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Member Since: June 5, 2007
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Last Update: August 3, 2007
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This guy that I've been friends with for a while sent me an email after I wrote him (being on holidays) that I had cut 8 inches off my hair. This is what he wrote to me.
"Wow, so you really cut your hair that short? I can hardly wait to see your new look. Now you can show off you SEXY neck".
When I got back from my holiday and he saw my new hairstyle; he couldnt take his eyes off me. He said I looked really good; and then he walked up to me and started rubbing my big toe ( I was wearing sandals). Then he said I had really nice toes; and that most womans toes were not as cute as mine.
So what do you think? Do you think he likes me as more than a friend or am I reading way too much into this? (link)
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He is the experimenting kind.
I think he fancies himself as a cool dude who has few novel tricks to ineterst women. Of course he would like to have sex with you, but I am not sure if it is love. It is more like checking out if his tricks are working.
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I've recently started seeing a 33 year old male who lives in another town, I am a 36 year old woman. He came to visit and I found that I wanted to have sex more often than he did over the weekend and that he was unable to maintain an erection for very long. The erection would go, then come back and then he was unable to maintain his erection long before ejaculation. He was very attentive in all other areas and maintains he is interested in seeing me more often and is visiting me agin soon. However I'm a little confused as I've not experienced this before and I'm wanting to know if he's as interested in me as he states. How do I approach this without freaking him out? (link)
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Try to find out more about him. His work, his interest, family, fantasies, behavior likes and dislikes. Perhaps you may be able to gather some more valuable information, which might give you a clue. I think you need to have lot of patience if you want to be with this guy.
It is a question of if you think it is worth it or not. But finding about him more and having a dialog might be the way to unravel your puzzle.
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ive been going out with my boyfriend for six months now. and im just curious about something. is it a bad sign if the guy doesnt want to have sex as much like he still holds me and kisses me says i love and everything but for some reason i find myself always having to initate it and usually when i ask it feels like im asking for to much. ive asked if he thinks im still attractive and hes like yeah your beautiful. i dont know what to do. how can i get him more in the mood. maybe im just a horny girl haha. any advice would be appreciated thanks! (link)
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I think he has lost his attraction to you. This happens sometimes with guys. I do not know him so obviously, I have to assume his personality.
Best is to find out if it has happened to him before with another partner. Ask him if he has sex himself or can he have a wank looking at porn? It may be possible to find out from his close friends about what he is up to.
This may sound harsh, but he may even be having sex with someone else but may still love you more than any one else. So do some discreet background digging.
One more advice. You can invite him to watch a porn film and see if he gets a hard on and can have sex with you. This will give you an indication if he can manage a to rouse seeing other images of women.
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(Sorry this is a little bit long!)
I'm just starting a new relationship with a guy, Robert. He is ten years my senior, super intelligent, heaps of fun to be around and has his life together, from what I can tell.
We have fooled around and had a bit of sex, but not much because I'm not on any contraception at the moment (and like most guys, Robert really hates condoms). I'm looking forward to going on the pill because I think we will have great sex together.
Here comes the bad part: my last partner had an absolutely HUGE penis (it was like a small tree trunk!!). It was totally out of proportion to his body as he was very short and thin. My 5 month "relationship" with him was a joke, however. We had pretty good sex to start with, but then I started to find it painful, and I realised didn't really like him that much as a person! I found him boring and shallow. I had no qualms breaking things off with him - a big penis was definitely not enough for me!
I had told Robert about my ex at some stage, saying the relationship was purely physical and I was never that into him. This was a BIG mistake. Robert wouldn't let it go. He asked me questions about it. I should have refused to answer them but stupidly I didn't. Eventually he asked, "Did he have a really big willy or something?" and I didn't say anything (wish I'd said no!). He keeps asking me about it, and last night, he even said, "How big was it?", which I refused to answer.
Robert has apologised for asking, but he said he feels we can't move on with our relationship until he knows. I've tried to reassure him that I really wasn't that into my ex but he is fixated on the big penis thing. Robert is above average in the penis department, by the way, but now he has a complex about it!
Now I am awaiting this conversation Robert wants to have with my about my ex, where he will no doubt repeat the size question. What should I do? Should I back-track and lie? I'm scared if I tell Robert the truth or avoid the conversation all together, I will lose him, but I'm also scared that telling him the truth will make his complex even worse and drive us apart :( (link)
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I think he is testing you for trust.Of course he is bothered by the size, but he knows that it was past and now, he wants to know if he can trust you in future. It is more a question of buliding a partnership,trust than the size.
I agree with most advice that you should tell him the truth. Be calm and be serious and assure him at all times that was past and he is the important man in your life for his intalligence and humour which far out weigh the size of a penis. He needs to feel why he is special over the other guy, for him to get over his complex penis issue and only way is to assure him him why you chose him over the other.
You know his personality, so choose your words carefully and good luck.
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when a girl says i just need time to get over him cuzz it wouldnt be fairr,i just need time to think'what does that acutally mean and how long do i have to wait to get my answer? i asked her out today. (link)
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There is no time limit on this and it depends how patient you are as well as how much you want her.
Bst to kno if it is a sex appeal or the real heart you have. I would say leaving her alone for a while, still letting her know that you are still out there for her will make her feel better.
when you have less communication and perseverance, she can become a bit agitated and might respond quckly.
Good luck then.hpe all works well.
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