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Going to the airport with my boyfriend. =/
Alright, my bf doesn't want me to come with to pick up his best friend at the airport because he says it's his friend and I don't even know him. But what's the big deal? He makes a big deal about it and I just want to come with my bf.
What do you guys think about it?
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I know it's hard for us girls to understand sometimes [even me], but guys are like girls. In the way that they want their guy time, just like we want our girl time. You know, like we have girls night out and sleepovers and all of that. Guys do different things of course, but still have fun with just the guys. So I don't think you have anything to worry about, and I would just let him be.
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I think your boyfriend just wants to go by himself to pick up his friend, maybe so they can have some "bonding" time & catch up on things before they get back home, Just let him go =] you'll be able to see your boyfriend when he gets back, dont worry about it too much
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I think you're making a big deal out of this. He's right, it's his friend and you don't know him.
Would you like it if he came with when you were going to pick up one of your best girl friend ? Wouldn't you want to catch up with her on you're own, and do your fun girly stuff ?
I'm sure that's just what he wants. To catch up with his guy friend who he hasn't seen in a while, and do some fun guy stuf together.
Don't worry about it, you're probably going to see his friend sooner or later. But give your boyfriend some space.
Hope I helped!
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Don't worry about it. you boyfriend is probably thinking about you, even if the way he put it doesn't show you that. If he hasn't seen his friend in a long time they'll be catching up and talking non-stop about stuff you may not know about (especially if you don't know his friend). So Your boyfriend probably just doesnt want you to feel left out and uncomfortable. Plus, if you're there then he feels that his attention had to be divided between the two of you which means that, either you'll feel that your being ignored a little bit or his friend feels like he's being ignored. your boyfriend probably just wants to do this by himself to make the situation easier for everyone and i'm sure you'll get to meet this friend, of course your boyfriend will want to show you off to him, but you can do it in a better, more comfortable situation.
hope i helped.
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I think you should let him go to the airport and pick up his friend. If he doesn't want you there, that is kinda rude but it should be okay. Maybe he hasn't seen his friend in a while. Even if you go, you probably will feel very out of place, because his friend and your bf will be talking and catching up on things, and you will be sitting in the corner. So maybe your boyfriend was trying to save you from the awkwardness. Hope i helped!
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Of course it's hard for you to understand. But, try and put yourself in his shoes. Your friend is coming the whole way from a different state to visit you, and if you're there that's awesome, but if you have your boyfriend there with you, it'll take all the attention off of your friend & they'll feel left out, or like a third wheel.
I think that him not letting you go to the air port is seriously like the best decision he could make. You'll be able to meet his friend, it's probably just because he hasn't seen him in a while & he wants some time alone. Like, guy bonding time.
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He probably just wants some guy time with him. He doesn't want you to feel left out when they talk and stuff.
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well he probably just missed his friend and just wants to drive him from the air port on his own because he wants to visit with his friend right away and do some male bonding with him
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