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It hurts
So i lost my virginity almost a year ago it was extremly painful and my guy barly got his penis in because it was too painful for me. The second time i had sex with him it hurt again really badly i was starting to get frustrated then i had sex a couple weeks ago with a differn't guy and it was also extremly painful now i do not have any std's and i do not have a urinary infectionn or anything like that i already got that checked out but i want to know why it is so incredibly painful when i have sex i want to be able to have good sex is it because i don't trust my partners and i'm worried and afraid does it cause me to be uncomfortable i just need some advice im 17 and Female
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Well, personally, I can't relate because my first time didn't hurt at all.
But that proves the point that every girl is built differently. You may be tighter than most girls. It's just how your body is.
Typically, your first few times are supposed to hurt. It won't start getting good until probably around the 7th or 8th time.
Your nerves could also be a factor in why your body isn't allowing it to happen. Just try to let go of everything, mentally. Your worries, your fears, your responsibilities. Just let it happen mentally and push through it.
You should be fine.
-Kayla
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well your first 3 or 4 times are going to hurt. the nervs arent going to cause the pain it could be making you unconftable. just give it a few more trys and the pain will turn to pleasure :) good luck and hope you have fun. if you have any other problems just message me:)
-Tamera
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There's a chance that your hymen has not broken yet. You should not force yourself into sex yet until it is comfortable. You can try to break it yourself. Horseback riding, riding your bike, anything can break it. You can break it during masturbation even. You've broken your hymen if you used a tampon before.
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Hello,well sex is different for everyone,some girls are tighter than others and the intercourse can be very painful.It can be that you are uncomfortable,you being uncomfortable makes you tighten your vaginal muscles and makes it harder for the guy to enter the vagina,also there may not be enought lubrication when the guy first enters you,When there is not enough lubrication from you or from a store bought lubricant it ca cause friction in you vagina and can be very painful and uncomfortable. When you have sex again you should make sure you re well lubricated and its probably going to be hard for you to relax and loosen up because now you have associate sex with pain. This best thing for you to do is to masturabate if you are comfortable with this,it gives you a chance to understand what pleases you and gives you a chance to break that association between pain and sex. You are usually more comfortable with yourself when it coems to sex but if you still arent comfortable with yourself when it comes to sex then maybe you should wait until you are to have intercourse again. When you masturbate you can start with one finger and once you get comfortable,keep using more..MAKE SURE YOU ARE WELL LUBRICATED even during this. You can always use a dildo as well but that might be very painful as well so you can start with one finger and maybe move up to a dildo if time permits. This pain will subsie in time you just have to become comfortablw with yourself and get use to it as a whole..remember:practice makes perfect so you will be able to have painless sex in not time:).I hope this helped and I wish you the best of luck,if you have any further questions on this topic or any other topic I would be happy to help you just send a private message. Hope everything goes well and you can update me on the situation if you need further advice:)
SINCERLY,DIAMOND:).
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