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alrighty this could be long so bear with me
well hello everybody, how are you?
i'm pretty good, except for one little thing
little bit of backstory here:
a couple of years ago *two, to be exact* i volunteered at a camp so i could get my 20 service hours for 8th grade *i ended up with like...100*. well i met this girl that was also volunteering there, and we became friends over the summer, and did some things as friends with a group until around christmas. then we sort of just stopped talking- we weren't mad at each other, we just became really really busy. so i saw her at random places throughout the last year and a half or so, but never really talked to her a whole lot
well fast forward to now, and i've begun to volunteer at the camp again- and guess who's there! yep, the same girl! and she looks beautiful and is just such a nice person, but i can't seem to talk to her- everytime i get a chance i freeze up and can't keep the conversation going (it doesn't help that she's in a swimsuit, either- she only works on pool days). so what can i do? i think she kinda likes me because she was trying to get the extremely annoying little 8 year olds to leave us alone for a while so we could have some alone time, but they wouldn't so we never really got to be alone...
so what can i do? i have her AIM SN but she hasn't been on in a while...
i was thinking about asking her to go see a movie this weekend or sometime next week...would that be a bad idea? i am just completely retarded when it comes to this kind of thing and any help is greatly appreciated!
thank you very much for you help/opinion
by the way i am 15/m and she's 15/f
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hey pal, see.. its your great luck, you met her again, which proves that this ain't con-incidence, there is some reason that you both met once again, now you need capitalize on this moment. now you said that, she kinda likes, well good, now make us proud by gettig into casual conversations with her, after yours and hers community service walk together and give her her a company to her place (if she stays nearby) otherwise just ask her out for a coffee or just for hangin out. now at this time, tell her about your weekend plans and see what she says... she will definately agree and thats it take her out and please REMEMBER girls like shy guys but.....to certain extent, they also want guys to make the first move so take your advantage nothin is going to fall upon you for this act. if at all there is rejection, please appreciate the fact that you had mustered the guts to go and propose her your feelings. GO AND GRAB THE OPPORTUNITY, i tell you THIS IS NOT CO-INCIDENCE, there is some reason explore it. hope i helped. take care.
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You should absolutely ask her to go to the movies. Don't be worried or nervous when asking her. She obviously likes you because she wanted to be alone with you without the 8 year olds. When your talking to her just pretend that it is 2 years ago when you guys talked a lot more and were closer to eachother. If you act comfortable then she might too and you guys might talk more and more. The day before you ask her you might want to think of some topics to talk about with her and then once you've talked for a while ask her if she wanted to go to the movies sometime. Don't call it a date because that might scare her away, so keep it casual tHE first time and see what happeNs. Good Luck!
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Asking her out to a movie wouldn't be a bad idea at all. Also if you wanted you could offer to do something where you two can catch up and just talk. It'll help you feel more comfortable around her. Ask her out to like a resturant for lunch or dinner after the movie. So you guys can have that talking/catching up time. Try asking her out to dinner and a movie.
Ask her for her number too, since she isn't on AIM a lot (what it seems like from what you said). If you get her number call her once in awhile to jus talk to her and all.
Good luck and I hope this helps. :)
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Asking her to see a movie would be a great idea! Don't call it or date or anything like that though. Just be casual. Simply say something like: "Oh hey I've been wanting to see that movie ____ would you maybe like to go with me?" This way she will get the hint that you want to spend some more time with her outside of camp, but you aren't being too forward by just asking her out on a date. When the two of you go to the movies, check to see if she gives off any signs. See if she kind of dresses up, is flirting, seems nervous, laughs a lot, stuff like that. Even if she seems totally uninterested at least you will have found out this was rather than getting straight shot down. Or, hopefully, you'll see that she's interested in you too and you can build from there. Also, obviously before you do all this striking up small conversation with her will need to happy. For that, just keep it simple. Talk about the kids at camp, the whether, common interests, etc. This way, when you ask her to the movies it doesn't come out of nowhere. And one other thing, you could also try casually saying to her, hey I was on AIM the other day, but you weren't; I was kind of bummed, it would have been fun to chat with you. This way she also gets the subtle hint. :)
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