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pregnancy
ok.. well.. this has 3 parts to it...
ok..part one:: i had sex with my boyfriend the day after my period, we did not use protection... now im not sure if it is possible to get pregnant the day after your period (i read you can not get pregnant one week after & one week before)... the second part:: he and i got into a fight one day, i got extremely drunk and had unsafe sex with another guy 1 week (5days) before my period.. again (i read you can not get pregnant one week after & one week before).. third part:: well i am currently late for my period.. not many days but a few... but i am never late... i have never been late.. ever...
do you think it is possible i am pregnant, or just stressing and so my peroid is late.. and if yes you think i am...who do you think is most likey to be the father????
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there is always a chance of getting pregnant no matter when you have sex.
go take a pregnancy test.
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Its possible for you to get pregnant at anytime, yes there are optimum times for fertilization but you can never be totally sure when this is so there is a chance you could be pregnant. It's never safe to have unprotected sex if you don't want to get pregnant. you should wait and see if your peroid comes, if in a week it hasn't then i'd take a pregnancy test. theres no way of really telling which guy would be the father, only a paternity test after the birth would do that. I'd also get checked out for STD's because you never know if this other guy had anything, it cant hurt to be sure.
Hope i helped.
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Wherever you read this stuff it is not true! If you have your period and have sex you can get pregnant so it is possible to get pregnant a week before and a day afterward. It could be stress over your missed period but have a pregnancy test done to be on the safe side dear. :) Good wishes to you:)
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Well it is possible that you are just stressing too much and it is just a coincidence that your period is late. However it is better to be safe, have a pregnancy test just to make sure. I think that if you are pregnant it is possible that it would not be your boyfriend. It is highly unlikely that you would get pregnant just after your period, however if you are pregnant it may be a good idea to have a paternity test done.
Well hope i helped, good luck. Take Care.
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What you understand about when you can and cannot get pregnant is false. The only time you can't get pregnant when you have unprotected sex is when you ALREADY ARE PREGNANT.
So, while it is LESS LIKELY that you will get pregnant during your period, the day after your period, etc, etc. it is NOT IMPOSSIBLE. So you could very well be pregnant. It may be more likely that the second boy is the father, but only a paternity test will tell 100% for sure.
Depending on what YOU are going to do about this pregnancy, will depend on whether or not each boy has to know. If you decide to have this baby that both boys will be required to have tests to see who the father is, because if you keep the baby, they will be required to help support it, even if they don't want to see it. Unless your parents become the guardians and raise it themselves, but then you and the boy will have to sign over parental rights. If you are going to have an abortion, then if you have the money, or your parents pay, then you don't have to involve the boys, but it you want them to help, then you have to determine who is the father.
If it turns you that you are not pregnant, then consider yourself lucky. You dodged a bullet, and never, never ever have unprotected sex again. And by the way, now you also know why alcohol and sex do not mix.
Michele
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