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Love life disaster
ok well i think im in love with two guys and one of them lives in a dif country!!! But he is really sweet and I like him alot and then the other lives not to far way but im not sure if hes still interested in me because everytime he says he wants to hang out he always seems to make exscuses later to not go.And yesterday the guy in Australia asked for a nude pic of me!!! so yeah i feel very confused
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fIRST OF ALL, the guy in australia is obviously not interested. Relationships out of the country never seem to work. All he wants is to see your body. THAT"S NOT good. The guy near you is probly interested, but is kinda scared to get to hang out with you. Ask him to go see a movie and give him a sign that ur interested.
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First off, what do you think he's going to do with that picture? Think about it. Besides, what are the chances of you two ever being able to be together, he lives in Australia. And the whole long distance thing is really hard, not to mention that you don't even really know him. Have you even met him? You might think you love him, but how how can you really love someone that you've never met? No offense.
On the other hand, you have a guy who most likely likes you in the same country, right by you. If I were you, I would go for him. Let him know that you actually care for him. You don't have to say it straight out, just talk to him, and make plans to hang out together. Don't rush into a relationship. Become friends first, and take the relationship from there. And if he keeps canceling on you, then confront him and find out what's going on.
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absolutely right fiabean, but that was from a girls perspective. now listen form a guy, ok any guy asks for your snap (and that too nude), is a freaky nymphomaniac trust me and (chuckle) i don't think he's taking you seriously. so steer clear and be safe and smart.
as of the other guy, again fiabean is right confront him but do not be hasty, take your time let him know that you are really in love with him (but never make him feel that you are VULNERABLE and DESPERATE), have normal chat with him, find out about his hobbies and interests and his friends, talk to him about what he likes and does etc. and slowly let this friendship mature into a good relationship....however, these two guys are not the only adams and adonises, there are plenty so don't be so confused. hope i helped, take care.
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Firstly, any guy who asks for a nude pic probably just wants something to masterbate with. No offense, but I have talked to guy friends about this, they told me that they ask girls for pictures and web cam video's and they try to get them to show a little skin for their pleasure. Be careful with the guy from Australia, he doesn't sound too cool.
And now for the other guy, I suggest bring it up to him. Tell him how you feel and that you would like it if you guys hung out. Set a date in the future so he can empty all his plans and then you guys can have a fun time woo!! :)
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