Member Since: June 20, 2007
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Last Update: July 8, 2007
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Alright. So i think i might sort of have a problem. A while ago (this year though) I started kind of cutting myself, but i didnt think of it as cutting. I didnt actually use a knife so i didnt think it was cutting. I just scratched my self w/ something sort of sharp, until i started bleeding. I did it twice the first time, and then the next time three smaller ones, and then the third time one small & one normal one. But their on my arm where a cutter would cut. And i think people think i'm trying to look like i cut, so i havent yet, and even though i'm not planning on doing it again, if i do i'm just gonna do it on my ankles.. But is that really considering cutting anyways? i mean its not like w/ a knife. When i told one of my like good guy friends about it i was bawling, i felt like a disappointment to him (hes sort of like a brother) and i didnt know what to do, i felt like it was a mistake to tell him But he said its better then lying to him. now we like barly talk & our relationship has started to become distant, but i dont know if its all for that reason. i feel stupid for doing it & i feel like the few people that know, judge me because of it. it really is stupid and i know it, and i really dont even know why i do it. Its not like i do it b/c i cant control my anger, but it does help, like instead of freaking out its easier for me to just do this, and then as i do it i think about what happens. But now i have scars, and seriously i'm embarrassed by them. A few people can tell that i cut myself, other people like my sister fool around & like joke & say that it looks like i did, but i just say that i like fell into a fence, and stupid stuff like that. PLEASE HELP ME. i seriously dont know what to do. (link)
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Ok so yes it is called cutting when you do it with anything sharp because its still cutting skin. people might say your just wanting attention and that might not be the case at all. I know exactly how you feel because i did it for 2 years without thinking. only my friends helped me out to get through it. you need to tell your friend that if he is going to be more and more distant its gonna make you wanna do it again because you need him now and its time for a friend to help you... im not saying you need to see a councler or stuff like that you just need a friend to talk to about it
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theres these two songs i hear frequently on the radio one goes like this
1. cause let me remind you we'll always have each othhhhhhha
thats all i remember and hte other song goes like this
2. we'll carry on, we'll carry on, we'll carry...
- what are the song names and artists of these two songs
thank you!! (link)
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the second one i think i by good charlotte-i just wanna live. but im not sure
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ok so I have been cutting for like 2 years.
and I have seen a coucelor, talked to friends, my partens know, I'm on medication for depression and anxiy cause I took these tests and it said I needed it. soo yeah. I've done alot to stop. but nothing seems to help. idno what to do. its like theres no hope left. i just keep cutting more and more, deeper and deeper. soon I might go a little too deep. or do something else stupid. I got into this, and now I can't get out. Its become and adiction. I wish that I could say "oh I haven't done it in 2 weeks" or something. but I haven't done it in one day. I'm afriad of this getting worse. I neep help, but it seems as if ive tried everything, and nothing is working.
help anyone? (link)
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I think that your right. it does become like an addiction. i know because i've been cutting around 2 years and its not easy giving up. i was afraid of it getting worse too.but there is ways to stop. i stopped many times. it just takes time. you just have to think of all the people who cares about you and if they want this for you. that keeps me off of cutting everyday. Its knowing someone cares about you. If it works for me, i know it'll work for you.
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