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love is complicated
kk. im going out with a girl who is nice but im beginiing to lose interest in her. and theres another girl who i loved before and every since i went out with the girl my feelings for the other one have just become stronger
so do i let the relationship dye down so she dumps me, or do i tell her the truth
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Tell her the truth instead of just dragging her along, because if she finds out she'll be hurt more.
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You tell her the truth. If you don't like your girlfriend anymore, tell her the truth. Tell her you like someone else & that you don't feel the same thing you did when you first got into the relationship. Tell her it's better to be friends & that it's how you'd like to stay. Just friends.
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This happen to me in 5th grade so wat, i would do now is privately tell the gurl you lik that you lik her only if you kno that she likes you but, if you think she doesnt then i guess you could let it dye down. also talk to the gurl you lik a lil more then your girlfriend but dont do it to the point were you seem you go out wit her instead so basicly just kinda flirt
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Wow, I've been in the exact same situation before. But instead of doing the smart thing, I stayed with the girl that I really didnt like and continued to fall in love all over again with my ex. This is exactly what you SHOULDNT do. I learned from my mistake and I hope it will help you to.
You really should let the girl your going out with that you think its time that you'll stopped dating because of PERSONAL REASONS DO NOT SAY ITS BECAUSE OF ANOTHER GIRL. That will definitely get you smacked in the face if you tell her about the other girl.
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You should tell her (very, VERY gently) that you only want to be friends.
ps: after you tell her run... lol
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don't just let the relationship die down, thats not fair for either of you. she deserves to know the truth. explain to her exactly how you feel and the whole situation, but do it as nice as you can. of course shes not going to be happy, but it's better just to end the relationship rather than letting it drag on when you are not committed because in the end that would hurt her more. good luck<3
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I think you should tell her the truth, she deserves that much. Let her down easy and explain your situation to her. There is no point in being unhappy for such a long time.
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TELL THE TRUTH!!!!! Girls like honesty. If you lie, you're going to have a red hand print on your face for 12 years. Not to freak you out... Anyway, if you really want to brake up, tell her the truth of why you want to brake up. I hope this helped and didn't freak you out! :D
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If you're really set on dumping her, then tell her the truth, but be nice about it. Don't just be like "I don't like you anymore, kbye." because that's just harsh.
Tell her you don't know if this relationship is working out & that you think it's best if you two were just friends - and actually be friends with her.
Don't do this unless you're sure you lost the feelings you had for your current girlfriend, or else it's just plain mean.
Good luck on that.
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