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Tommorrow is my last day of camp. I really kinda like this one guy who's in our camp. I don't want to tell him I like him because we only met a week ago and I don't want to overwhelm him but are there any ways I can flirt with him? I don't care if he figures it out that I think he's cute, but nothing like I'm THROWING myself at him. We are buddies and he's really kinda shy. Any suggestions? (link)
14/M
Do just what you said flirt wit him everyone flirts differently but its still flirtin. just mess wit him a lil poke him or somethin and really talk to him and be you laugh at jokes no matter how bad or corny things always seem to workout


how do u give a blow job


and what is it? (link)
14/M
Well dont hear this everyday but ta answer your question its when you suck someones dick also known as givn head if your a girl or gettin head if ur a guy. im pretty sure you can take it from here if it happens to you


K so i dated this guy for like a month untill yesterday, hes realllly hot & cool to hang with... & tues. night we went out to a really nice dinner with the people he works with. We wore dresses, suits, ect. & after his co workers went to a cabin on a lake 2 hours away.. I didnt go kas i need to get home kas i live an hour away. anyway... i told him to be good & all & it seemed like we were ok ...but then the next day he texts me that he cant b with me anymore kas he got drunk & lost his virginity to some other girl.. i didnt really get all that upset..i didnt cry or anything.. i was just like ok.. thanks for telling me see you at tcu in the fall... so now were not talking & this friend of the family was like well you can still b with him if you want ...its just sex..no big deal.. & now im confused...i dont want to be with him anymore...but do i have the right to b mad at him? it was only a month but we were exclusive? bleh it makes me so frustrated..anyway any advise on my situation? thanks (link)
14/M
Yeah even if you been datig him for a month you do have the right to be kinda mad at him.1 i guess if you are dating(and consiter each other bf&gf)then he cheated on which iz a good reason to be frustrated.2 (i guess if your both virgins)then havin sex would have been somethin been an experience youd both wanna share wit each other.i cant really be specific cuz i think i need more info but since you dont want him as a bf anymore then i guess you guys can just be friends since you dont hate him.hope thiz helps a lil


how do you know if a girl likes you? i really like this girl and i dont know if she likes me back. what do girls do if they like a guy? any signs?
advice would most likely be appreciated.
thanks in advance. (link)
14/M
Well 1 thing I defendately do if i like a girl is kinda flirt. if you flirt wit her she might flirt back but if she messes wit you alot then she probaly likes you. hope this helps a lil.


I am feeling lost, I am trying to keep my postives and self exteam good. but lathy I been down and about. I been praying alot. but nothing seem to work, thing is that. i am 22 years old, and I haven't have a job yet or trying get my ssi the 4th time. and i dont have alot of friends hang out with. i love my family very much but everybody busy doing work, i try to enjoy my self and try do what i want to do. but can't seem to do it. i mean i am 22 years old but a about a 12 or 15 year old body.. I not immture at all.. but thing is that i don't dive and becouse of my disbities.. and thing is that i lost my self exteam last summmer. thing is my friend and yet she went collage and had a roomate who treated me so bady online. i didn't do anything. and made me feel like my friend betrading me and stuff like that.. ok lathy i been fill with bad and neitve thoughts in my minds. i use be so postive and have alot of motervation. sorry this is long. i hope someone understand and get me.. i am feeling not my self anymore.. (link)
14/M
Keep your head up man things always will get better no matter how down you feel.I dont know what a ssi is but good luck wit dat and one thing you could probally do is make plans ahead of time that way you can hang out wit da friends and people you have.i may not said this the way i needed to but hope it helps anyways


theres this guy that i work with whos really cute.. hes a few years older then men and is more of like the hippy/grungy type.
i want to start up conversation with him and i dont know the best subject to go about this.. what do you think? (link)
14/M
Well since you work with the guy i think you should probaly find a reason to approach to him thats work related and then go off topic and just talk bout somethin else whatever comes to mind i guess. maybe even giggle if he makes jokes(no matter how bad)hope this does somethin for ya


kk. im going out with a girl who is nice but im beginiing to lose interest in her. and theres another girl who i loved before and every since i went out with the girl my feelings for the other one have just become stronger

so do i let the relationship dye down so she dumps me, or do i tell her the truth (link)
14/M
This happen to me in 5th grade so wat, i would do now is privately tell the gurl you lik that you lik her only if you kno that she likes you but, if you think she doesnt then i guess you could let it dye down. also talk to the gurl you lik a lil more then your girlfriend but dont do it to the point were you seem you go out wit her instead so basicly just kinda flirt


I seriously need help!
I am 13.
I recently moved across the country, from the towwn which I lived all my life.
At my old school there was this boy my age who really liked me... I was unsure at the time whether i liked him or not...so i sorta gave him the impression i disliked him...
I know he still liked me though because i would look up to see he was staring at me, and he purposly bumped into me in the halls.
But when i moved i cant stop thinking of him..
Should i conntact him? (link)
14/M
This happens alot someone likes you and shows it and you lik them but wouldnt admit it. i think it would be good for you to still talk to him(just hope he doesnt stalk you j/k)


i got the free ticket for ozzfest 2007 in chicago and i was wondering if i could use the ticket even if it has my aunts name on it (link)
I dont really think it matters to them unless theres an age limit and if they look at the nameon the ticket it might be a little wierd if they think your your aunts name


Hey dudes and dudettes ,

Okay well this is a follow up question to the one before which was :
Heyy Dudes & Dudettes ,

Okay , Well see theres this guy he's my ex and I still really like him.. and I just started to talk to him not to long ago .. and like he's always liked me but I don't know if he still does.. so I decided to be like hey im going to invite him to go to the movies and stuff so I called him and stuff and he calls me back and says sure :) and stuff like that .. is there any possibilty that maybe in the future he would go back out with me?

Thank you.
Betty.

and you guys wrote back that he might and stuff well I still likes him but not until now because I found out he HAS a gf and he didnt tell me.. should I just move on or no?


Thank, Betty.
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This is what i think: he might have feelings for you but now he has a girlfriend so i guess he's kinda moved on. Depending on who goes to the movies with you guys you should either tell him that you still kinda have feelings for him or just move on for now and see other people also tell me how you guys broke up that might change the situation too


There's a boy on my brother's baseball team that i've been crushing on all summer, the last game is in five days, i think he might like me but i'm not sure, do i make a move, i really like him and this could be the last time i see him. I want him to remember me, i want him to like me? What do i do????

Oh by the way i'm thirteen and i'm a girl, and i'm not ugly or anything or a complete weirdo (link)
Well if its your last time youll be able to see him then get as much time as you can wit him and flirt a lil but dont just come out and say I LIKE YOU!!!plus be yourself and everything will fall inta place


OK. i am a 14 female at 5'2. i weight about 125. i need to lose some weight. i want a six pack and i work out all the time but nothing happens. please help me


Some one in desperate need,
jaclyn (link)
14/M
It really all depends on what kind of workout you do.i workout in my garage so if you want a 6 pack or somethin you should focus more on running and bench pressing cuz thats what id do
P.S-if you bench press find your max and do 75% of it so your max increases.also do a range of workouts hope this helps lady


i see people with these baby-pink looking gameboy thingies but i dunno what they are exactly. they could be texting on some kind of phone. it looks like a rectangular piece connected to another rectangular piece? uh (link)
Yeah its deffendatly a Nintendo DS either that or some sort of PDA or somethin


Recently, I've been going into chat rooms posing as a 13 year old girl. So far, I've attracted 10 or more guys over 18, that have talked sexually and suggested meeting up with this girl who they think is a 13 year old.

After watching a lot of Dateline NBC's: To Catch A Predator, I have become really interested in this, and even set up my own website on it where I track and log the potential sexual predators.

I'd really like to get these people in some sort of trouble, but I'm not sure who to send the chat logs to. I'm afraid if I send them somewhere, people won't take them serious since I am 16 years old, and probably not "trained" to handle these people...blah blah blah.

Do you think it's okay that I'm doing this if I'm 16?
And do you know any sexual predator catching sites/organizations that would let someone under 18 help out? (link)
Well i didnt really look at it but thiz might help or somethin


www.forensic-science.com/faq_computer.html


can any one tell me the name of this song im not sure if it helps i think its like rap or sumthin prtty sure its rap but it goes lik this (srry i only know a lil bit)
Cuz im on right now
and im right now
thts all i know plz help its stuck in my head any advice wood be appreciated (link)
Thiz iz 99% chance of bein wrong but if you mean cuz im on then that Wipe me down-Foxx, Webbie,and lil boosie


hey everybody. well my friend who I'll call Hannah who I met in fifth grade and I were super close. We had the same best friends. Then in sixth grade Hannah moved into her moms house in a different and deserted all of us completely. She made new friends which is normal but then she forgot about us except for one girl who I'll call Emma that I'm not even friends with. Now we're all going into eight grade and Hannah might be moving back. My friends are all going to forgive her with the exeption of my best friend Rachel but she'll probably forgive her pretty quick cause shes to nice to hold a grudge. I don't know what to do cause I'm still really hurt about her forgetting about us so is it totally wrong of me to not want to forgive her without at least an apoligy. I mean do you really think it would be normal for us to just go back to being best friends after all that has happened. I didn't find out from her that she might be moving back, I found out from another girl in her town! Any help would be great. Sorry it's so long ♥ (link)
Well i wouldnt say ta go back ta bein best friends that quick but you could just kinda talk ta her and find out way she did that then bein friends might just fall inta place


are you suppose to feel a heartbeat in your upper abdomen, slightly above your bellybutton? is it normal? or could it mean that you're pregnant, or what? (link)
if your bein kinda still and you put your hand slightly above your bellybutton your fine it just kinda lik a vibration lik if somethings explodin the closer you are to it the more your goin feel it


Aight to make a long story short like a month ago i was at the beach and me and my boy's went to this icecream shop thing or wateva and these 2 sexy girl's i'm talkin like beautiful came and was standing behind me and they was and the dark 1 was tellin the spanish girl to talk to me or wateva so they moved to the other shack but i could still here them talkin and i didn't take my chance and say sumthin and we ended gettin on the same train.....Ironically i have summer program and shorty goes to it 2 and i'm still lost for words and can't say nuttin to this girl what should i do? (link)
Dont ask her out right away i dont think you even know her name but if you really wanna get wit diz chick then you just have ta come out n say somethin to her even if you look a fool she might find it funny good luck


my boyfriend is a total jerk. he dosnt say hi to me anymore. he hangs up on me swears at me is violent to me says he dosnt care about me nemore as much as he did says he hates seen me gets ppl to tel me hes not were he is so i dont come see him. says he hates seen me and that he dreads it says that im on the bottum of his list of prioirtys. he dumped me and said he was treating me bad so i wud break it of with him but then he wanted me back. hes grabbed my throat and said hel hit me. he tells people he dosnt want to be with me and im annoying and wishes i would dissapear. altho we hav a serious relashionshop and hav dated for about a year hes gettin himself into serious trouble and been arrested and charged and drinking every night. i love him so much and my biggest fear is that he wil cheat on me. i dont think he loves me neither do any of my friends. i just have alot of fun with him on weekends even tho he ignored me and yells at me for anything and everything i dont have the power to break it off PLEASE HELP ME IM DESPEREATE iv talked to him about it so many times and he gets mad and tells me to fuck off! (link)
14/M
Thats lik abuse or somethin you should tell someone closer to you lik your parents or cops if it gets too out of hand cuz its already out of hand.when stuff lik this happens its always some pretty gurl finds the wrong guy.if he really loved you he wouldnt treat you lik shit i hope the best for you good luck


Why is the anime "Bleach" named the way it is? Couldn't they call it Ichigo or Soul Reaper or something related? Thanks in advance. (link)
I think its just Random but its anime so does it have ta make sense?




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