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i don`t orgasm
so when me and my boyfriend have sex, i never orgasm. it feels really good, and i love it - but i just don`t get off. i get off when he goes down on me, etc., but not during sex. what`s wrong? am i doing anything wrong? i don`t understand why i don`t get off... i`m 17 btw. any suggestions or answers would be helpful! thanks
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It's harder for some women to have an orgasm during sex. You can try rubbing your clit while he's going at it, and i'm sure it'll turn him on even more, and please you at the same time. It's kind of like a two for one!!!
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Many women aren't able to orgasm through actual intercourse. They can only orgasm through oral. You are probably one of those women. Don't fret.
However, try propping your pelvis up on pillows during sex. It gives better access to your g-spot.
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You shouldn't feel like you have to orgasm when having sex just because you're boyfriend does.
To help orgasm when you're having sex, when you start to feel that theres something there that feels good slow down and it will make this feeling even better.
If your quite flexible have him on top of you and push one of your legs back as far as u can so he can penetrate you deeper.
Also there is nothing wrong with you it just can take time to orgasm. You're not unusual in any way.
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Some women cannot orgasm through penetration. You can try different positions, but if they fail to work, just chalk it up to your personal inability to orgasm by penetration. If you can orgasm with clitoral stimulation, you may want to try doing that while being penetrated and see if it helps.
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a lot of people don't orgasm through actually sex. some people just orgasm by having oral sex, and some people are opposite. try new positions and see if that helps any. it's perfectly normal though!
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I suggest experimenting with different positions. Not all positions work for everyone! Have him sit up and you sit on him facing him try like that. If he is usually on top you try being on top. Eventually you will find a position that works for you and him.
Good luck!!
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