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Fingering A girl-
I have never gotten fingered, only when i was drunk and i was told that i screamed (that obviously wasnt my control tho) i know my boyfriend is going to finger me next time we chill but, i want it to feel good and not hurt. So i have been tryiing to figner myself but it hurts so bad. Now im scard it will hurt when my boyfrend does it! i dont want it to! how to i loosen my tightness? like how do i make it so when i figner myself it doesnt hurt so it wont hurt when he does
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The question you want to ask yourself, is are you ready to have such a thing happen to you already? If it hurt the first time, and if it hurts when you do it, then you're probably not ready at all. Or maybe you're stressing about the event so much that you're just not comfortable about the idea of getting fingered. What you want to do next time is get yourself really aroused and then try it. Allow yourself to get completely in the mood, relax your body, and then perhaps do it to yourself to see if there is any change. If it still hurts, I suggest keep on doing it for around 5 to 10 minutes if you are willing, that way you can see if its not the tightness that is just making you hurt. And if you dont hurt as much when you do it, it just means you're comfortable with it, and you just need to get aroused for when your boyfriend wants to finger you. I hope this helps.
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it hurts when you're stressed, not in the right position or too nervous.
to loosen the tightness you gotta relax. make the mood right before he does it.
when youre fingering yourself youre trying to make it so it wont hurt, but it does because youre stressed.
relax.
then do it.
when youre in the mood its painless and feels great :D
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The feelings that come with being fingered are kind of the same feeling that come with having sex.
If you aren't ready, don't want it, or are not relaxed while it is happening, then it won't feel good.
Fingering only feels good if you want it and are relaxed and ready.
Sex only feels good if you want it and are relaxed and ready.
If you're not relaxed while it's happening, it's going to hurt.
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It could be that your body is not ready yet. You cannot force yourself but you can finger yourself more ofte. Just do it so it doesn't hurt. After a while, it won't hurt...sounds highly impossible but thats what happened with me. I did it and one day it didn't hurt. Just postpone with your boyfriend because you don't want it to be uncomfortable. He will just have to wait for a little longer.
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