNOW YOURSELF AND BE PATIENT, YOU WILL HAVE BOYFRIENDS, FUN, LOVE EVRYTHING, BUT YOU JUST NEED FIND IT YOURSELF, no one WILL provide you.
HE FOUND IT. i don't say pray to god, become religious(JUST ATLEAST, TRUST YOURSELF) etc. just ANALYZE what makes things gO worse for you, WHO IS RESPONSIBLE, YOU? OR OTHERS? can you change the WHOLE SCENARIO, YES YOU CAN .....JUST CHANGE YOUR PERCEPTION THATS ALL. join some social networking sites'myspace.com' and 'orkut.com', you will find new friends. dear friend, i am sorry for such BIG mail, but yours was a serious case and i had to put all this to make you feel better, I WILL BE YOUR GOOD FRIEND, my mail id is ggajendra55@yahoo.com, mail me BE MY GOOD FRIEND, WILL YOU?.......................and by the way that friend of mine IS ME (YES ITS ME WHO HAS COME FROM THOSE HARROWING EXPERIENCES, NEED I SAY MORE?) I DON'T WANT ANY RATING FOR THIS MAIL ( I MEAN IT), TRUST ME I WANT YOU TO CHANGE THATS ALL.
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so i got an iphone for my birthday, does anyone no if theres a warantee or w.e on it just incase i break it or something?
thanks. (link)
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well APPLE, is one of the best companies offering technological solutions and definately they would have given some WARRANTY, for which you should peep into your cover box or packaging, which has the directions of use (USER MANUAL), at the same place you would find the warranty card, if any problem, U CAN CALL UP THEIR CUSTOMER CARE.:->
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15/F
My parents don't really care about my health. About a month ago, I got a huge gash on my shoulder from a rusty, dirty piece of metal at a dirty amusement park, and they didn't let me get a tetnis shot.
When I broke my wrist, they wouldn't take me to a doctor until three days after, and when they did, they took me to a pediatrician.
I found out about a learning disorder, dyscalculia, and I really believe I have it. I'd like to see someone to screen me for it. But they won't let me see anyone.
Next time something happens and I want to see a doctor.
Also, any advice on how to get them to let me get checked out for the last one would be great. (link)
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hey by the way DID U TAKE TETANUS SHOT NOW????!!!
thats the main part, going by your description of the metal, i suggest you that you rush to the doctor immediately...........now thats the problem right your parents would downplay this as a normal incident. now, here is where you should use the best weapon THE EMOTIONAL BLACKMAIL!!! yes i know this sounds very off track, but just attack (read:convince/understand) them, by asking them that do they really love you or care about you? but ask politely then, give them this scenario analysis, that is for example, "mom, i heard from my teacher that this kid, who had this same problem has developed serious complications blah, blah" etc, u know kind of attracting their attention to the gravity of situation that you are facing. ASK them what is making them to have second thoughts about your life, your age (15 yrs) gives you that warranty. CONFRONT them mildly.
as of dyscalculi, PLEASE PRAY TELL ME HOW DID YOU ANALYSE YOURSELF??? just because you can't do math calculation properly doesn't mean you have dyscalculi etc. please you are very much normal...even i fear MATH, i love it yet i hate it, am i dyscalculi??? NO. so be cool, relax and act matured, so that your parents take the notice of the changes that is comming in you (positive changes) and take care of you more.
SATUTORY WARNING: this emotional blackmail thingy, should be USED only when it is for the above cases, and should not be ABUSED, for small petty things, girl, i might trouble your parents.
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okay when do u have your growing sprout? and how bigger does ur penius get? (link)
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well did you mean by beard and moustaches???? if thats so, then it usually comes as early as when a person 11-12 years old, but for some it comes as late as even 21!!!!!! it all depends upon your hormone production whcih depends on your genetic make up which dpends on hereditary factors. got it.
ok now a penis size dpends again on your hormone testesterone, which again depends on anove factors. but during arousal it grows upto twice the size when its flaccid (normal). i hope i was able answer your query well. well thanks for the message.take care :->
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About how much times would i have to run up the stairs( 13 steps ) a day to burn a pound or 2 a day?
Thanks in Advance (link)
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well.. start 1st day with just 3 times up and down( i am sure even thats more) gradually increase this frequency like twice (6 times with a break in between, it is called 'sets', 2 sets is 6 times ), then thrice but do it till 5 times (10 ups and downs, with intermittent gaps). bau mai i suggest you something why don'y you jog that the best aerobic excercise.do it safely. happy workout :->
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15/f + boyfriend 17/m -
okay well him and his parents (mom and dad) are going to ocean city the 15th-22nd and they invited me. they're paying for everything. the thing is my dad said it was okay, but mom didn't. i need sooo much help to convince her it's okay. i wrote her a letter stating we wouldn't be sleeping together/all the requirements! i need so much help please. i want to go so unbeliveably badly.
any advice?! (link)
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love_hurts was on target. you just need to convince her and that too truly taht you wouldn't get into those activities, besides you both are accompanied by his parents, there you have good point build up on it. if you desperately need to go then tell his mom or pop to speak to your parents.(this one is far fetched, but no harm in trying). BON VOYAGE.
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okay if u masterbate too much like maybe 4 years none stop would your penius shrink?? i was juss wondering because i was searching on google an average penius size.. (by the way what is an average size) and this guy said his been masterbaiting for 3 years.. and he's notice his penius shrinking.. thats kinda weird could that really happen? (link)
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blaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaah, IGNORE those stuffs. an average penis size varies across ( 2 inches is the minimun size which i enough to satisfy a woman). trust me masturbation has nothing to do with shrinkage etc. its only the mode of masturbation which is critical (some do it with godknowswhat things like bottles!),in that case it is dangerous. and by the way, a survey was conducted amongst men and women and the result: women seldom care about penis size (unless they are sluts). and men worry more about penis size. so be chilled and sleep well, i gave you more than you asked for. hope that helps. take care.
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I'm meeting my boyrfriends friends for the first time (Both female and male! and two of them are his EXES!) and we've only been dating for 1 week! Is there anything I should think about? What TO DO? What NOT to do?
I usually wouldnt worry but since its BOTH females and males, I'm afraid I wouldnt know how to impress both genders at the same time.. It feels like by getting one gender to like me the other wouldnt! you know?! HELP! (link)
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ok, no worries, just be simple and MATURE, be polite and show that you care a lot about your boyfriend (but that should come out of you naturally). i would suggest you know something about your boyfriend, like fav.actors, cuisine, hobbies, likes and dislikes (this is where you show your interest on him and maturity level). and please be realxed and never show your jealousy if the exes do something but at the same time don't be so naive, if situation demands attack with a sense of humour (read:satire). thats all the field is yours. best luck.:->
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alrighty this could be long so bear with me
well hello everybody, how are you?
i'm pretty good, except for one little thing
little bit of backstory here:
a couple of years ago *two, to be exact* i volunteered at a camp so i could get my 20 service hours for 8th grade *i ended up with like...100*. well i met this girl that was also volunteering there, and we became friends over the summer, and did some things as friends with a group until around christmas. then we sort of just stopped talking- we weren't mad at each other, we just became really really busy. so i saw her at random places throughout the last year and a half or so, but never really talked to her a whole lot
well fast forward to now, and i've begun to volunteer at the camp again- and guess who's there! yep, the same girl! and she looks beautiful and is just such a nice person, but i can't seem to talk to her- everytime i get a chance i freeze up and can't keep the conversation going (it doesn't help that she's in a swimsuit, either- she only works on pool days). so what can i do? i think she kinda likes me because she was trying to get the extremely annoying little 8 year olds to leave us alone for a while so we could have some alone time, but they wouldn't so we never really got to be alone...
so what can i do? i have her AIM SN but she hasn't been on in a while...
i was thinking about asking her to go see a movie this weekend or sometime next week...would that be a bad idea? i am just completely retarded when it comes to this kind of thing and any help is greatly appreciated!
thank you very much for you help/opinion
by the way i am 15/m and she's 15/f (link)
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hey pal, see.. its your great luck, you met her again, which proves that this ain't con-incidence, there is some reason that you both met once again, now you need capitalize on this moment. now you said that, she kinda likes, well good, now make us proud by gettig into casual conversations with her, after yours and hers community service walk together and give her her a company to her place (if she stays nearby) otherwise just ask her out for a coffee or just for hangin out. now at this time, tell her about your weekend plans and see what she says... she will definately agree and thats it take her out and please REMEMBER girls like shy guys but.....to certain extent, they also want guys to make the first move so take your advantage nothin is going to fall upon you for this act. if at all there is rejection, please appreciate the fact that you had mustered the guts to go and propose her your feelings. GO AND GRAB THE OPPORTUNITY, i tell you THIS IS NOT CO-INCIDENCE, there is some reason explore it. hope i helped. take care.
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ok well i think im in love with two guys and one of them lives in a dif country!!! But he is really sweet and I like him alot and then the other lives not to far way but im not sure if hes still interested in me because everytime he says he wants to hang out he always seems to make exscuses later to not go.And yesterday the guy in Australia asked for a nude pic of me!!! so yeah i feel very confused (link)
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absolutely right fiabean, but that was from a girls perspective. now listen form a guy, ok any guy asks for your snap (and that too nude), is a freaky nymphomaniac trust me and (chuckle) i don't think he's taking you seriously. so steer clear and be safe and smart.
as of the other guy, again fiabean is right confront him but do not be hasty, take your time let him know that you are really in love with him (but never make him feel that you are VULNERABLE and DESPERATE), have normal chat with him, find out about his hobbies and interests and his friends, talk to him about what he likes and does etc. and slowly let this friendship mature into a good relationship....however, these two guys are not the only adams and adonises, there are plenty so don't be so confused. hope i helped, take care.
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I need some help on knowing how to make sex more intersteing for this one guy. we have never had sex together before so i want to make it a time he wont forget and he is more experienced then i am. so any tips on how to make sex amazing for him would be helpful.
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well, lady i am flattered that you asked this question. ok now,men have emotions too right? so first of all you need to start by boosting his ego. most of the men just bust away thinking what their partner might think, of their body, odour, libido etc. so you need to calm him down first. you can do that maybe by a sweet talk nad roamticizing some moments or place that you would like spend with him ( this chickening out is seen even in experienced men). now that was prelimnary, next step slowly undress him first, then you slowly undress yourself.. alright (but make sure that he initiates everything first otherwise i might make you look slutty.) go for a gentle massage, which will shape up as a hot foreplay. now i don't know whether one can write these things here on this site, but anyhow i need to help you. there are 3 places that men easily get turned on by:
1. neck and ears, kiss, whisper and caress and he's flat
2. the spine at the back yes, its one of the major turn on points, you could caress him there (you could just move your gentle finger over the spine or backbone (precisely).
3. errr....groin, yes indeed. no further explanation.
but REMEMBER, show him that you are excited and not intimidated, enjoy thoroughly, each and every moment, acknowledge his moves and actions on bed that will give him a TURBO BOOST. and lady DON'T BE PASSIVE, after sometime you take the lead and and both of you experience that BLISS.
thats all, girl, i hope this mail wasn't vulgar, this was the most censored version, i could have gone more discriptive but then SOCIAL RESPONSIBILTY, this site has its own dignity i presume. so...........may you and your partner taste the heaven and you gain some confidence and heat up the place. hope i helped take care.wish you all the best (please give me feedback!!! not of your experience but of my mail haha he he. cya.
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hey is this cite a racist cite coz i think so????????????????? i hate this, its sickening (link)
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why do you think so??????????? and what makes you think so?????????
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i am in love with an awesome guy. there's no need for me to really describe him....because this is my question: i'm moving away and will probably never see him again, and i couldn't find him the last few days of school to get his screen name (idk if he even has one) so what should i do?? I won't be moving till august....someone please tell me, cus im so in love with him (we're friends...but i want to be more). Help. =( (link)
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oh poor girl.. i appreciate your feelings for jack? but don't worry, i don't know whether you very well know about ORKUT, a social network site try logging in and type his name (surname) and if you find him........wonderful you will be always in touh with him.
if not then... did you ask any of his friends, about his whereabouts? yes or no, doesn't matter, take any one of his classmate's number (a good friend of him would be good idea) and from them his number and screen name. you have a whole lotta time (till august start networking girl, you might reach him.....Trust ME....six degrees of separation holds true here too. take care..hope you find him.
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what does it feel like to be in love? theres one kid who i cannot stop thinking about for anything and when i think about him sometimes i wanna throw up i feel literally sick to my stomach when im not with him and i cant stop smiling when im with him and hes such a sweetheart and idkkk i pretty much think i am but like is it possible to fall in love with someone within a 6 day spann? cause ive talked to him for like a month and ive always kinda liked him but we have been hanging out for the past 5 days straight and i realize how much i like him and when im away from him, all i wanna do is be with him i mean i think its pretty self-explanatory but does this sounds like love? (link)
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ummmmmmmmmmmmm.......good, do you realise that this feeling is priceless, i makes you very light and full of mirth.but... have you ever fallen in deep love before? because i have... trust me that feeling of yours is an infactuation, which can be moulded into love (yes, one can), if you patienly give him hints that you really like him (appreciating him, complimenting, light touching etc.)and you act very much yourself, then he would definately look back at you, start thinking about you, may call you more and will hang out for a longer time and thats when one of you need to propose your feelings, and then............................... you guessed it its a blooming LOVE. wish you all the best, enjoy yourself in this wonderful feeling.
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im already thin, but have no muscle on me. if i do 100 crunches a night, about how soon will i see results? (link)
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well well, first of all who are you?????? i mean are you a male or female.
ok, if you are male, whats your age?
if you are over 15 or 18, then ok, you have to really have good intake of protiens and carbohydrates
i.e. a good and solid diet plan will put mass in your body and then........your crunches will bring shape and convert and loose fat and muscles into sturdy ones. alright? but even after this still no result then maybe your body's metablic activity so high that the moment you eat anything your body just burns it off, clear? the only remedy for above conditions consult a good dietician who will give you a proper plan. now if you are inspite the above two reasons ruled out very thin, then BLAME IT ON THE GENES. your body is that way only. no remedy.
100 Crunches a night is not enough buddy, you need eat and drink energy to build that sturdy and masculine muscles. hope you got it. well give it a try (it worked on me, really.)
IF YOU ARE UNDER 15........COME ON.. the sun is yet rise be patient, the hormones will do it for you.
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i saw it on the health network channel...a woman took peas in a can, placed the opening by her clitoris and the metal cut open her clitoris and the can was full of bloody peas! i tried this but instead of peas it was yams in a can and i felt a very sharp pain. is it possible that my clitoris is also sliced? by the way the woman died by this tragic incident. (link)
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only a NINCOMPOOP, would do such a savage act. are you insane lady, some shows some stupid stunt in TV and you try it!!!!
cmon there is aomething known as PRESENCE OF MIND
which should have told what that thing in TV was. NEVER EVER blindly copy whats shown TVs, they do it jsut to increase their TRPs (Target Reach Point). please wake up!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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19 f
ive been going out with my boyfriend for six months now. and im just curious about something. is it a bad sign if the guy doesnt want to have sex as much like he still holds me and kisses me says i love and everything but for some reason i find myself always having to initate it and usually when i ask it feels like im asking for to much. ive asked if he thinks im still attractive and hes like yeah your beautiful. i dont know what to do. how can i get him more in the mood. maybe im just a horny girl haha. any advice would be appreciated thanks! (link)
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dear lil girl,
i do understand your predicament, but to tell you the truth, even guys are very shy, when it comes intimacy and etc.
here i list down some assumptions:
1. he must be loving you truly and may be thinking of this relationship as a pious one.
2. he feels insecure about sex, or is really very shy (very rare), maybe that person is hiding something which is causing him to abstain from sex. something very serious or something trivial yet profound.
3. HEY, HE'S COMMITMENT PHOBIC!
for the former two, only you have to initiate it but........ with your loving and nurturing nature, DO YOU APPRECIATE HIM REGULARLY? DO YOU BOOST HIS EGO? if not pleaseeeeeee do, he will gain some confidence and will come closer to you...may be he might share the reason for the inhibition or may even get jiggy with you (read: sex).
Lady, if the reason you think is no.3, then please confront him for his inhibition, and get him out of his closet. but please be patient, things will fall at its right place. hope i helped you. see you, give my regards your boyfriend.
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Well I'm 15/f and I was wondering...do most guys in highschool look for girls that are really hot and have a good body? Cuz I mean I've had boyfriends, but nothing serious...a lot of guys and girls think I'm pretty but I don't have that "amazing body". I've been told I'm really sweet and I do have lots of guy friends who are considered "hot". But i don't know, I don't see myself as a hot girl whose girlfriend material. I want a serious boyfriend and stuff. So basically my question is...what do guys look for in girls? Do they have to be hot and skinny or does personality count too? Sorry this was kind of long...but I really appreciate the help :D (link)
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i can understand your predicament, but, trust we men too have same kind of questions. let me put this straight, there are some boys who are very matured enough to undersatnd the fact that it is nature of the interested person that matters the most rather than looks. but, unfortunately guys definately give importance to looks of girls, because for a simple reason that a good looking girlfriend boosts his ego (that james bond kind of thing). therefore, i would as per your point that friends appreciate your looks, advice you to stay calm but, act matured and be neat and smart (smartness turns guys on). thats all your are ready to take of to loveville. wish you all the best. your are indeed sweet and innocent.
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