Hi,
my names Hermione as you may have guessed. I found this site whilst browsing one day and i though it was a really lovely idea and i wanted to be part of it. My firends are always coming to me with their problems because i'm always the sensible one. so i thought it eould be nice if i could help other people too.
Hope i can help you!
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Age: 18
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ok.. well.. this has 3 parts to it...
ok..part one:: i had sex with my boyfriend the day after my period, we did not use protection... now im not sure if it is possible to get pregnant the day after your period (i read you can not get pregnant one week after & one week before)... the second part:: he and i got into a fight one day, i got extremely drunk and had unsafe sex with another guy 1 week (5days) before my period.. again (i read you can not get pregnant one week after & one week before).. third part:: well i am currently late for my period.. not many days but a few... but i am never late... i have never been late.. ever...
do you think it is possible i am pregnant, or just stressing and so my peroid is late.. and if yes you think i am...who do you think is most likey to be the father????
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Its possible for you to get pregnant at anytime, yes there are optimum times for fertilization but you can never be totally sure when this is so there is a chance you could be pregnant. It's never safe to have unprotected sex if you don't want to get pregnant. you should wait and see if your peroid comes, if in a week it hasn't then i'd take a pregnancy test. theres no way of really telling which guy would be the father, only a paternity test after the birth would do that. I'd also get checked out for STD's because you never know if this other guy had anything, it cant hurt to be sure.
Hope i helped.
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ok more so my thing is.. last period i had was on June15th.. and then i didn't get one til July 30th.. but just before that i took a pregnancy test came up Negative.. but 2 days before (my period finally started) the condom broke and attack of the spermies.. so i was wondering could i still get pregnant even though my period came up 2 days later after that? or does this mean an Automatically Negative? (link)
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The chance of you being pregnant is very slim. Because it was two days before your period this isn't the optimum time for you to get pergnant as you ovulated about a week before this. Also when an egg is fertilized it secretes a hormone which prevents the lining of the uterus breaking down, hence stopping your period. But as you had your period it removed the thick lining of the uterus and so even if the egg had been fertilized its cant attach itself to the uterus wall. but just to be on the safe side, because it has been know to still get your period when your pregnant i'd take another pregnancy test in a few weeks.
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I am a girl and I went to private school most my life and they don't really teach about sex there. I was wondering if you have to go inside a girl during oral for the girl to have an orgasm. I am new at this and sometimes it hurts to finger so I wasn't sure if I had to have a finger in me in order to reach orgasm. Thanks. (link)
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It all depends on personal preference. If it hurts sometimes then this isn't the way for you to reach orgasm. Being in pain means your getting nothing out of it. Stimulating the clitorus can be as effective as being fingered to reach orgasm because the clitorus that contains loads of nerve ending. So just experiment, thats the only way to find out what does it for you.
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hi,theres this girl we have kissed but it was just her kissing me an i said im a better kisser then her lol she said well next time i see her i can prove it to her..in 2 days im teaching her how to play basketball and when i see her im going to tell her to close her eyes an im going to french kiss her i wana no how to make her get goosebumps and where to touch her like on her check and run my hands down her spine an that like in the movies when a girl doesnt no what to do after the kis
or girls tell me how you liked to be kissed thanks.. (link)
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Aww that sound really romatic. sounds like you've got it planned enough. It's a natural thing, like it's already in us that we know how to do it. Just be natural, it will feel right, don't plan it too much or it'll loose its sponteneity. Spontaneous kiss are really romantic so i think thats all you need to do. Just go for it!
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ok so this guy and me have been bff since forever!!
so recently i started to like him and i told him he said he thinks he likes me too..
only thing is he has a gf
he has been sayin for over a month that he is gonna break up with her but when ever i ask about it now he trys to avoid the subject.
he has been flirting alot lately
and we have gotten more "physical"
and he keeps tellin me how he loves me and doesnt want to lose me.
then why wont he break up with M??
i need help does he like me or should i just go back to being friends? (link)
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It sound like he does like you but he's torn between you and his girlfriend. It sound like he doesn't wan to make a decision. maybe he doesn't want to risk your friendship, i mean, if you date, and then break up you have to be sure that you could go back to being just friends. Maybe he's scared he'll loose you and so he's delaying breaking up with his girlfriend so he can be sure because it would be awful to loose your friend over. But you can't let him mess you around forever. He has to decide at some point. you've told him how you feel and he's said he like you back, so i think you need to talk to him again. Ask him why he hasn't broken up with her. Try and talk through it.
Hope i helped!
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me and my boyfriend are going to have sex for the first time. what are some passionate, and also kinky stuff we can do?? (link)
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If its your first time having sex then i wouldn't go too far with the kinky stuff unless you both want to, you dont want to scare him off. Getting passionate is easy if you both really like each other, but listening to music you both like can get you in the mood, even dancing together, or you dancing for him. As far as the kinky stuf goes, you can use blindfolds. This is kind off kinky without been too much, and it can be really romantic. If you blindfold him you have access to touch him and he has to let you take control. This will really turn him on beacuse he cant touch you, which will make him want to even more. (it drives me crazy whn my boyfriend does this to me). This way you can tease him a bit, my boyfriend loves to be teased. so like i said, this is kinky without being weird kinky.
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My husband and I just bought a cabin and have been fixing it up so we and our grown children can use it. The other day my sister asked when she and her family can use our cabin. The problem is they have 2 children ages 9 and 11 who are undisciplined and rather destructive (they walk across beds rather than going around them, they play in the fireplace while it's burning, they even open windows and sit on the roof!). I told her we don't really rent it out and that we use it almost every weekend. She asked when we WON'T be using it! I told her maybe her husband and she can use it as a getaway sometime and left it at that. Should I just let them use it and hope they don't destroy the place?! Thanks. (link)
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I suggest talking to your sister about it. It's your cabin, and you've put all that hard work in to get it looking how you want. Just explain that your worried about it, tell her your concerns. She'll understand all the effort you've gone to to get the cabin fixed up and that you're worried her children might not respect that and treat it appropriately.
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hey everyone!
its really hard for me to make friends.
do you know any tips on making friends?
im really quiet, so it's hard for me.
HELP! (link)
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I know that it can be hard making firends, especially if you're quiet. but my advice is to just be yourself and put yourself out there. Set yourself challenges each day, such as:
making sure you talk to three new people each day. it can jsut be introducing yourself, or asking them something. It'll get easier once you build up your confidence. I used to be quiet but then i moved to a school where i didn't know anyone and so i had to talk to people. Once you've made yourself do it once, its not so scary. Whats the worst that can happen form putting yourself out there? Just go for it, soon you'll be saying hi everywhere you go because you'll be bumping into people you know all the time.
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I know females use different 'ideas' beyond vibraters to pleasure themselves, but is it save to use markers (not the tip ofcourse but the closed end of them) ? What are the risks of using 'ideas' other then vibraters ? (link)
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Well you can use other things, but you have to be very careful, it's a sensetive area so you have to make sure that whatever you use is clean and that you wont get any infections from it. The safest way is to cover whatever you're using with a condom. But i'd still be careful about what you use, remember, vibrators have been tried and tested so you can be sure that they won't do any damage. If you don't want to use one then your fingers will work just as well.
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i dont know where to begin with makeup, can anyone start me on the basics? (link)
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If you've never used make-up before its probably best to use a little first, to mae it look subtle, and use more as you get more confident at what you're doing. Nothing looks worse that poorly applied make-up. Start off with concealer if you have blemishes or imperfections that you want to cover up. A foundation powder that matches your skin tone will help even your complexion. Blusher or bronzer will help brighten your face, this need applying thinly across your cheekbones and will give your cheeks a healthy glow. Eyeshadow is easy to use, just a thing covering across the eyelid, you can experiment with different colours and blending when you get more confident, for now it's best to choose a nice subtle silver or pink that wont be too bright but will add a nice shimmer to your eyes. Then mascara, it's easy to apply. Just sweep the brush up your lashes, it will instantly make your lashes longer and fuller. Just experiment. You'll soon find out what suits you and what you like.
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i have not made out b4 and i am going to this weekend but i have a retainer and if i take it out i have a missing tooth is it hard to make out with a retainer? thanks (link)
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If your used to wearing it then there shouldn't be a problem at all. It wont feel any different, if your used to wearing it.
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are there any risks, or disadvantages to shaving your pubic hair {if ur a female}? (link)
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There are reasons for having pubic hair, jsut like theres a reason for having hair elsewhere on your body. the hair helps to keep the area clean and it acts as a safeguard to stop bacteria getting to the area as easily. But there aren't really any disadvantages to shaving it off. You just have to be careful, because the skin there is very sensitive. Shaving can irritate the skin and razor burn can be really itchy and the skin can become red and bumpy, just like razor burn anywhere else. Also, when the hair is growing back it can become itchy, but once you get the hang of it, its just like shaving your legs! Some guy like it shaved, fully or partly, or some guy like it natural, so you must not feel like you have to but if its a personal preference then theres not reason why you shouldn't.
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I'm a 16 year old female and I have been dating a boy for about 3 years, we are very close and really care about each other. We are also about to move in together in a few months. But i also have this other guy he was my first love and i dont think we ever truly let go of one another. The other weekend he and i went camping with some friends and we got alot closer it feels as though we rekindle that old flame. I love my current boyfriend alot and dont want to lose or hurt him but when im with this other boy i feel that same love for him.
What should i do?
Someone please help.
Signed,
Confused Heart (link)
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Your first love is always really special, it's something you'll never forget. Which is why your feeling this towards him. You first have to find out whether your ex feels the same way you do, and whether he wants a relationship and its not jsut old feels rising to the surface that are quickly going ot be forgotten again. But you've got to ask yourself: is it really worth throwing away your current relationship on the hopes that you'll rekindle the feelings you both had? It's as simple as that, if you feel that it is worth the risk then you have to trust your feeling and go for it. But if not, if your not sure that you want to risk what you've got then you have your answer.
you've jsut got to trust yourself.
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Alright, my bf doesn't want me to come with to pick up his best friend at the airport because he says it's his friend and I don't even know him. But what's the big deal? He makes a big deal about it and I just want to come with my bf.
What do you guys think about it? (link)
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Don't worry about it. you boyfriend is probably thinking about you, even if the way he put it doesn't show you that. If he hasn't seen his friend in a long time they'll be catching up and talking non-stop about stuff you may not know about (especially if you don't know his friend). So Your boyfriend probably just doesnt want you to feel left out and uncomfortable. Plus, if you're there then he feels that his attention had to be divided between the two of you which means that, either you'll feel that your being ignored a little bit or his friend feels like he's being ignored. your boyfriend probably just wants to do this by himself to make the situation easier for everyone and i'm sure you'll get to meet this friend, of course your boyfriend will want to show you off to him, but you can do it in a better, more comfortable situation.
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how can you tell if your boyfriend is cheating on you? (link)
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If you suspect your boyfriend is cheating on you then there isn't really a way of finding out. Relationships are based on trust and if your doubting him then the trust is being tested. If you try underhanded ways of finding out, such as reading the messages on his phone, if you find out he's not then you'll feel so guilty that you suspected that he was. OR if you get caught he's going to be more angry than if you came out and asked him straight. So my advice is to ask him, but be tactful about it. Ask him if there's anything he needs to tell you, or how he feels your relationship is going. If he's going to tell you then you'd be giving him the best time to. you could even tell him how you really feel about him. All these things may make him reconsider his actions (if he is cheating) and he may realise what he's doing is wrong, and if he's not thn no harm done.
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What should I do if my cousin keeps callin my boyfreind just because they work together? She says that they just have a "sister brother" relationship ,but he says that he can't stand it when she calls. I confronted her about callin him everyday and told her to stop but she keeps callin! When I try to talk to her about the situation she acts all childish and doesn't want to talk. So I try to talk to my other friends about it but they tell her what I be saying even though I want to tell her myself and now my boyfriends upset because he thinks that I want to fight her so he wants to sqaush the whole thing. 17andconfused! (link)
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I know she's your cousin and you did the right thing by confronting her about it first. but if it's your boyfriend that doesn't like her calling him then maybe he should be the one to talk to her. If they have that 'sister brother' relationship then they should be able to talk, or maybe you could talk to her together. Just say that you dont appreciate her calling, keep the conversation casual and don't let it get too heavy or she might feel as though you're both attacking her. Just explain how its making you feel and she should understand.
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