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uhh...
ok so this guy and me have been bff since forever!!
so recently i started to like him and i told him he said he thinks he likes me too..
only thing is he has a gf
he has been sayin for over a month that he is gonna break up with her but when ever i ask about it now he trys to avoid the subject.
he has been flirting alot lately
and we have gotten more "physical"
and he keeps tellin me how he loves me and doesnt want to lose me.
then why wont he break up with M??
i need help does he like me or should i just go back to being friends?
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It sound like he does like you but he's torn between you and his girlfriend. It sound like he doesn't wan to make a decision. maybe he doesn't want to risk your friendship, i mean, if you date, and then break up you have to be sure that you could go back to being just friends. Maybe he's scared he'll loose you and so he's delaying breaking up with his girlfriend so he can be sure because it would be awful to loose your friend over. But you can't let him mess you around forever. He has to decide at some point. you've told him how you feel and he's said he like you back, so i think you need to talk to him again. Ask him why he hasn't broken up with her. Try and talk through it.
Hope i helped!
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Well, it looks like this guy is not ready to break up with his girlfriend. There may be a couple different reasons for that:
1) Maybe he wants to break up with her, but is afraid of hurting her, and hasn't worked up the courage to do it yet.
2) Perhaps he still likes her, but likes you too, and isn't sure what he wants to do.
3) Or Maybe he has no intention of leaving his girlfriend, and is stringing you along because he doesn't want to hurt you. Or because he's a dog and wants to have his cake and eat it too.
Whatever the case is, I think you should back off for a while until he figures out what he wants. Remember, no matter what he tells you, he IS taken right now, so essentially he is still off limits. If he truly likes you and wants to be your boyfriend, he'll eventually break up with his girfriend and go out with you.
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