alright i have tried everything that i can at my age. i've tried fingering, carrots, cucumbers. I mean im too young to buy a vibrator..i really want to get and orgasim. all i get is like a tickly feeling. please i need your advice. thanks in advance<3
14/f
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You need to buy the refills to you can take the brush off. After the brush is taken off. Turn it on and you will see.
Its discreet and one of akind. [ mangoes93008's advice column | Ask mangoes93008 A Question ]
kaydence answered Tuesday June 26 2007, 6:26 pm: as gross as it sounds, if you lay doen spread your vagina lips with one hand and rub with your other hand on your clit, fast then slow, it's best to do it in the shower...hope that helps! [ kaydence's advice column | Ask kaydence A Question ]
orphans answered Monday June 25 2007, 6:29 pm: hey
there are lots of ways to get an orgasm. try reading the 'techniques' or 'stories' & don't forget the archive [left-hand panel]. if you masturbate while reading those, you might be more likely to have an orgasm.
EriksBallerina answered Monday June 25 2007, 6:17 pm: You need to use objects! not like vegetables or anything, those suck. What I use is the flat end of a sonicare electric toothbrush with plastic wrap over it and i secure it with a hair tie. I rub it on my clit and it's great. It gets me to orgasm every time! And I insert a venus vibrance razor (the handle-not the razor) into my vagina. I use these two at the same time and it's amazing.
If you don't have either of those things you can just buy the razor and a handheld vibrating massager (I have one made by homedics- it looks like a ball and it has like 3 little balls attached to the bottom of it). You can get both of these items at target.
And they're inexpensive and no one will suspect that you'll use it to pleasure yourself.
Keep experimenting until you learn how to "push your erotic buttons" and then you'll orgasm!
I had been masturbating when i was 12 and 13, then a few days after my 14th birthday I achieved my first orgasm.
Try to get really horny before you masturbate.
And once you're masturbating and you hit a spot that feels good- keep stimulating it! don't stop! that's what will make you orgasm.
MizzDiva3203 answered Monday June 25 2007, 5:40 pm: Okay... first of all, let me be straight up with you and tell you this... if you can't spell Orgasm... then you dont need to be worried about getting one. And at your age, if you haven't had a period at all or for very long...then its somethin that may take a while for you to experience. You are only 14 years old! This is something that I promise you won't be the highlight of your life so I think that you should be switching your priorities somewhere else. Using food for one isn't healthy or sanitary and if something breaks off up in there, then you're screwed... try explaining that to your parents or the doctors (I've seen friends plenty of time in the hospital because of stuff like that). All you are going to get is a tingling feeling because you are not that mature yet in age or with the growth of your body (i'm sure of this), so give it a couple of more years. It does bother me when young girl talk about this and worry about it because I've been there and it's just something that you shouldn't be worried about so much right now. Because it's going to lead you to be sexually active and doing whatever you can to achieve it and then when you do, you're not gonna wanna stop and im sure you're a smart girl, so you know what can happened from there. I'm not your mother and I'm not here to tell you what to do. You can simply read my advice and take it... but you shouldn't be focused on this issue though sweetie. I'm 21 years old and I know what it's like but trust me!... you would be better off with your mind of school and friends and growing up to be something and somebody that you can be proud of.
Bottom Line: Let your body mature up and let your mind mature and grow up and let nature take it's course. Good luck and let me know if you need anything else and how it goes! :) [ MizzDiva3203's advice column | Ask MizzDiva3203 A Question ]
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