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hey so im 13 and my boyfriends 16 turning 17 in a couple days. we've been dating a couple weeks but i want to get or do something really special (nothing sexual) but i have no idea what!!:( i need help fast...please help thx XOXO (link)
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well theres several things you can do..cook him dinner.
Or get really personal by making a scrapbook of your relationship with pics,letters, movie ticket stubs,ect. or write a poem about how much you like him, how you felt when you first met, ect.
The best gifts in life cant be bought.
and it will def. be special or since its only been a few weeks it may be too soon but it'd make a great christmas gift.
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My cat eats his crisps but he doesn't eat any of the other cat food...like the meat.
Does anyone know what might be wrong?
He's been like this for almost two weeks now.
He also has a slight fever...could this be affecting him? But we're giving him medication for that.
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there could be a few things going on causing him not to eat. For a while my cat wouldnt eat or feed her kittens because of a change in her environment. My sister was moving back home and the furniture being rearranged and new faces made her panic and stress so she stopped eating.
I would analyze if theres any change going on and try to help your cat cope with it the best you can.
Change can include:
1] new pet.
2] new people.
3] moving.
4] or anything irregular to its lifestyle.
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it's wrong... because YG is supposed to be this family bonding..or what ever people continue to say...
DOES ANYONE ELSE HAVE THIS PROBLEM?!
where they like someone from their YG (or from school etc.)yet their like a best friend to you...and you couldn't dare take the chance to lose him as a friend?
You realize.."alright just be happy with what you have right now..which is a great friendship." But UGH that thought or imagination of what it would be like to be something more than just friends brainwashes you.
WELCOME to MY WORLD... hmm 7-8 months only...i've been like this... Don't get me wrong i attend to church for my unconditional love with God..but yet theres him...my bestfriend someone who never looks bad..someone who just i can't see but only him...it's like i'm left in a room with ONLY him and no one else.
HMMM more about us...well you see..this boy... lets call him darien shall we? :)
Darien well he's kinda shy...meaning he's not that average boy who can just jump up to any girl and talk to her right away...it's always a girl who talks to him first THEN he will start to talk to her..But OK so me and darien...supposdly people from YG has thought that he has liked me...because i'm a rare girl who he talks to A LOT... they say i'm his "no.1 girl best friend"
which i don't mind :) But yet...
i like him...and yet..i always wonder WHAT IS WRONG WITH ME...personally i'm not afraid to admit the fact that no..i am not ugly...i'm perfectly fine. I'm smart straight As all the way. I'm nice friendly funny...i'm a big social clown... So i ask...whats wrong with me...i try to look for reasons as to why he WOULDN'T like me more than a friend... (cocky of me..i know)
so i asked a friend one day and she said "wow..ok i swear darien likes you...or as least has..because online he just would always talk about you..and say oh serena said that too! or serena this and serena that..." So one time my friend asked him..."Do you like ashely?" (ashely is a girl from yg..who also likes him) he said flatly no... then my friend asked "what about serena?" He NEVER said no..all he typed in was She's nice...and he would change the topic...
IS THAT A SIGN?
NOW DAYS...it's been obvious that i like him..
so we went to a retreat...
BEAUTIFUL...
all our cabins next to a lake with about 170 people there in total.. we went canoeing together (me and darien) and...i sat on the swings alone..and he sat with me and we had a swinging contest :P i WON..hahahahhaha
anywho
While we were on the canoes people said "SERENA THIS ISN'T A ROMANTIC GET AWAY!" and they were kidding cause they had a foolish wild grin on their face but those people all knew about my secret with darien.
darien just said..haha sigh*
and it sucks...being stuck on that boat with the dude you like...and being embarassed so i just coughed unconditionally several times and said i was fine (i didn't know what else to do!)
i kept thinking to myself...it done..he knows... becuz funny thing is..when we land the canoe onto shore my friends see my and darien and they yell. "OH MY GOD SERENA I'M SO PROUD OF YOU!" and gave me the thumbs up.
i just laughed...and ran to the swings..he joined me and we had fun...
OK now heres the other part
So we had encouragement notes..where we can each write anyone in the retreat a note...and put it in their mail box ...
he wrote me one..he drew us on a canoe and said hope you had a great retreat and goodtimes on teh canoe and swinging :) see ya later!
i was so happy...
and i was even HAPPIER when i found out that none of my girl friends from yg got one from him.
then of course when retreat ended we talked a lot on AIM.
is this a sign? :p
haha i suck at this...
i'm sorry...wat a bother to be reading about my stupid life...but if you just want to be a jolly fellow and leave any advice or comments..feel free to do so...:) (link)
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Wow, so when I was reading this my exact life situation fit almost perfectly.
I like this guy in my youth group.
He's so amazing and Im constantally thinking about him.
Hes one of my best friends and we talk sooo much.
I started off with intentions of being just friends but fell in love with our friendship along the way.
For a while I was conflicted between being "just friends" or making a move. I decided that I didnt want to live my life wondering "what if..?" So this thursday at youth group I plan on telling him. And even if he does reject me i'll still be his friend. Yeah it may be ackward at first but that ackwardness will eventually fade.
Just go with your gut feeling.
From what you say it seems like he likes you but I cant completely tell because Im not the one whos in your shoes.
And its totally sweet that he left only you a note at camp. =D
[oh and btw my friends do the same thing. Everytime they see us hanging out at church they smile and say things like "awww" or "ooo la la." it's quit embarrassing but i just laugh it off. and so does he.]
I say go for it. What do you have to lose?
xoxo stephaniexsunshine
If what i said hasn't really helped or youre still confused then just pray about it. God will give you the answers. And he def. wouldnt put someone in your life who shouldnt be there or who wont teach you a lesson in the long run.
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What is a good video I could put on my myspace (from Youtube)
Like one of those kinda well known ones...right now I have "the Bom Chicka Wah Wahs" "Obama Girl" and "Tea Partay"
They don't have to be like really well known, but if you know any of those videos, you'd know that theyre all music videos.
So anyone know any good ones like those? (link)
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If your looking for funny music then I would most def. recommend you look up scotty vanity.His songs are great=]
If your looking for a hot guy lip singing and dancing to very popular songs look up rusko star.
And lastly if your just looking for a good laugh,look up chris crocker.He is a real teenager who records how he feels about certain topics and its sooooo funny.
Check them out.
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Does anyone know of some cool websites that you can play with other people online? Some cool ones not some boring ones! Thanks in advance! (link)
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www.yahoo.com has games such as pool you can play against others.I most def. recommend it.
You can also try gsn.com You can play games that appear on game show network such as Lingo or other fun games against real people here.
Lastly I would recommend Runescape.com Its like an ancient sims.you actually get to live in a world with other characters controlled by real people.And make and sell things to upgrade in the level.
I was hooked and ususally thats not my kind of game.
So check those 3 out=]
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what are the signs girls get before there period? like befoe they start for the first time :D (link)
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Sometimes you will get spotting of blood or an odd colored discharge.
Pubic and Armpit hair are also a sign that its not to far away.
But chances are you will cramp or your stomach will feel oddly different.
If you have any or all signs def. carry pad or tampon with you at all times just in case=]
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ok wat is fingering.. and how cna i masturbate..? (link)
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Basically fingering is the act of touching your vagina.This can either be rubbing and playing with your clit or actually inserting your fingers in your into the vagina.
The purpose of it is to satisfy your hormones and create relaxation.I also think that it helps builds confidence.
If you are a female then masterbation and figering are the same thing.
Hope I helped.
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would it be weird/unlikely if a 15 year old, almost 16(10th grade) dated a 13 year old(8th)? (link)
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Society may judge you and say its wrong but in my opinion theres nothing wrong with it.
Who you fall for is beyond your control.
It would be pointless to pass up someone that could love you and treat you well just because a few people think its "wierd".
Do what you feel is right and not what others feel is right.
Plus if no one ever broke the typical standards of society everything would be exactly the same so really you'd be helping everyone.
Just go for it=]
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On myspace it shows when people are on it says "online now" whenever i sign on myspace it never shows that im on. How do i change that? (link)
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I'll try and explain it a little better:
1]Click account settings next to your default picture.
2]Once there the the fifth box down will say privacy setting,click it.
3]The the third box on that page will say hide online now.
4]If its checked then uncheck it.
5]Latly,click change settings.
you may have to type in a verification code but then you just go home and it will show that your online=]
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What things can i do when taking myspace pictures with my friend. like ive kissed her on the cheek,wrote stuff on my hand, post it notes, stuck out my tongue, scrunched my face, danced,pretended to take a picture of her with my hand, opened my mouth-like as a shock, peace sign,shapes with hands-heart,circle,ect, blew a bubble, and smiled, sad face.
please anything else?
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well you could:
1]hold onto a pole like a stop sign.
2]pretend to shoot each other only with a water gun.
3]Pretend your reading a book only make the book upside down.
4]Have one of you laying on the groung outlined in chalk like your dead.
5]Or draw a big picture on the ground with the chalk and sit by it.
6]Take picture of you doing kid things like hop scotch.
7]play dress up[its actually fun].
8]Wear silly masks
9]take a picture with the sunset as bakground.
10]go to the park and take pictures swinging or sliding
11]eating always makes funny picture.
12]draw on fack moustaches[super fun]
13]pretend sleeping
14]fake fighting
and lastly
15]just pose in unusual places like in a dog cage,ect.
......well hope I could help.........
ill let you know if i come up with any more=]
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wat is a blow job? exacrtly....please no links! just tlel me! (link)
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like the person below me answered it is the act of a person putting their mouth to a males penis.
But if you were wanting to know how to do it i will explain for you:
To give a blow you suck and lick the penis.
Its all about pleasure for the male.
Men like when you lick the tip of they're penis and slid your tounge up dnd down.
When giving a blow job you "jack" the guy off which is basically moving your hand up and down the penis.
It all depends on the guy=]
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My brother has this friend who i really like.i told my brother that i liked him and he told his friend,sence then,it is just weird..he knows i like him and he didn't even say anything or do anything about it. does this means he doesn't like me back and just wants to ignore me and hope i go away? so should i just move on or keep waiting for something to happen?? i have no idea what to do and i am mad that nothing is happening. i mean i really like him and i just wish it could work out. by the way i am 15/F (link)
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I was in the same situation as you are.
I liked this boy and had my friend tell him.
I was devistated when he didn't ask me out right away.I just figured it would be best just to let him go but part of me said go for it.
So I did.I was extra flirty but didn't make it too ovious.I never gave up despite the struggle for his attention.
About 3 weeks later he called me and asked me out.
I was surprised but happy,my plan had worked.
See guys take longer to make up their minds but they eventualy will.
So if he ignores you for a while dont let him go just keep reminding him of whats avalable with your body language and flirty attitude.
But always remember...don't make yourself too available.
And if he doesnt respond to any of this after a month or two I would either talk to him about it or let him go...its your choice.
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Ok so I have quite a few pimples on my nose! There not big! But the never go away! I use this pimple stuff on my nose ,but still the don't go away! I also try to wash my once a day! Sometimes when there really a pain I try and pick them off! NOTHING IS WORKING! Please help and fast I really want to fix this problem before school starts!
And please don't recomend another pimple removel stuff!
PLEASE HELP! AND THANKS IN ADVANCE! (link)
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okay what works for me because i have the same problem is mud masks.You can buy them at walmart,kmart,target,drug stores,ect.
They really do help.
+ it leave your skin soft and fresh feeling.
i would use it about 1-2 times a week.
I bet you'll see a different.
Something else that might help is every morning after you clean your face rub an ice cube over it.
Yes it sounds crazy but it closes your pores to prevent less dirt to get in the and cause acne.
These two things really work for me.I majorly suggest them=]
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ok when a guy fingers you how many fingers does he use? i mean i know it probably depends but... just generally? (link)
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Like you said it depends.
but on an average 1-3.
you have him start off with one then add another.
It justs depends on whatever feels good to you.
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hey can anyone gimme a list of any cool bands that sound good. i like marilyn manson so something kinda like that. i dont like screamy things too much but it cant be too soft either. ok thanx (link)
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You obviously are not looking for Death Metal (all screaming) but heavy metal (hard rock) will work. Marlyn Manson is considered Heavy Metal/shock rock ! Bands Most like Marlyn
Manson is Rage Against the machine & Jefree Star.
Jefree Star
The Used
The Cure
Black Society
Avenged Sevenfold
Velvet Revolver
Mc5
Motorhead
Rage Aganist The Machine
Disturbed
Social Distortion
Anti-flag
The Fine Line
The Misfits
Nirvana
Peaches
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I'm 13 years old & female.
I've been really depressed lately..
Not when I'm around my family or friends,
so they don't notice it.
I try to be happy around them.
I just need help.
When I'm alone I get really sad & it gets hard for me to breathe..
& I don't even know WHY I'm feeling like this.
I don't want any websites or hotlines.
I just need to do something to help myself.
Any advice? (link)
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Ive def. been there and done that.
every typical teenager goes through depression.
and every teenager has different ways to solve it.
What I did was spoil myself.
i had no idea what was bothering me so i couldnt exactly fix something i knew nothing about.
So instead I did things that made me happy.
1. blast my music and dance around
2.ate tons of icecream.
3.went to the movies.
4.did a self-makover.
Eventually it helped.
so i suggest to just relax as much as possible.
But always remember you do need to cry sometimes.
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hi. im 15/f n i have had sex with my boyfriend several times. i rele do love him and i do find him attractive but for some reason i can never have an orgasm when we have intercourse. it feels good for him and just ok for me. he trys to make me feel good but i never come close to climax. thanks for listening. (link)
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umm im not too sure what to tell you.
all I can suggest is to try new positions.Maybe the ones your trying just arnt satisfying enough.
and most def. talk to your boyfriend.
this is just on of those questions no one but you two can solve.
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Okay so I have really curly hair (15/m). But like only on the sides.
But I straighten it using a flat iron.
So it looks right (i have it emo-ish).
BUt yesterday I started summer band.
And we march outside for 4 hours a day in 100 degree heat.
And when I sweat my hair gets damp,
and it curls.
Is there anyway I can stop that?
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If you go to wal-mart or stores like walmart you can find tons of different gels and different strenght hairsprays.
I would guess the gels would help a lot.
find one thats super strength.
They may even have one for your circumstance.
The brand I would suggest is Bed HeaD.
Its the kind my brother uses and he seems to like it.
but if all else fails you can wear a hat[[if they allow it]]
hope i helped=]
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Hi it's me again..
Do you really have to be 16 to get a tragus piercing? Or is it only at some places. (link)
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some piercers make you wait but others dont.Most of the time they let you just as long as you have a partents concent.
Like her in illinois you can get that done at 15 but anything oral you have to wait until 16.
I would suggest to call someplaces and look around on the internet.
Even if most places say no you can still find one that will slide the rules.
((i got my lip pierced at 14,,even though they werent supposed))
btw the tragus piercing is super cute.
Im concidering getting it done=]
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if youre being fingered can the guy tell if you're a virgin or not? what about if you're having sex with him? can he tell?
thanks. (link)
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well he might not be able to tell because a lot of girls dont bleed after the first time having sex because their "cherry" might have alrighty popped from something as simple as falling off a bike as a child or inserting a tampon wrong so i wouldnt worry about the blood. But it all depends on how long ago you had sex.But most chances are he wont be able to tell from fingering you or having sex.
so nothing to worry about=]
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