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my toe feels broken but im afraid to tell anyone. its like all purple and swolen. im soo scared!! what should i do? (link)
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Doctors. Don't be embarassed becuase you want it to be fixed before it could be too late. Its most likely infected. There's nothing to be scared out. It's not like they are going to put you under the light and surgically remove your toe.
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So i lost my virginity almost a year ago it was extremly painful and my guy barly got his penis in because it was too painful for me. The second time i had sex with him it hurt again really badly i was starting to get frustrated then i had sex a couple weeks ago with a differn't guy and it was also extremly painful now i do not have any std's and i do not have a urinary infectionn or anything like that i already got that checked out but i want to know why it is so incredibly painful when i have sex i want to be able to have good sex is it because i don't trust my partners and i'm worried and afraid does it cause me to be uncomfortable i just need some advice im 17 and Female (link)
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There's a chance that your hymen has not broken yet. You should not force yourself into sex yet until it is comfortable. You can try to break it yourself. Horseback riding, riding your bike, anything can break it. You can break it during masturbation even. You've broken your hymen if you used a tampon before.
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i need help for my college newspaper. i am in a journalism class and i have to write an article about anything. i want to get a lsit of ideas of things and how to start my article. please help. thank you. (link)
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Choose a topic for your article. This is will be what the article is mainly about.
Write a first sentence that draws in readers. Some great ideas include asking a question, using a quote or stating an amazing fact.
Write one or two sentences that answer the questions who, what, when, where, why and how. This is the typical outline for the first paragraph of a news article.
Consider a final sentence to sum up your article. This works in much of the same way as a thesis sentence in an essay.
Revise the paragraph. You may want to play with word choice and order to make it as readable as possible
Check for spelling and grammar mistakes
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Since your in college, write something that has occured recently or will occur.
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I really, really, REALLY have a MAD crush on this guy in the 8th grade. I am in 6th grade! He barely talks to me, but sometimes he'll say "bye", help me cheat at cards, and one time he borrowed my pen without asking (because he knows he doesn't need to.. he's so cool!). I think he might like this girl but I hear they're just friends. Do you think that he thinks of me as "some kid"? How do I make him like me, even with the age difference? (link)
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Ah young one...be more courageous. That's the only way for him to notice you. When I was younger I just always glanced at the guy when it was available but thats it. I tried to be louder when I'm around him to notice me. However "wishing" for him to notice me never occured. So don't let this opportunity to fall. All though he is a little older, that doesn't matter. Some guys don't mind. Try to engage yourself. Talk to him more when he talks to you. Ask for his help. Like ask for his pen...might sound cheesy but it possibly could work. He talks to you sometimes, so you could have a chance. Just talk to him and that would build the relationship. Thats the farthest I can go.
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What do you do if you want to send somebody a friend request, but they require their last name and/or email, but you don't know either. And their profile is set to private.. and you have no way to contact them.. ? (link)
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You can ask a friend that knows that person. There is at least one person that will know that person's name and last name.
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I'm 26. For ages I've stayed a virgin for a number of reasons, but finally I decided I wanted to sleep with a guy I just started seeing. He knew I was a virgin and after only seeing each other a few times we had sex. He's been really sweet. However, I got out of a bad relationship a few months ago and was really hurt emotionally. I'd made a mental pact to date more than one guy once I started dating again, just for my own self-preservation. So now that I am dating again, there are a few guys that have asked me out. I'm interested to date 3 guys at once, but have to wonder, now that I'm sleeping with one (using protection and on birth control), what if I want to sleep with the other two guys? Would that make me a slut? (link)
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Consider the reason why you wan to sleep with more than one men. There is a possibility since you were heart broken you want to fill in that gap with men and one man is not filling that gap so you desire for more than one. If I am off track, I'm sorry.
It depends on one's point of view of a slut actually. Maybe that term is not truthfully appropriate for your concern.
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i love wearing lipgloss when im around my bf cuz it makes my lips look fuller but then when he kisses me it gets all over his lips too and thats just weird lol is there any lipgloss that you know of that will stay on my lips? haha thanks in advance (link)
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Dear "lip gloss and kissing"
Try considering long lasting lip gloss that stays on. Take a look at this site: http://www.clinique.com/templates/products/sp_shaded.tmpl?ngextredir=1&CATEGORY_ID=CATEGORY4901&cm_mmc=Yahoo%20SSP-_-Paid%20Inclusion-_-PLP-_-CL_Long_Last_Glosswear_SPF_15_Makeup_Lip_Glosses&PRODUCT_ID=PROD13113
Sincerely,
mangoes93008
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I have a T-mobile phone and I lost the sim card, but I have an extra one that hasen't been activated yet. Would I have to change my number or pay any fee's to use this sim card or get a new one? (link)
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You will have to activivate the card and your number will change since each sim card will have a different number. Since it is inactive (the sim card), you will not be able to use it.
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so this is embarissing but oh well. so today for some reason i got really bored and started to masterbate. and like ive never been fingered and rarely use a tampon so i guess my "area" feels really tight. iwas wondering if theres anyway i can stretch it non painfully? and i starting masterbating and didn't really "get off". and after i did it i would feel light headed and really tired. when i tried to do it again i wasnt "wet enough" to do it and i cant seem to get "wet" again. now my "area" hurts and is really dry. did i do something wrong? help!!!!!!!! (link)
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Nothing went wrong. It takes awhile for "down there" to start up. It just takes time and you slowly work your way. Don't force yourself and don't do it when it hurts because that is not comfortable. This is from experience. For me I did it when I felt like it and as time went by and I continued, one day it didn't hurt...sounds really cheesy and sounds like I made it up but soo true. Time will only stretch it nonpainfully unless your not patient then you will force yourself and it will hurt. Your not wet enough because you just start and as time goes by you will become more and more wet. Basically its like when your little its shut off since you don't need all that stuff happening since your only a kid but as you get older you will need it so your just turning it on...and it takes a while to load...just like downloading a game, lol.
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Well I've been masterbating recently and I deff get an orgasm but I don't seem to "get wet" why is this..? Am I doing something wrong?
14f
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Since you are a beginner, it will take a little longer. There is nothing wrong with you. When I was little I got wet til I hit puberty. Nothing to worry about and it will come as time goes by.
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alright i have tried everything that i can at my age. i've tried fingering, carrots, cucumbers. I mean im too young to buy a vibrator..i really want to get and orgasim. all i get is like a tickly feeling. please i need your advice. thanks in advance (link)
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Oral B Cross Action
http://www.thefind.com/qq-cross-action-power-battery-toothbrush?m=1&cm_mmc=SSP-_-beauty-_-Toothbrush-_-cross%20action%20power%20battery%20toothbrush
The first two.
You need to buy the refills to you can take the brush off. After the brush is taken off. Turn it on and you will see.
Its discreet and one of akind.
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I used to be really smart, and my friends respected me for it. All A's, president of clubs, etc. I fell into a mild depression and school got put on the back burner- people lost their respect for me and I lost my confidence. I'm not sure what to do, I know it seems like a pity problem. But my best friend won't even ride in a car with me because she doesn't think I'm responsible.
How do I earn people's respect back?
Its going to take a while to return my grades back, but I feel like even if I tell people I know I'm responsible they won't believe me. (link)
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This is a ladder you will have to take. Step by step you will recieve things you've lost in the previous years.
1. You won't get your friends right away. So first get yourself back into one peice like you use to. You won't be able to jump right into what you use to be...so take it slow. First just get your grades up. Try your hardest. When you recieve good grades you will recieve confidence. You will feel good inside. Its all about you! It will take a while but this is the first step. And only do this as your first step. NOTHING else. Concentrate on yourself and your grades.
2. Start joining clubs after you get your grades up. Due to your grades getting better you will have more confidence. Do stuff that you like to do. You will be able to make some new friends this way perhaps. While doing this sports, commit to it and also continue to keepng good grades. Do not fall due to sports. YOu have to keep yourself high up.
3. After you prove that you can be responsible, people will be trusting you more. Its going to be a long ladder because the first step is the hardest. You will not recieve respect from others unless you respect yourself. You can't jump right into something either. After you begin to respect yourself and trust yourself, things will fall into place. Its not going to be easy, but it will be worth it. After you have confidence in yourself, people will start realzing your are respsonible and belive you...see who you really are.
Find your inner strength and step onto the first step of the ladder! After your confidence is high enough, you will be cruising up the ladder. At the top will be your friend...beliving in you and you wil be beleiving in yourself.
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Tonight I cheated on my girlfriend, my soul mate, the only thing that is keeping me alive. What makes matters worse is that it was with a guy. She won't ever forgive me. I want to confess to her if I do I know the odd of her accepting me back are farely high. But I can't risk that. If she says that she can't be with me I will kill myself, hands down. I just spent the last 4 hours crying and debating whether or not to tell her, then I remembered that I had an account on here. I need advise. Well, I want advice but I really need to talk to her about this. She'll be coming to see me in a few days, we have a long distance relationship butive been in love with her for over 3 years now. I can't live without her. What should I do? Opinions matter a lot to me right now, thank you. (link)
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What is done is done. You can't change the past no matter how much you would die for it. This is a lesson/obstacle in your life that you will have to face and go foward. Don't cheat yourself through it because your next problem will be bigger and worse.
My question is...if you don't mind me asking...is why did you cheat on a girl you have been truly in love for 3 long years. Are you feeling lonley since its a long distance relationship? Or were you just horny you weren't thinking? I'm not sure but its a bit strange for someone who says you will die for anything for this girl yet you cheated on her. Is that fair for your girlfriend? I feel your pain though. This is your decision...you can tell her that you cheated on her. However I don't know your girlfriend so what do you think she will most likely respond? Will she understand it or leave you in the dark. Well...if you does leave you I think killing yourself will just make it worse. Like I said...don't cheat yourself through. Dying is easy...living is the true obstacle. So endure it and learn from that mistake. There are so many mistakes I wish I could go back and erase...but those mistakes makes me who I am. You will learn from this horrible mistake you did and in the future you will never cheat on a girl...hopefully. And this wil make you a better person. The consequence is loosing her. Is she truly your lover...because if she is, you wouldn't be in this battle with yourself. Just speaking the truth.
If you don't tell her...it depends how your conscious's role in your life. Maybe you can brush this mistake and keep it a secret. Of course you learned from this mistake and you understand what you did was not right. You learned your lesson and maybe you deserve to live happily with your girlfriend while keeping some secrets from her...your trying to protect her from your mistakes. You don't want to bring her down with you. Is your able to continue with your life and forgetting as much as you can about this. However please do not comit suicide over this! You have other options.
I hope I helped giving you 2 points of view of this dilema.
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I have never gotten fingered, only when i was drunk and i was told that i screamed (that obviously wasnt my control tho) i know my boyfriend is going to finger me next time we chill but, i want it to feel good and not hurt. So i have been tryiing to figner myself but it hurts so bad. Now im scard it will hurt when my boyfrend does it! i dont want it to! how to i loosen my tightness? like how do i make it so when i figner myself it doesnt hurt so it wont hurt when he does (link)
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It could be that your body is not ready yet. You cannot force yourself but you can finger yourself more ofte. Just do it so it doesn't hurt. After a while, it won't hurt...sounds highly impossible but thats what happened with me. I did it and one day it didn't hurt. Just postpone with your boyfriend because you don't want it to be uncomfortable. He will just have to wait for a little longer.
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Well me and this guy ive been going out with for 3 months already had sex for the first time after the 3rd week . Is that too soon? (link)
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It depends on each one because their perspective is much different. It just depends on how someone grew up and what mentality have.
My personal opinion is that its too young. HOWEVER please don't let my advice make you feel bad. I want you to think about it and then decide on your own. I'm just going to give you my opinion...does that make sense?
Well I'm 16 and I still have not done it and I still think its too early. I plan to be like this for awhile. I have other stuff I want to do. You've been with him for three months and thats great! No joke. Do you care for this guy a lot? If you truly care for this guy? If you had protection and have no guilt after this, then it's not too soon I think.
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i just editted a picture.
tell me what u think.
http://i38.tinypic.com/2hhqi4w.jpg
(yes that is me in it.) (link)
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It's a good picture of you. However your smile is abit awkward...it seems like your smirking unless you want that look. Maybe a softer looking face. I like how your hands are positioned. Very elegant. And I like how your body is black white but the flowers are colorfed; great contrast. You have beautiful eyes. Overall its really good! I hope I helped.
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are T-Mobile phones the only ones that use sim cards? i know verizon & sprint don't, but i head at&t phones do, is that true? (link)
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Yes. T-Mobile aren't the only ones with sim cards...my friend has am AT&T phone and she has a sim code...no lie.
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I am 16 and my boyfriend and I have been dating for a few months now. The other day, he invited me over to spend Christmas Eve with him and his family. I've met them before, but never actually sat down and had a meal with them or anything, so I'm pretty nervous.
Any advice/tips on how to make a good impression? =] (link)
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Tips/Adivce:
1. Dress nicely is the first step. You don't want to dress up too nice but not too casually. Dressing up too nicely looks like your trying to suck up...not trying to make it rude or anything. Or dressing up to casually seems like you don't care. Appearance is what they first see.
2. Try to be interesting. If they ask you about school, go into dept a little. They probably want to know what your aspirations are and what your plans for college is and such. Don't reply, "Good" and let the conversation drag. Try to keep it flowing but not make you talk the whole time.
3. Don't be tense! It will you feel more incomfortable. Try to make it feel like his parents are family and your just at a family dinner.
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I'm 14 and i havent started to hit puberty yet. I dont even have any pubic hair yet. Alot of the girls at school have been making fun of me. Is there somthing wrong with me? (link)
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You are just a late bloomer; nothing wrong with that. Like you've heard before...no one grows at the same rate as everyone else. Everyone is different. The rates could be more alike with others but there are others in the world that are late bloomers and started puberty later than 14. Nothing to worry about. Anyways..the girls shouldn't laugh at you about pubic hair because there's nothing really special about pubic hair except is grows like hair and actually a pain in the butt! lol. There's is ABSOLUTELY nothing wrong with you.
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Hi, I'm 14 and me and my girl have been dating for about a month and a half and I want to know if girls are comfortable with being eatin out or felt up or should I just stick to kissing?? Thanks, justin (link)
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It depends on the girl because to her kissing could be fine or she wants more. And it depends on the relationship. Are you guys close and comfortable being together? Maybe you should talk to her or give her hints.
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