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just curious semi long sorry lol
19 f
ive been going out with my boyfriend for six months now. and im just curious about something. is it a bad sign if the guy doesnt want to have sex as much like he still holds me and kisses me says i love and everything but for some reason i find myself always having to initate it and usually when i ask it feels like im asking for to much. ive asked if he thinks im still attractive and hes like yeah your beautiful. i dont know what to do. how can i get him more in the mood. maybe im just a horny girl haha. any advice would be appreciated thanks!
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I think he has lost his attraction to you. This happens sometimes with guys. I do not know him so obviously, I have to assume his personality.
Best is to find out if it has happened to him before with another partner. Ask him if he has sex himself or can he have a wank looking at porn? It may be possible to find out from his close friends about what he is up to.
This may sound harsh, but he may even be having sex with someone else but may still love you more than any one else. So do some discreet background digging.
One more advice. You can invite him to watch a porn film and see if he gets a hard on and can have sex with you. This will give you an indication if he can manage a to rouse seeing other images of women.
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dear lil girl,
i do understand your predicament, but to tell you the truth, even guys are very shy, when it comes intimacy and etc.
here i list down some assumptions:
1. he must be loving you truly and may be thinking of this relationship as a pious one.
2. he feels insecure about sex, or is really very shy (very rare), maybe that person is hiding something which is causing him to abstain from sex. something very serious or something trivial yet profound.
3. HEY, HE'S COMMITMENT PHOBIC!
for the former two, only you have to initiate it but........ with your loving and nurturing nature, DO YOU APPRECIATE HIM REGULARLY? DO YOU BOOST HIS EGO? if not pleaseeeeeee do, he will gain some confidence and will come closer to you...may be he might share the reason for the inhibition or may even get jiggy with you (read: sex).
Lady, if the reason you think is no.3, then please confront him for his inhibition, and get him out of his closet. but please be patient, things will fall at its right place. hope i helped you. see you, give my regards your boyfriend.
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maybe hes just a little more shy about that kinda stuff than you are. he probably just needs a little push.. when he does do that stuff tell him how much you like it and maybe he will get the hint and start doing it ore often if it makes you happy.
xoxo hope i helped
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Your right. Your probably just an overly horny girl.
He could have lost interest because you want it so much. He also might think that thats all you want him for. You should apprecaite this though. Because some men are obessed.
Have you confronted him about this? You should bring it up. He could have a reason and he just dont know how to tell you.
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