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sexual performance
I've recently started seeing a 33 year old male who lives in another town, I am a 36 year old woman. He came to visit and I found that I wanted to have sex more often than he did over the weekend and that he was unable to maintain an erection for very long. The erection would go, then come back and then he was unable to maintain his erection long before ejaculation. He was very attentive in all other areas and maintains he is interested in seeing me more often and is visiting me agin soon. However I'm a little confused as I've not experienced this before and I'm wanting to know if he's as interested in me as he states. How do I approach this without freaking him out?
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Try to find out more about him. His work, his interest, family, fantasies, behavior likes and dislikes. Perhaps you may be able to gather some more valuable information, which might give you a clue. I think you need to have lot of patience if you want to be with this guy.
It is a question of if you think it is worth it or not. But finding about him more and having a dialog might be the way to unravel your puzzle.
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you want the truth??Honestly hes just a horny dude lookin for a ticket to having sex.And you are his ticket now...If he was interwsted in you he wouldnt have sex with you more then he trys to get to know you.I think you should confront him and tell him that in order for a relationship to go on...it has to have emotions and love first.
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It may not be you at all. It could be early stages of ED. You've seen the thousands of commercials out there for viagra, cialis, and levitra. Maybe he can give that a try. That would spice up your sex life anyway :)
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Well it is psychological.
He is either very tired so a cup of coffee could keep him wake and his little buddy.
It is a new relatioship. My personal experience tells me that the first times you have sex with somebody...it sucks big time. Maybe the same thing applies to him, so after some try it will all get better. Also it helps a lot when people really know each other, feel secure and familiar.
The more foreplay you do, the longer he will remain hard. Also you will get a more intense orgasm. You should try not to give him a hard on, but wait till he gets it himself, from kissing and hugging and touching you.Then you touch him back.
If you approach it, you ll freak him out for sure and I dont think it will make things any easier.
Try different positions, sometimes in sex, there is a conflict of interest.Men prefer different positions from wimen.
You could also try using a different type of condom. Condoms tend to smell bad, all plastic and stuff. Maybe some fruity condom? Or maybe...no condom but of course with other kind of protection like the pill.
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