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Too Soon?
15/f
Well me and this guy ive been going out with for 3 months already had sex for the first time after the 3rd week . Is that too soon?
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In my personal opinion, I think that if you are completely ready and comfortable with your partner then there is no 'set time' when you should or shouldn't have sex.
Having said that, you are underage and you're asking this question in the first place which to me signals that you weren't ready.
If you don't feel comfortable continuing to sleep with your boyfriend, then don't be afraid to say no. If he cares about you he will respect your decision. If you do decide to do it again, please make sure that you are careful and use contraception.
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Plain and simple, yes.
Having sex three weeks after you've been dating someone is too early.
I personally don't believe in sex until marriage, but if you're not going to do that, you should at least wait until either:
A. You're with the person you're 100% positive you'll be with for quite some time.
B. You've been dating for quite some time. And by that, I mean years, not months or weeks or days.
Next time, please think about what you do.
--Jack
(17/m)
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It depends on each one because their perspective is much different. It just depends on how someone grew up and what mentality have.
My personal opinion is that its too young. HOWEVER please don't let my advice make you feel bad. I want you to think about it and then decide on your own. I'm just going to give you my opinion...does that make sense?
Well I'm 16 and I still have not done it and I still think its too early. I plan to be like this for awhile. I have other stuff I want to do. You've been with him for three months and thats great! No joke. Do you care for this guy a lot? If you truly care for this guy? If you had protection and have no guilt after this, then it's not too soon I think.
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Do you regret it? is so then yes....if not no!just be careful please you do not want to get prego
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This really depend on you two and the relationship you have.
Do you really love him and think you two will be together for a long time?
You should ask yourself questions like that...
also if you continue to do these things please use protection. You never know when you could have an unplanned pregnancy or an std. Just be very careful.
But if you think it was too soon then it was. If you love him and he loves you and you two wanted that then i'm sure it's fine.
i hope this helps. =]
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Honestly, yeah, especially considering how young you are. Just gives you nothing to look forward to, yaknow? But there's nothing you can really do about it now so don't worry too much.
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Who cares what we think, you do it when you're ready.
but you seem to be doubting it.. so yeah. Too soon in my eyes.
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Yup.
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Well it all depends on how you feel about sex. It's apparent that you dont feel like you should wait until your married to have sex. I don't know that I personally would have had sex after 3 weeks of dating, but if you felt as though you're in love with him then it's not too soon. The most important thing about sex is to make sure that you are in love and ready for it.
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