soundslikepink answered Wednesday June 27 2007, 5:02 pm: A good blowjob is a joint effort between the mouth and the hands. As you suck him off, stroke him off too. And instead of guessing and/or hoping he likes what you're doing, simply ask him. Think of his penis as a microphone. If you're willing to suck on it, don't be afraid to talk into it.
Ask him what he likes and if what you're doing is feeling good. He'll let you know. There's really nothing you can do to make it un-enjoyable for him unless you're scraping your teeth against it or biting it. If that's the case, back away from the penis. Otherwise, any attention you give to it will be welcome.
There are things that can be done to enhance the pleasure, but not a lot can be done to make him dislike it. That's why guys love blowjobs. Even when it's not being done right, it's still hot. And with practice, you'll be able to do it exactly how he likes it. [ soundslikepink's advice column | Ask soundslikepink A Question ]
Xenolan answered Wednesday June 27 2007, 3:57 pm: Simple answer: try both and see what he likes. People have different preferences. Encourage him to tell you or show you when you're doing it right, and do the same for him when he's doing something for you. Over time, you'll become very well-attuned to each other, and the experience will be that much better. [ Xenolan's advice column | Ask Xenolan A Question ]
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