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how do you make friends?
hey everyone!
its really hard for me to make friends.
do you know any tips on making friends?
im really quiet, so it's hard for me.
HELP!
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Maybe give some free advice about: Friendship?
Take interest in what people say.
when a class disscusion is started participate.
never fake who you are though.
Always be yourself just become a little more outgoing.
and possibly make friends with other quiet people.
Another suggestion would be to join clubs.There you could meet people with the same interests as you=]
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If you see someone in your school who is( shy and quiet ) just go up to them and say hey whats your name? my names ______
then you can just hang out and become friends.
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I know that it can be hard making firends, especially if you're quiet. but my advice is to just be yourself and put yourself out there. Set yourself challenges each day, such as:
making sure you talk to three new people each day. it can jsut be introducing yourself, or asking them something. It'll get easier once you build up your confidence. I used to be quiet but then i moved to a school where i didn't know anyone and so i had to talk to people. Once you've made yourself do it once, its not so scary. Whats the worst that can happen form putting yourself out there? Just go for it, soon you'll be saying hi everywhere you go because you'll be bumping into people you know all the time.
Hope i helped.
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Group activities- ask someone to the movies, tell them to bring a friend.
Get involved in extracirricular activities- sports, clubs, hobbies, classes, whatever you like. Whether it's dance class or french club, you'll find people who like the same things you do.
This book might help you:
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I'm shy and quiet, but somehow after I met my best friend, who knew other people, then I met them and their friends, I became very outgoing, lol. :] It's not that hard, just come up to a person who looks friendly and just say 'hi' or 'whats up', and soon you'll start talking. Just talk about what you like to do, your pets, siblings. If the person doesn't look very interested, don't keep trying to talk to them.. lol, not everyone is friendly. =P
Hope I helped! ♥
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well just say something like hi how are you and that usually gets people talking to you..or join some kind of school group.OR if some one your interested in being friends with says something first just say something back then the next time you see them say something to them first like hi to get the ball rolling again..the more you do this the more people will talk and the closer youll get to friendship..
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