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why do i find myself being mean or not as caring about my home life/family members/friends and "nice" to strangers/aquantinces/people that dont matter as much? its not about reputation or anything. is it just easier to be mean to them because they know youre just tired or something (link)
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You are totally right, if you hurt someone you love you know that they won't hink bad of you and will forgive you. Its why we all do it, if you go upto a stranger and tell them to shut up they would probably be really offended but if you said the same thing to a friend or family member they wouldn't really mind.
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I want to get a thong but my mom disaproves. how can i get one and not have her find out?
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Well if you really want one, just buy one and don't show it to her, do your laundry yourself so she won't see it...
Hope that helps... Good Luck
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I think I have sociophobia. I have all of the symptoms on all of the sites that I've googled (its scary how accurate they are...), but I'm embarrassed to tell my parents that I think I have it. I have a lot of friends, hang out with the popular kids, and always have something social to do, and have moved a bunch of times, but I still seem to have all of the symptoms.
I used to think it was shyness until when I was 13 I started having panic attacks related to the social anxiety. I just realized a few hours ago why they happened and that they were all linked (I know, stupid.) I never really told my parents about the panic attacks (the worst was 4 in one day), because they seemed to get less and less frequent and last year (8th grade), I only had 3 or 4 over the course of the whole year.
I just don't want to be so paraniod about what people think or be so scared about being embarassed or scrutinized anymore. And every time I have a stupid panic attack I get scared and I just don't want to be so stressed about stupid little things anymore.
My brother has had really bad adhd since I was born, so they're no strangers to the whole psychologist thing with the appointments and the pills. Neither am I. I know that's the right route to go, but I'm afraid and don't know how to tell them. And I'm also embarassed about these problems and I think if I try to explain it to them, they'll think I'm overreacting and won't believe me.
Just please help me!
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I think you should just tell them, sit them down one day and just tell them your symptoms and how you feel. You do not need to be embarassed. The worst thing would be for this to go untreated. If your parents think you are just over reacting suggest a check up just incase, it will gie you peace of mind and I am sure your parents will support you.
Good Luck...
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Its my first time putting in a tampon today and im 13 so i put it in and i know i put up far enough but it hurt and when i sat down it hurt even more!Whats wrong? i need help bad (link)
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Hi, this may sound wierd or strange but i think you may have put it in wrong either that or your body is not used to it so it may take you sometime. If it is really painfull ask someone you know who has been using tampons to explain how to do it or you could just switch to using pads, they will definately not be painful and are easy to put on.
hope this helps, good luck :)
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i know theres a gas that is way more dense than helium so it sinks rather than floating and when you breathe it in it makes your vioce lower rather than higher its kind of the opposite of helium. does anyone know what this gas is called? (link)
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Sulphur Hexafluoride - i think this is the gas your looking for...
Hope it helps :)
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OK, I know the screenshot thing, but where do I put it? Since there's no paint, Idunno where. (link)
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Hi, you can really put it in anything - try WORD or even EXCEL :)
HOPE THIS HELPS...
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hey people,
im a young male and im talkin about my girlfriend
i had just had my girlfriend break up with me a couple of days ago and it was really hard on me. I was the cause of the breakup because i wasn't being open enough to her and when she said "i feel like im neglecting you," and just said no and she asked if something was wrong and i said no. when we hung up i had decided that i needed to tell her what i felt so i messaged her and said honestly i do feel neglected and she got mad because i didnt talk to her on the phone when i had the chance. so she got mad and later said you no i'm mad at you and im fed up with your shit. so she had ended it and she said i just havent felt like we are close like we were at first. this all hurt me bad and she wouldn't talk to me because i wanted to talk to her and explain to her how i felt.
so the next day she ignored me and i couldnt talk to her and the next day i tried to get her off my mind but it didnt work so i went to my dad and brother to talk to them about it. i had listened to them and they had the same points.
so what i did was go to her house the next day with out her knowing and had a bunch of nice flowers. She had a smile on her face and didnt seem mad at me so i take that as being good?. i gave her the flowers and went into her room to talk to her. i told her that i really like her and i really care for her. i said you no every relationship has rough patches and you have to try to get through them instead of just quitting on the relationship. (she promised herself that she would never give a guy a second chance by the way.) i just asked her if she could promise me that she will think about a second chance while she was in colorado (this was later in the talk that i had asked her if she would think about a second chance). she said i will and i said the way u had ended it really hurt me alot and i just wanted her to think about the second chance for more than just one day. just please think about it because the idea of being without you really hurts because i care for you and i want to be there for you. she said she would think about it while she was there. the next thing i said was you know this is my first true relationship and im goin to make mistakes and i will admit when i do and im willing to try to work on that and i really want to be open with you and try to stop arguing about little things. just promise me you will think about the second chance and get back to me when you get back. i really care for you and we gave each other a huge hug and i told her in her ear that i really care for you and i said i need to go because i just wanted to say this and be on my way and not get in ur way. and oh yeah i told her the reasons why i felt why we were growing apart earlier. and i also said im not goin to beg or force you for the second chance and i wont talk to you or text you while you're up there so that gives you your freedom to think. then came the hug and leaving part. some of this wasn't in the right order but you get the idea. so can ya'll tell me if i did the right thing?
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Awww, this is sweet, seems like you do care for her. It is really a big tep to admit to mistakes and you did that, she would be crazy to still let you go.
I think that if you really care for her you did the right thing in trying to salvage your relationship, don't worry too much. Like I said before, the fact that you tried is a huge thing.
I hope everything works out for you :) Good Luck.
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ok so basically umm i started smoking and well i just wanted to know cause i wanna be healthy and live for quite a long time and be able to play with my kids when i have kids and grand kids and possibly even great grand kids so if i smoke not even that often just every once in a while will that be able to happen at least be able to run around and play with my grand kids and i know smoking is addictive but i mean yeah (link)
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Hi, it is not the addictive factor that will be the problem with smoking. Its the tar and carbon manoxide that causes health problems. Even second hand smoking increases the risk of cancer. So, even if you smoke only a few times you will still be damaging your lungs, which means you will start finding it hard to run as you will be out of breath really soon.
My advice is that you try your best to quit smoking, especailly if you want that fabulous future you want...
hope this helps, take care and good luck :)
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Hi do you think lipo is a good option for wieght loss? (link)
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no not really
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hi what should i do, my fioncee wants me to have sex with him, but i dont think i am ready too, should i wait until after the wedding, only we might not get married until another 10yrs. What should i do? (link)
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just do it and have fun :)
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if someone could seriously get me the code for the little tm i will rate high.I've looked everywhere and just no luck. (link)
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hi, try this website it give some information. Hope it helps :)
http://www.forlang.wsu.edu/help/keyboards.asp
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ok so im 14 and im in complete love with my boyfriend and i know u here that all of the time but we hang out everyday and when im not with him its the worste feeling in the world and we've been together 5 months and we've been inseperable ever since so we were down in my basement the one day and me and him r kind of kinky haha and we like to fool around but we've never had sex and we arent going to b/c wer'e too young and there is too many risks so anyway, i went to put on a skirt [so he didnt have to pull my pants down b/c my mom was upstairs] and then i told my mom i was going to "model" the skirt for him so i wnet downstairs and out it on then he was laying on the floor and i went to step over him so he could look up my skirt and as soon as i did that my mom came down and saw that! i told her i tripped and she came down at the worste time ever it was soo bad and now she thinks im like a whore or something and i told her im not but im not going to tell her that ive done everything but sex esp. if she thinks ill ive done was make out yanno? and now my bf thinks my mom hates him but she doesnt so i dont know what to do! please help me! what do i do? :/ (link)
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hi, i think you just need to talk to your mum, tell her that your not that kind of person, you havent' had sex and your not a whore. Also let your boyfriend know that your mother doesn't hate him and she understands the situation.
hopefully this will be helpful, and good luck with ur mum :)
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think of your DREAM house.
and tell me something about it.
something special.
dont tell me "it has a living room"
tell me something different about it.
like how the hall, is a hall of mirrors.
or how the fifth floor is a paintball range or something.
or even somthing about the outside.
how all the windows are shaped like bongs.
or your secret garden right before the bar on the beach.
:)
things like that.
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it has brad pitt in the living room, jamie oliver in the kitchen and me and victor webster (coop from charmed) in the bedroom :)
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what do i do if i fail my exams (link)
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dont worry you can do a retake
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hi, how can u get chewingum off your trousers? (link)
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try freezing it, when the gum hardens you should be able to peel it off.
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which food makes you fat?
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sugary and oily foods usually.
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what would be the best way to store my money? (link)
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try using a bank :)
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i need help, which plant is a big flower and yellow? (link)
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i think that is a sunflower
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should i tell my boyfriend that i am a lesbian? (link)
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yes - remember honest is the best policy
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ok.. well.. this has 3 parts to it...
ok..part one:: i had sex with my boyfriend the day after my period, we did not use protection... now im not sure if it is possible to get pregnant the day after your period (i read you can not get pregnant one week after & one week before)... the second part:: he and i got into a fight one day, i got extremely drunk and had unsafe sex with another guy 1 week (5days) before my period.. again (i read you can not get pregnant one week after & one week before).. third part:: well i am currently late for my period.. not many days but a few... but i am never late... i have never been late.. ever...
do you think it is possible i am pregnant, or just stressing and so my peroid is late.. and if yes you think i am...who do you think is most likey to be the father????
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Well it is possible that you are just stressing too much and it is just a coincidence that your period is late. However it is better to be safe, have a pregnancy test just to make sure. I think that if you are pregnant it is possible that it would not be your boyfriend. It is highly unlikely that you would get pregnant just after your period, however if you are pregnant it may be a good idea to have a paternity test done.
Well hope i helped, good luck. Take Care.
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