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my friend ryan committed suicide about two weeks ago and i just can't get over it. just seeing him in that casket made me sick to my stomach and burst into tears. it's so wrong to see a 15 year old in a casket.. it's just wrong. everything reminds me of him cuz he was the coolest person in the world. plz tell me how to overcome this or help me to be at peace with his death. i miss him so much <3
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Sorry for your lost but Yeah it iz true wont ever get over it but the best thing to do iz just give it time and eventually youll be able cope wit da pain. losin someone iz just another part of life dat sucks.hopes these answers help
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nobody can help with you something like this. and nobody should have to. your always goin to miss your friend no matter what the circumstances are and no body is ever gonna help you replace him, trust me i went through it. the ebst thing to do is, never rush something like taht to get over you should get over it when you want to and tahst taht
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first of all im very sorry for your loss.i myself know what its like to lose someone very important. all i can say sweety is it takes time
alot of it my grandfather was basically everything to me he died over 7 years ago and to this day i miss him soo much . but just think hes in a better place now and he wants you to be happy..pray for him every night .. it will get better i promise..=] hope i was help ♥christina
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i know how you feel. a couple of months ago, my friend, who was also 15 years old, was murdered. it takes time to get over it. just remember all the good times. keep telling yourself that he's in a better place now, &that you'll see him again, years from now. remember that he's in heaven now, probably watching over you right now. you won't be able to get over it quickly. many people never get over deaths. it's hard. just remember he was a good person&is now in a better place. the only thing that will help is giving it time.
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a six year old laying there smiling so happy but with a gun hole in the forehead that is sad. everyone will die some time. it usually takes someone a few weeks to get over it when someone dies. ive seen many ages in coffins. just think now he is always with you and with everybody now hes not in so much pain. in heaven you just feel peace its so calm your floating. and he was just in alot of pain he couldnt take it hes probly happier now with the pain gone its what he wanted. go along with what he wants. he is now at peace. he just wants you to be okay and at peace now. its ok just talk to him he WILL hear it. and just hope and pray you will meet his spirit someday soon. hope i helped.
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there have been three suicides in my school in the past three years and its nothing easy to get over. You can't expect it to go away, and the pain is something that you just have to live through, soon enough you will feel numb to it, but it will never go away. You jsut have to try to understand that he did it because he was unhappy, and that now hes in a better place. be happy you had such an amazing person in your life. you have to try to flip the situation to the bright side, to see the silver lining. celebrate his life, dont mourn it. THink about him all the time, keep him in your mind, and you will eventually come to peace with the facts. stay strong, thats what i;m sure he would want.
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Sweetie, nothing I can say can take away the pain you are feeling. You lost someone important to you in a very tragic way. You cannot keep your feelings bottled inside you and you are not expected to "just get over it." Please go see the school counselor so they can help you. Talk to your parents. They probably are waiting from a signal from you on how to help you. Remember you have friends and family that love you and people do care, even if the world sometimes doesn't seem like it.
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I'm so sorry. You probably will never get over it, you'll feel better, but you'll never come to the fact of loosing one of your friends.Just remember all of the times you two shared, and how he impacted your life. Take your time feeling better at this, it probably will take time. Its ok to feel this way and to miss him, he wsa your friend, how else would you feel? Talk with a counselor, or other friends to make you feel better. Just remember there are a lot of great people out there to help you cope with this. Hope I helped.
-Brina
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Hello.
I would first like to say- I AM SO SORRY! I can really tell you're upset.. and someone as young as you shouldn't have to go through this!
There is NOTHING wrong with being upset for awhile. If you want to be upset- it is perfectly alright and healthy.
It will be VERY hard to get over this.. and you probably never will be completely over it. I know that I am still not over my great-grandmother's death over a YEAR ago. I still cry about and it still upsets me to no end to this day!
Dealing with death is tough, and I know how you feel. Just looking at the casket at them. Someone who didn't deserve to die.
Hopefully this can help you:
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I think to help you make peace with his death you should remember him- not forget him in any way. Just remember the good times you shared and treasure them. Let them be the memories you have of him.
I wish you the best of luck- and if you need anything more- My inbox is open.
I'm so sorry! My heart goes out to you- and I will pray for you.
--Jack
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