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what happens.
what happens to your body after you loose your virginity (to a girl)?
this is what i heard:
you gain weight
you get flab on your stomache
your legs get spread open because of the vagina
so what happens?
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your body starts to develope more.
like you get boobs and you don't get
flab for say.. but your body starts to
mature more. like... i am getting love
handles, but thats because i sit on my
ass all day. if i got up that wouldn't
be there.
you don't gain weight.. you burn carbs
when having sex.
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None of the things you mentioned above happen to either males or females. Physically you are completely the same person you were going in as you are coming out. Emotionally you will change and feel closer to your partner.
As far as mentally goes your personality will always be the same but you may come out of the experience more mature. What bothers me is the fact you were given this information by someone and made led to believe it as fact.
Do you have a trusted adult preferably female to talk to or an older sibling about these matters? I would talk to them from here on out about sexual messages as your friends don't have all the facts from the looks of things and you need someone that does.
This kind of misinformation can be especially dangerous depending on what sexual matter your friends or others who told you this are talking to you about. You need access to facts.
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Don't let people scare you. Noting really physical changes about you it's mostly mental...In all reality you lose weigh sex is a great exercise plan!!!
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Physically, not much changes when you lose your virginity. Depending on how curious you are about how you look physically, "down there", that does change, if you ever look at yourself in the mirror. HOWEVER, the biggest changes you will experience are emotionally and spiritually. You will feel much more connected to the person you lose your virginity to, more attached if you will, and you will never look at them the same again. It is so different for guys than for girls. I think psychologically and physically, with women's sex organs being internal, we internalize our responses towards sex, with boys sex organs being external, it's likw our reactions to sex follow those physical cues, so to speak.
2 women, 37 & 38 y.o.
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I think you've got losing your virginity and being pregnant mixed up...
As far as I know, nothing happened to my body when I lost my virginity, aside from the fact that I was sore for awhile and had broken my hymen.
The only thing that can happen is that you can wind up a little looser down there, but it's something you can control by doing exercises...so that's not necessarily a side effect either.
Really, nothing happens to you when you lose your virginity.
Just make sure you're with someone you trust and use a condom (at least), even if you're on birth control.
Good luck!
-Siren =)
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Oh no! Where did you hear that!?
That's not true!
-You can, however, gain weight if you take birth control (but it's really not a big deal).
-Get, what you called, "flab", if you, say, become pregnant.
-If, per chance, you pull a muscle in your groin while having sex you could walk strange...I guess.
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Really, these changes that occur can be very emotional. You can feel sad afterwards...happy sometimes afterwards...it all depends on you.
I think that before you try to have sex, you should learn more about it and what can happen, there really aren't many changes as long as you're safe and know what you're doing.
Try to study up on these things before you jump into them, especially if you are massively misinformed.
-Devon
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