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masterbating
so this is embarissing but oh well. so today for some reason i got really bored and started to masterbate. and like ive never been fingered and rarely use a tampon so i guess my "area" feels really tight. iwas wondering if theres anyway i can stretch it non painfully? and i starting masterbating and didn't really "get off". and after i did it i would feel light headed and really tired. when i tried to do it again i wasnt "wet enough" to do it and i cant seem to get "wet" again. now my "area" hurts and is really dry. did i do something wrong? help!!!!!!!!
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No, You did nothing wrong! Infact I would suggest buying some lubricant. Sometimes masterbation can hurt if you aren't lubricated enough. Make sure you clip your nails also, If they are long you might cut yourself. Don't panic though it's normal and it will heal if that's the case. Also, to stretch it out you could perhaps try buying some toys at a local sex store.
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Nothing went wrong. It takes awhile for "down there" to start up. It just takes time and you slowly work your way. Don't force yourself and don't do it when it hurts because that is not comfortable. This is from experience. For me I did it when I felt like it and as time went by and I continued, one day it didn't hurt...sounds really cheesy and sounds like I made it up but soo true. Time will only stretch it nonpainfully unless your not patient then you will force yourself and it will hurt. Your not wet enough because you just start and as time goes by you will become more and more wet. Basically its like when your little its shut off since you don't need all that stuff happening since your only a kid but as you get older you will need it so your just turning it on...and it takes a while to load...just like downloading a game, lol.
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